I have a problem, im a mom |
 Mar 17 2004, 07:24 PM
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Daym im only 15 and i have a 3 month old daughter my husband divorced me. i dont know what to do and i know this isnt the place to talk about it but i cant find any other place i need advice. i really do.
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Aug 16 2004, 08:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 421 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,135 |
i would say you go straight down to welfare and they could help you out.
my bf's friend is older and he just lives in his parents house and has two kids. they're planning on a third even though they can't pay for them but the government can. you should get help from the government. |
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Aug 20 2004, 04:03 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
i think that you chose to have unprotected sex and the results were a baby, so if your looking for sympathy im all out when your pregnant unless you were raped then i can make an exception but u made the choice, now live with it....im sure theres welfare out there like foodstamps and thrift stores in your neighbor hood anyways im sorry for being harsh but its the truth
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Aug 20 2004, 09:09 AM
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having a child at 15 is hard, cuz if u still have skool an all, ull need someone to care for ur child. not to mention responding to their needs
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Aug 20 2004, 09:18 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,500 |
first off how old were you when you got married?! if you had a kid at 15 were you only married for 9 months or something? if you want to keep your baby, i can only say get help right away- if your parents are still behind you, then get a monetarily good job and ask your parents to pay for stuff if you pay for some too...my dad's girlfriend has a a 19 year old daughter with a 2 year old daughter- shes sort of in the same situation because she had her kid when she was 16- she dropped out of high school and now lives with her mom [and pays for nothing] so just dont follow in her path..thats all i can tell you...
  i hope you figure something out
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Aug 20 2004, 07:17 PM
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 KATHY WiTH A "K" Group: Member Posts: 441 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,184 |
FiRST OFF, i`M SORRY ABOUT YOUR SiTUATiON. SECONDLY, MAYBE YOU SHOULD GET YOUR PARENT'S HELP. THEN YOU CAN FiNiSH HiGH SCHOOL, GO TO COLLEGE N AT LEAST HAVE A DEGREE.
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Aug 20 2004, 07:30 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Wow.
This is OLD. Jeez. Sounds fake to me.. |
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Aug 24 2004, 12:18 AM
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 :yawn: i'm sweepy. Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,526 |
wow. sweetie if you want to help this baby have a great life, i think you need to get off of the computer and spend time with that baby. hopefully your parents will help you with the baby and you can continue to go to school and get an education becasue in the long run that will help both you and your child. i hope everything works out for you. you'll be in my thoughts.
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| *FreeStickers* |
Feb 4 2005, 04:14 PM
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...you can get married at 15?
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Feb 4 2005, 04:37 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
QUOTE(waccoon @ Mar 23 2004, 3:27 PM) why doesnt rei answer at all? she was the one asking for help, and it's been almost a week since your plea. you may be going through some shit, but asking people on a xanga forum for help? sounds just like someone who has too much time on their hands to me.  HAHAHAHA yah where is the girl now. She hasnt commented. I totally agree |
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| *Fallen_Fairy* |
Feb 4 2005, 04:38 PM
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That's sad. I'm hoping that at least you have the support of your family.
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Feb 4 2005, 05:10 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
go to ur parents or a shelter? or get a job and support urself and kid?
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Feb 4 2005, 05:28 PM
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suck me SWEET! Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,985 |
why is this oOOooOLD topic back? o.O'
hmm....people please read. :-/ |
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Feb 4 2005, 07:12 PM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
isnt it illegal to be married before 18 ?
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Feb 4 2005, 07:27 PM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
good luck w/ tht-- seems kinda out there to me, but if it really happened, then ya might wanna talk to a counciller or somethin ya know?? professional help~!!!!!
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Feb 4 2005, 09:21 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
how did you marry someone at the age of 15? parents signed some paper? anyway.. im sorry to hear that. i think this is the part where you seek for your mom's help. i mean, she raised you didn't she? she can help, she's been in a baby situation before. if not then ask one of your best friends if she can help for a little. go to her place and stay there until you get a job or something. i dont know. i tried my best.
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Feb 4 2005, 09:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 137 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,577 |
..had sex.... 15.. mom.. 3 months-old daughter.. married.. divorced.. wow so much at just 15.. ask ur parents for help......
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Feb 4 2005, 09:39 PM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
QUOTE(FreeStickers @ Feb 4 2005, 4:14 PM) ...you can get married at 15? You revived this topic.... because? |
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