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Grr. My ex-Bf..
lovescream
post Feb 7 2005, 01:09 AM
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Um, my ex-bf.. I dislike him so much. mad.gif
He gave his friend/my friend a note that said "Anthony (My crush) doesn't like Toby (me) and never will, so she shouldn't like him and I don't want her to get hurt." and another saying "Tell toby that I can get all the girls I want, but I still want her."

and other notes about saying how much he loves me and all that junk.
i know it sounds sweet, but I dont wanna sound harsh or mean but, it's really lame. I mean.. we've been broken up for about 2 months i think. he's stalking me, at school of course. I mean as in following me around and junk. =x it's scary.

i've talked to him, but I don't nkow how to get him to stop obsessing over me. it's scary and annoying and freaky, but sweet. ;x I think he should move on. he doesn't. he just wants me... and I don't want him to. So the next time I talk to him, what should I say?
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swtlildreamz
post Feb 7 2005, 01:21 AM
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Tell him, "Move on, sucker!!" lol nah. Actually, uhm..you gotta confront him about your feelings. Tell him that you don`t have the same kind of feelings for him as he does for you anymore&that you have moved on, and so should he. Also let him know that he shouldn`t ruin your love life just because he`s overly-obsessed with you. It may sound "harsh" to him, but hey...we all gotta move on, no? I don`t know the reason of you guys breaking up to begin with, but yeah. You can`t continue to cling onto one, hoping that you`d get them back. That solely depends on both of your feelings - if it`s still there and WILL continue to grow stronger. Don`t let a guy ruin your chances with other guys because of his selfishness!! wacko.gif
 
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post Feb 7 2005, 01:22 AM
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uhhhh ....if the being nice doesn't work.. then just straight up bitch at him =)

or you can use his trick.. write a note saying "i really cant stiand him right now, the more hes acting like this the more freaked out i am... i whish he'd just get a life n move on"
 
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post Feb 7 2005, 03:11 PM
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^hey alice, did u read my response in that other post? i think it was titled, "mad at friends." happy.gif

if being nice won't work, there's always the method of being satanic and ebil beyond all reason and like *roar, blah, away fiend away!* cause like, stalkers are just nasty...
 
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post Feb 7 2005, 05:25 PM
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Keep kicking him in the balls until he gets the message.
 
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post Feb 7 2005, 05:48 PM
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Could :
--ignore him.
--flick him the *cough* middle finger *cough*.
--tell him that you're already interested in someone else..
--kick his a**.
--b*tch at him.
--Yell.
--get one of your guy friends to walk you to and from class and stuff like that.
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