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 Jan 29 2005, 07:04 PM
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 Join the dark side! We have cookies ^-^  Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,303  |
Okay, if you saw my "Love Is Confusing" post [[thanx for helping me out by the way]], i was trying to find out if i should ask this guy out or not. Okay, so i finally decided to ask him, but in letter form. Is this a good idea, or should i consult him personally? O, and if it is a good idea, should I give the letter to him on Valentines Day or this Monday? Because Valentines Day would be really cute, but this week is the school dance...so uh, yea ^-^
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Jan 29 2005, 07:21 PM
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I'm a sexy beast Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,103 |
If you're too scared to do it in person, you can give him the letter. I'd say do it Monday, mostly because if I were you, I'd want to do it as soon as I could. Haha..and if he finds out now, you guys can go to the dance.
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Jan 29 2005, 07:28 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I think you should confront him...Why? Becuz you're making more effort if you do..and everything that should be said will be said and everything that wont...will never be heard..
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Jan 29 2005, 07:29 PM
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Join the dark side! We have cookies ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,303 |
thanx ^-^. and I love your siggy thingy...lol
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Jan 29 2005, 08:49 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
the guys usally ask the girls out first...but you can ask him out instead..well it depends on your personality. if you feel like you have the guts to go up to him and tell him that you wanna go out with him that would be great...writing a note is good if you are shy and stuff..or you can forget about both and just email him or aim him...
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Jan 29 2005, 09:15 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE([[trOpIcaL]] kiSs @ Jan 29 2005, 7:29 PM) thanx ^-^. and I love your siggy thingy...lol  hehe i love it too, i think that video if from love hina right? when keitaro and naru were younger, i think i saw it in the christmas special i think you should write him a letter...it's more personal  why is the dance this week? that's really early |
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Jan 29 2005, 10:14 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(InvisiblePopcorn @ Jan 29 2005, 2:21 PM) If you're too scared to do it in person, you can give him the letter. I'd say do it Monday, mostly because if I were you, I'd want to do it as soon as I could. Haha..and if he finds out now, you guys can go to the dance. yup i agree...good luck.. 
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Jan 29 2005, 10:23 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
I agree with the above!
I think it would be cute if you did it on valentines day = ] |
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Jan 29 2005, 10:27 PM
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QUOTE(chii @ Jan 29 2005, 6:15 PM) hehe i love it too, i think that video if from love hina right? when keitaro and naru were younger, i think i saw it in the christmas special no.. it's mutsumi kissing keitaro.. are you sure you watched love hina? =p he made the promise to mutsumi and broke it for naru.. but he thought naru was the one and mutsumi let naru be the promise girl =/ yeah confusing.. =p go watch it. anyways, yeah.. i think you should write him a letter on valentine's day. =p |
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Jan 30 2005, 12:27 AM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Wishful_Dream @ Jan 29 2005, 10:27 PM) no.. it's mutsumi kissing keitaro.. are you sure you watched love hina? =p he made the promise to mutsumi and broke it for naru.. but he thought naru was the one and mutsumi let naru be the promise girl =/ yeah confusing.. =p go watch it. anyways, yeah.. i think you should write him a letter on valentine's day. =p blah i suck at this memory stuff...my first ex gave me the dvd for the christmas special, i haven't seen it in a year or 2 though, i'm so embarassed 
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Jan 30 2005, 05:20 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
monday...as fast as you can i'd say. wow that rhymed.
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Jan 30 2005, 05:32 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,400 |
QUOTE(chii @ Jan 29 2005, 9:27 PM) blah i suck at this memory stuff...my first ex gave me the dvd for the christmas special, i haven't seen it in a year or 2 though, i'm so embarassed nooooo! the christmas special doesn't have that on it.. because that was when they were kids.. =) sorry if i'm confusing you! don't be embarassed.. i should be.. 
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Jan 30 2005, 05:38 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
I think Valentine's Day would be good and letter form is sweet
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Jan 30 2005, 08:22 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
personally, i don't think it's quite the best way. words don't always express what u want to say. if ur actually saying it, u can add emotions, feelings, thoughts, etc. its always best to just ask in person. personally, i don't like all that avoidy crap cause i don't like girls who don't have the guts to just be up front with it.
still, its up to u. its a cute idea. hope all goes well for u.
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Jan 30 2005, 09:09 AM
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Once again if you wait. somone else will beat you to it or you'll chicken out thinking you missed the perfect moment.
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Jan 30 2005, 09:15 AM
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i think u should ask him out with your mouth
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Jan 30 2005, 11:01 AM
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 +Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
if you wait till valentines day wat if he takes another girl to the dancee? O.o ill goo with monday do it as soon as possibleeee.. and if your shy do it in a letter and if your not shy at all like meee.. doo it in person.. 1. its more personal, 2. you would be able to see their reaction, and 3. if he wants to ask you out he can do it right then and thereee..
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