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[Wishful_Dream]

my dad: he won't WORK. Gawd. He's like STOPPED working he wasn't even fired. He's TOO lazy to work. I tell him to go to work and he's like, "I'm too tired." Yet, he AND my mom goes to parties at night. he stopped working for about a month.. ><"

my mom: she's mostly sleeping nowadays cuz she goes with my dad at night and junk.. gahh.. and when she is home she feeds me MCDONALDS. I don't WANT mcdonalds.. when i reject it she gets MAD. Mcdonalds makes me sick now. I don't even know why.

my oldest sister: she has mental problems yea.. ><" but i don't wanna explain.. anyways, i hate it when she keeps yelling at night and waking me up.. it's really hard to sleep.. cuz i take like 3 hours to fall asleep.

my other sister: a BIGGER pain.. when i try to sleep she uses the computer.. there's like TWO.. but she chose that one and she puts the music up so high that its just killing me.

anyways, all i worry about is my dad.. if he doesn't work.. how's my family gonna live? i've been wondering that forever.. i don't even know if im still gonna go to college/university.. ya know.. i kinda really wanna die.. but i don't wanna suicide..

so.. can anyone help me on my dad? like.. how do i get him to go back to work? I tried telling him to.. but it's not working.

edit: anyways.. if no one replies i could understand why.. it's too long isn't it? =p anyways, i'm gonna go research on my homework now.. if anyone does reply.. i'll be really thankful =)

RE-EDIT: I'm fine now. I found out, by talking to my dad that he didn't like his job and was going to be assigned for a new one. His boss is finding him a different thing to do. So, I guess he's on vacation of some-sort. Anyways, Thank you everyone for your advice. I really appreciated it. =)
PS. Counseling does NOT work. I tried it. My family did. It does NOT work. It's just a waste of money, to me. Because, every family and person is different.

SOMEONE CLOSE THIS PLEASE.

[pinayprincess]

go to a person who can rele help since ya family is always wanting to do what they wanna do... they gotta survive in life rite?

[sunissed14127]

Maybe talk to a councelor or an Adult you can trust???

[blah1234567]

thats TERRIBLE!!! awww!!! i feel SO bad for ya! well i think you should ask a councler about this...

[xbr0kensmil3]

damn you're going through a lot. talk to a counselor or a teacher. they'll be able to help you.

[xj_liana_tx]

no the post is short actually
you feel desperate (right?)
talk to someone who can help (counselors...). Is your dad an alcoholic?
if you are old enough, try to get a job yourself too just in case.

[dahding]

i'd switch families any day.

[Wishful_Dream]

i'd switch families any day.

oh..? what's wrong with your family? mines not that bad.. i guess.. =

[yukichan]

Maybe talk to a councelor or an Adult you can trust???

ya i agree...try to talk to someone hu will understand..maybe u have a friend hu might be able to give u some food other than mcdonalds...idk...good luck..

[ItzOnlySydney]

im sorry but my family can beat the pants off of yours in a suckfest lol. trust me =)

[swtchangel]

i'd switch families any day.

okay no offense, but she kinda asked for help. not your problems. even if your problems are worse

i know you talked to your dad about going to work already, but maybe you should really sit down and talk this time. like say - "dad i thought you really cared for us, we need to live and you`re our father. dad`s are supposed to support their children. id like to go to a college one day too.and if you`re so tired, why do you go out to parties all the time?" and stuff like that, jst say the things you said to us. your dad should be tired because thats what work does.

[shewasradiant]

everyone here has already given you really great advice, and i just want to prop you for not committing suicide even when times are rough. remember, suicide is a permenent solution to a temporary problem. :]

[Tung]

hmm no offense, but you family seems to have lots of problems going on. your family may need some counseling. also liek everyone said, you really need to TALK to you dad about how you really feel.

[lilJdawg]

go talk with a family counsolor or something or a friend of your parents.

[*stephinika*]

hmm no offense, but you family seems to have lots of problems going on. your family may need some counseling. also liek everyone said, you really need to TALK to you dad about how you really feel.

agreed. he can't just do that to your entire family...good luck.

[xGlovex]

Maybe talk to a councelor or an Adult you can trust??? .. yea i agrre with her/him.

[Xprezsion]

Hey, first off, I'm really sorry about your situation. I recomend maybe going to an aunt or uncle or good friend you can trust and try to see what they can do to help you finicially and persuasivly. Goodluck!

[priyas]

Ask ur sister politely to use another computer.

About ur mom...wtvr...

For ur older sis- get her some helo

about ur dad.....i think he just doesnt want to dun force him.

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[sweetdreamsx3]

Maybe talk to a councelor or an Adult you can trust???

I agree. Hope things go better for you. It takes me about 3 hours to sleep also. Literally.

[simplyannoy]

i feel soooo bad for ya >< Although i mite not understand your exact situation (since i am not you), i hope everything works out in the end. Now time for da solutions! ^^

1) If you're old enough and have some spare time, find a job! Not only for money but for experience and just in case you do need some extra money for college/university

2) talk to your dad beforehand, in other words, try talking to him about his "work behaviour" but DO NOT BLAME him for how your family is functioning right now

3) if option 2 doesn't work then talk to an adult or a guidance counselor about it.

GOOD LUCK TO YA! YOU SEEM LIKE A STRONG PERSON! ^_^

[Shattered_Hope]

go to your guidance counselors. go to your teachers. go to your relatives....go to someone you trust and confide your faith in them that they'll be able to help you. I'm sry that you have to go through something like this.

[llpurpleskyll]

i am sorry about your situation..your parents seem quite irresponsible. eatting mcdonalds everyday??? have you watched the movie Supersized me? this guy did an experiment by eatting mcdonalds everyday and the result was bad....you should show that movie to your mom. I dont really think you can do much to change how your dad feels about work until he hit a point n has a reality check...but i dont know...

[ichiban]

I think it's time you talked to a counselor. And get a job if you can

[literemix24]

i think you should talk to your dad about it. tell him your concerned about him. and yea..try to get a job. lol x]