Talking to him again ? Options

[Skyline Drive]

Well here's the deal. I'll try my best to explain.

- My friend is having a party and I will be attending.
- The guy who I used to like is also going.
- I haven't talked too him in almost two years..
- We kind of had a thing.. but I got annoyed of him and told him to never talk to me again.
- I didn't think he would actually do it..
- I really regret saying that because I didn't mean it.
- I'm not really sure if we quit talking because I said that or he just didn't like me and thought I was a b*tch..
- I didn't treat him very well either.
- I always see him at school and we just stare blankly at each other as we walk by one another.. as if we never met.
- I think this party will be a perfect chance to see him out of school and start off fresh and hopefully become friends again.

I'm planning on just dropping by the party for a short time just to say happy birthday to my friend and chill for a while.. but I want to approach this guy and see what happens.. but how do I start talking too a guy that I haven't spoken too in practically 2 years.. ?

How would you approach a guy you haven't spoken to in such a long time and you didn't exactly treat him right ? Should I just go for the " act like it never happened approach " ? Then later with time if we start kind of talking.. I can tell him how effin sorry I am.. I don't know. What would you do ?

I'm sorry if this is confusing.

[heyyfrankie]

act like it is the movies. say, "Hi. how's it going?" and then he will say, "Alright, you?" you will say, "not that good." he will say, "why?" you will say, "first let me say that i am really sorry for all the things i have done and...."

that might work.

[dahding]

^word.

an apology might be a good thing to start off with. like, "hey i haven't talked to u in a long time and..listen, i'm sorry about etc. etc. etc..."

if u pretend like it never happened, he might think ur a bigger b**** than he actually thought. hopefully he'll forgive u. it was kinda harsh what u did. apology needed.

[*stephinika*]

^^

thats what i was thinking. just be casual though and show him you're not going to be like that towards him anymore.

[*Azarel*]

"Hey, it's been a while.. what's up?"

[lilJdawg]

"Hey, it's been a longg timme. i'm sorry for all the things i said/done. can we start over and be friends again?"

[tooeffingcrazy]

I don't think you should just JUMP into it and say your sorry. Like approach him and say "Sorry about last 2 years" Or something. It is kind of weird. Just say "Hey, what's up". And if he replies, just say your sorry.

[sunissed14127]

I'd just be like "Hey, whats been going on? I haven't talked to you in a while." or something along those lines.

[expoised]

"sorry for being such a bitch, i really hope you can forgive me. please give me another chance, please please pretty please?"

*puppy dog look*
*stick lower lip out*

"i'll love you forever and ever and ever"

[blah1234567]

you didnt confuse me at all...well i think that you should say hello to him and ask him how he is doing. then mabye say that you are sorry...

[sweetdreamsx3]

If this situation was mine, I'll go up to him and say, "Hey, how are you doing?" Just start up a normal conversation and then "Remember that time when I told you to never talk to me again? Well...I didn't really mean it." Something similar to that. :]

[Shattered_Hope]

say hello to him, then say you're sorry. Say how you didnt mean it and you were just mad. I think he will forgive you. It's been two years and I honestly doubt anyone holds a grudge that long..