This guy problem..., we all have em don't we? |
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 Jan 30 2005, 12:56 PM
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 bAbYcAkEs  Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,296  |
aight so i've been liking this guy forever and forever... let's say like 2 years... and i mean he's my friend... like sorta... but everytime i find out who he likes... [which is never me] [o well] i always hook him up with her... and get him hooked up with other people... and i'm so damn scared to ask him out... what do i do... but right now he's going out with
 someone... [who i hooked him up with...] i don't wanna lose our friendship becuz that means a lot to me... [it's better than nuthin] any advice or comfort? signed, heartbroken... [x4] |
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Jan 30 2005, 01:01 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
why do you hook him up with someone when you like him?
 oh well i think when he dosent have a gf you should ask him if he likes you.
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Jan 30 2005, 01:10 PM
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watch out for jellyfish. Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,672 |
i don`t think theres much you can do, because if someone doesn`t truly like the other in the relationship, then it`s gonna be a mess T T ;;
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Jan 30 2005, 02:01 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
maybe if they eventually break up you can tell him ... cuz telling him while him & this girl are together iono how pleasant that would be
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Jan 30 2005, 03:27 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
well, it`s your fault you hooked him up with someone. you should`ve been smart enough to tell him your feelings BEFORE encouraging him to go out with someone. if not, you`ll be left in the dust. just move on. sometimes some guys aren`t worth it.
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Jan 30 2005, 03:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
Tell him you like him once they break up
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Jan 30 2005, 03:34 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Jan 30 2005, 3:27 PM) well, it`s your fault you hooked him up with someone. you should`ve been smart enough to tell him your feelings BEFORE encouraging him to go out with someone. if not, you`ll be left in the dust. just move on. sometimes some guys aren`t worth it.  I second that. |
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| *mishyerr* |
Jan 30 2005, 03:36 PM
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Are you sure you really want to date him? Seems like he's a good friend. If you guys do date, you do have the risk of losing everything prior to the new relationship.
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 30 2005, 08:03 PM
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QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Jan 30 2005, 12:27 PM) well, it`s your fault you hooked him up with someone. you should`ve been smart enough to tell him your feelings BEFORE encouraging him to go out with someone. if not, you`ll be left in the dust. just move on. sometimes some guys aren`t worth it. i also agree...and yeah its hard but i'm sure you'll be able to. |
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Jan 30 2005, 08:31 PM
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 NO. I'm not 13. or 14. or 15. or 16. Group: Member Posts: 4,616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,577 |
did you hook him up with people because you felt that he would think: "oh yeah that girl hooked me up with soandso..she's great"
i don't know..girls think that sometimes..but it rarely works. |
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Jan 30 2005, 08:43 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,577 |
i think that you should let him know later on when he isn't dating anyone and when you are ready. does it seem like he likes you? and you should stop hurting yourself by hooking him up instead of hooking you up with him.
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Jan 30 2005, 09:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
it makes noo sence to hook him up with some one else besides ur self, i mean stop hooking him up with people!! tell him how u feel, i mean w/o askin him out yet...
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Jan 30 2005, 09:45 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Hook yourself up with him.
Eh.. I have this, i guess you can kind of call friend, dude I like. I've liked him for a little more than 1 year. He never likes me though.. but I never hang out with him that much. :] We're not close friends. Sometimes we don't act like friends. But I bother him.  I just.. flirt with him. |
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Jan 30 2005, 10:39 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
 why do you hook up him up with girls he likes? shouldn't you.. not do that? anyway. how about stop hooking him up with girls. when he breaks up with his gf, ask him how he feels about you or tell him how you feel about him. |
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Jan 31 2005, 06:51 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
wait till he breaks up then hook him up w/ yourself.
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Feb 1 2005, 12:29 AM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
moved to relationships
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Feb 1 2005, 12:31 AM
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 Clawdia/Violette wants ur eyeballs Group: Member Posts: 2,116 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,477 |
well if he tells you who he likes all the time, that just means he doesnt have feelings for you....yeah, that is a hard decision but i would recommend you telling him how you really feel. If we guys are actually really good friends, then your friendship shouldnt be ruined just because of this...
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Feb 2 2005, 11:38 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I think that you should tell him how you feel.
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