best friend of the opposite sex ?, juzt wondering. |
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 Jan 30 2005, 01:27 PM
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watch out for jellyfish.  Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,672  |
my best friend is a guy .. and like it`s really cool cuz like i can talk to him about things i can`t with my girls, and he knows what my boyfriend is thinking because he`s a guy too, y`knoe ? but the annoying thing about it is that EVERYONE cums up to us and goes "you guys should go out". i would never ever ever ever go out with him. he`s like a brother to me.
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Jan 30 2005, 01:53 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
Yea last year i met my best guy friend and everyone used to come up to us and say that or "ya'll look so cute together" blah blah. But I'm still ncomfortable talking to him about things (but then again i don't talk to my girl friends about everything either). But I guess in a way I know what he's thinking and stuf when he talks about girls cos too many times we've said the same exact thing at the same time :P.
But sadly I've fallen for him. The only problem with certain guy friends. I have those friends were i would never think of it and those that I'm like hmm.. xD. |
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Jan 30 2005, 01:57 PM
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RaWr! Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,404 |
best friends are two females. Knew them about 12-13 years out of 17 years of my life
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Jan 30 2005, 02:09 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,428 |
yea i have a best guy friend who happens to be best friends with my bf..it was kinda awkward at first..but it's really cool having a best guy friend (besides the "oh you look so cute together" and "you two should totally go out")..they know what other guys are thinking and are really nice..they don't treat you like a girl..but as a friend..and that's awesome
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Jan 30 2005, 02:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,124 |
DUH! i already have one....hes like...100000000000 x better then my girlfriends..
[ i'm a girl btw] |
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Jan 30 2005, 03:08 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
i dont have a guy best friend but i do know a guy since kinder but i dont concider him a bff :shrugs:
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Jan 30 2005, 03:11 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
yeah i have a best friend that's a guy, ppl always say we should go out. eh. but the both of us has bf and gf. so yeah known him for 4 years now
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Jan 30 2005, 03:20 PM
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 hi, my name is hillary Group: Member Posts: 352 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,591 |
having best friends of the opposite sex is always a plus. me and my gbf always help each other out when we have problems with a guy/girl we like.. and its interesting to get viewpoints from the opposite sex as well because they think differently than us and can open our eyes to something we're not seeing.. it's always nice to be able to talk to a guy on that level without the intention of getting together.. (unless you are, but that's another story
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Jan 30 2005, 03:24 PM
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 can't believe I let people call me Lynne on here 5 yrs ago o Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,591 |
yea...everyone says we should go out...and his best friend (other than me) keep tellin me that he likes me...it annoys me that whenever we talk everyone starts thinkin he saked me out n i said yea...we're juss close friends..but now he likes me so its kinda weird..
oh yes and 2 of my exes r my best friends too...lol its kool thought except for the fact that my recent ex thinks i still love my other ex...he gets so jeolous..i think thats why he broke up with me  ..it must be cuz most of my friends altogether r guys...i dunno..i think i trust them more  ..
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Jan 30 2005, 03:27 PM
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 peace and love Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,946 |
 i always falll for my male best friends.its kinda weird, i mean theyre the only ones i trust with everything, and they always seem to know more about me than any other kind of person in this world.and they do make good boyfriends cause theres nothing to hide.the one thing about dating ur best friend is that if he breaks ur heart u most prolly wont be able to see him as a best friend anymore.cause that happened to me once
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Jan 30 2005, 03:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,137 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,193 |
Yeah, one of my best friends is a guy. It just seems easier for me to get along with guys for some reason... but I still have a girl best friend too.
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Jan 30 2005, 05:08 PM
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my best friend is a girl. Its great. We have know each otehr since forever and we know everything about each other. And do I mean everthing.
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Jan 30 2005, 05:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
i have a guy best friend, i think i have alot kuz i mostly talk to them bout my problems instead with all of the girls
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Jan 30 2005, 05:37 PM
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 Nessa<33 HamHam Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,924 |
my best friend is a guy and i wouldn't want it anyother way...i found out the hard way that girls are bitches and only think bout themselves....plz dont get offended
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Jan 30 2005, 06:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,783 |
yep. ppl say when he breaks up w. this other grl u should go out. this other guy, he's sort of is my best friend well he just makes me laugh a lot and gets me included in stuff and this other guy and we just talk all the time bout stuff and at the end of the day we scream each other's name across the hall. its soo fun. all of them are fun!
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Jan 30 2005, 06:26 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
psh i wish.
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Jan 30 2005, 08:34 PM
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yeah. my two best friends are guys (well one if my boyfriend) but yeah..and my ratio of guys to girls for actual friends is interesting...most are guys.
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Jan 30 2005, 08:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
no, but i want one!
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Jan 31 2005, 02:40 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
lol yah i have a best friend that's a guy. It's so awesome. And he's the best. No one really tells us we should go out nemore, because we def tried that. lol just didn't work out, we work better as friends. The weird thing is that after we went out and broke up, THATS when we started becoming best friends, lol it was a really weird situation, but we've been through alot together. and i really miss him
I haven't seen him for about 6 months now...it's crazy cuz he lives pretty close by.
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Feb 1 2005, 10:48 AM
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one of my oldest and bestest
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Feb 1 2005, 11:24 AM
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 Miss Dee Lici0us Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,938 |
I mostly have guy friends to begin with, and all my closest friends are guys. even my boyfriend was my best friend (and still is) before we got together. I think its great cuz they can make more sense of guys (sometimes) than I can. besides..girls are too competitive..I have lots of guy friends and they think i'm trying to steal they're boyfriend. dudes dont care
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Feb 1 2005, 11:27 AM
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i have a very close guy friend
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Feb 1 2005, 12:37 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
nope...but i have friends of the opposite sex. they are not my 'best friends'
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Feb 1 2005, 03:15 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
yea i have a few.
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Feb 1 2005, 03:29 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
ys i do, whats wrong with that?
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