drifting away, from reality Options

[lilsweetdevil08]

I have mood disorders like a mental person does. But I'm not mentally retarded. I don't want to be one of those people that just type and act all goopy and stuff. Lately...I have these really long periods of depression. I have about 3 weeks-5 months of depression. I don't know what i would do. My boyfriend and I have been pulling away because of my depression. I'm not happy and he keeps telling me to smile. I tell him I cna't because I don't feel happy enough to smile. I don't know why I went into depression. I mean, He makes me so happy and I love him so much...but then again...Do I really love him? I can fix my own problems, I already have so much...I don't know. Someone give me help.

[lilsweetdevil08]

HELP PLEASE!!! PLEASE PLEASE!!!

[krispy_kreme333]

how do you want us to help?? i dont really understand what you want.

[*mishyerr*]

You probably don't really love him. Depression comes from yourself. 'Depression' is not really a disease or anything.. its your own mind that controls your 'happiness.' Seriously, I was depressed before, too. And I had no clue why.. But I realized it's only cause I looked at a world in a pessimistic way, instead of an optimistic way. I know it's hard to get over depression.. You should talk to someone about it, not online, but in person. Try your boyfriend, parents, counselor, older friends. They should all help. ^^

[cmgchica717]

Ok I doubt anyone here at CB can help you with your depression. I highly suggest seeing a doctor so they can give you medication to calm your depression

[*Programmer*]

you could try anti depressents like zoloft or somthing...i've heard those have helped people suffering from major depression..counseling might help to. To get your worries and problems out in the air instead of just holding them in.
depression is a serious thing seek help

[shortiiex]

do double posting..
anyway you say you have a lot of problems...what are they?

[to-devastate]

Gosh. I see that you're impatient. Only 6 minutes after you posted, you expect us to reply to you so fast?
Anywho, everyone goes through depression. Maybe letting your feelings out to a person will help you feel better. Tell someone what you're feeling. Find a person, maybe your boyfriend or someone you can trust, and just spill out. Bottled emotions isn't healthy, hun.

[sunissed14127]

you should see a doctor about your depression. there is really nothing we can do here....hope you get better!

[lilJdawg]

Just tell somebody (like your parents, adult, consolers, therpist, etc.) your feelings, maybe then you won't feel so depressed. None of us can help you overcome your depression, you gotta' do it YOURSELF. Try to cheer yourself up & be happy.

[DixieDaCutie]

hm. ...talk it over w/ ur parents or friends, maybe you jus need something 2 spoof up ur life... i dunno... feel bttr!! when im depressed its only 4 like a day or so, so ya might wanna look in2 tht. oo, n spend more time doing whatevr u really enjoy doing w/ ur friends

[Shattered_Hope]

You can:
see a doctor
see a counselor
talk to your family
talk to your friends
and ....talk to your boyfriend....

[yukichan]

you could try anti depressents like zoloft or somthing...i've heard those have helped people suffering from major depression..counseling might help to. To get your worries and problems out in the air instead of just holding them in.
depression is a serious thing seek help

yup i agree..talk to someone u trust..maybe u rnt happy...i was kinda like that before..try to look at something and see the good things to it...i used to c only the bad stuff to things...try look at the good things and u might feel better...

[*instantmusic*]

why are you doubting yourself so much. this boy is still with you while you've been gloomy for this long. tomorrow, you will be happy, because you found a guy that will stick with you even through your cloudiest moments. go to mcdonalds on a sunny day, go to the mall with him and a bunch of your friends and have a nice life. enjoy enjoy.

i know your asking yourself is he for me. yes. now go. live happy. said the wise man.

[Wishful_Dream]

i had depression before.. =/ but it was weird.. tho.. i had it like 6 months ago? lol~ i liked this guy.. anddd i was about to confess but he told me he liked a girl already.. so i tried to find out who.. when he wouldn't tell me i gave up.. and i got into depression O_O like i avoiding everyone and wanted everyone to leave me alone.. i just felt so alone and sad.. i can't really describe sorry.. =/ in the end.. i found out he liked me back.. but he doesn't anymore so it was my fault for likeee kicking him out of my life. =/

good luck with your depression.. and you know, your friends and family will always be there for you to cheer you all the way. so never suicide, and try to smile more. a smile can brighten anyone's day, and i think in this case, your boyfriend's. =)

[Mr. Slowjamz]

I have mood disorders like a mental person does. But I'm not mentally retarded. I don't want to be one of those people that just type and act all goopy and stuff. Lately...I have these really long periods of depression. I have about 3 weeks-5 months of depression. I don't know what i would do. My boyfriend and I have been pulling away because of my depression. I'm not happy and he keeps telling me to smile. I tell him I cna't because I don't feel happy enough to smile. I don't know why I went into depression. I mean, He makes me so happy and I love him so much...but then again...Do I really love him? I can fix my own problems, I already have so much...I don't know. Someone give me help

hey there, its ok if u have these long sessions of depression . heh , the funny thing is that when i read your statement , its as similar as the situation im going through right now . honestly i do have these long periods of depressions , and not just 3-5 months , ive had them for years . and yes ive struggled through those times ....and damn was it hard. Just dont think so negatively . Simple things and mistakes can destroy you , and i know mostly everything you expect is not going your way , but hey, thats life. What everyone said is true , about the way u think , and if things go wrong , just forget about it , and think about something else, think positively .if your worried about something dont procrastinate , if you miss something , try to make up for it , but dont cause the problem to deepen and dwell on it . Itll just get worse to the point that u might hurt yourself . try to open up more often and dont hold those feelings back, thats why we have friends family and lovers for.

if u want to talk so more just aim me or pm a message. ill gladly respond back

[misoshiru]

you sound like you're bipolar.

[Mr. Slowjamz]

x__forever Posted Feb 5 2005, 9:28 AM

you sound like you're bipolar.

who me?

[lilsweetdevil08]

Thank you all for replying back to me....Umm...No I'm the one who has bipolar...Yea

[KissMe2408]

ur not bi-polar ok. don't let anyone tell ya that. Depression happens...it's a horrible thing I don't know what ur problems are or why ur feeling like this, but you need to talk to ur parents about it and get help. The worst thing you can do is hold all this in, because it builds up i mean it's great that ur bf is staying with you through all this time, but he's probably depressed because ur depressed. But yah you really need to get some help and do somethan about it. It's ok, nothings wrong with you...depression happens to alot of ppl. if you ever need to talk just PM me. Feel better