sex: something i noticed, yeah... Options

[oiograceoio]

hmm.. i think its a sensitive issue.. and should be dealt with carefully..
i mean.. both can argue their point..
yes.. they need the comforting and good advice, while also realizing that they did make a mistake and should learn from it..
i think that both parties are making their own points..
and well... those who are pregnant should listen to both!


gRaCe~!

[iheartjohn]

The only thing people want when they have a tough issue to face is support...

[*x____duckii*]

Well, I'm not giving anyone any pity just because they're pregnant or whatever.

I don't give a f**k about what the person wants to hear. I don't give two shits if I sound harsh or not.

I know the person knows that they made a mistake, but what's wrong with telling them what you think? The person posted the topic because they wanted opinions or whatever. Nothing can really be done, except, well, take some birth control pills, or whatever. The person should've been aware that this could've happened. Once you have sex, you should know that you can risk getting pregnant, get STDs, or whatever.

[cewinee]

i've never posted a lecture i always want to be supportive no matter wat the situation.. thats the main reason i signed up for createblog.. when i noticed that ppl's responses were so cold like that i was like omfg wth is this? i mean fine i understand their opinions but if ur gona say sth that u know will upset the other even more then DONT SAY IT.. geez.. ur jus makin it f*cking worse for them.
ever since i noticed those kinda replies ive been thinking of writing a topic like you did but you'd said it better than me so good job for posting that topic man :)
as for the rest of you who DO lecture or say unhelpful sh*t to someone whose expecting nothing but HELP - think before you speak..
oh and if you DO have an opinion that involves having the person realize that its sth really bad he/she's put herself into, say it NICELY, SUPPORTIVE..
thanks..

[topsyturvy]

Well, I'm not giving anyone any pity just because they're pregnant or whatever.

the person posted the topic for help, not pity. they don't need your pity.

I don't give a f**k about what the person wants to hear. I don't give two shits if I sound harsh or not.

of course you don't give two shits or no shit. it's not you who's gonna refer to your comment and think, "god, she's bitching on and on about this being my fault. gee, i know that."

I know the person knows that they made a mistake, but what's wrong with telling them what you think?

good lord, they don't care what you think about the situation. they're asking for help, not your thoughts.

oh and if you DO have an opinion that involves having the person realize that its sth really bad he/she's put herself into, say it NICELY, SUPPORTIVE..

thank you. my thoughts exactly.

[iheartjohn]

Well, I'm not giving anyone any pity just because they're pregnant or whatever.

I don't give a f**k about what the person wants to hear. I don't give two shits if I sound harsh or not.

FIRST OF ALL, they don't need your pity. And second off, some girls get pregnant because they were RAPED.

[*x____duckii*]

the person posted the topic for help, not pity.  they don't need your pity.

Okay. Then they don't need it. Whatever.

of course you don't give two shits or no shit.  it's not you who's gonna refer to your comment and think, "god, she's bitching on and on about this being my fault.  gee, i know that."

I don't give a f**k if they think I'm bitching about something being their fault. They already should know that it's their fault, but they're also the irresponsible person and I can tell them that for whenever I want to.

good lord, they don't care what you think about the situation.  they're asking for help, not your thoughts.

My thoughts exactly? I don't care what they're asking for.

They should know that if you have sex, you can get pregnant or whatever. If they're not old enough to face the consequences, then might as well not have sex at all. If someone does something, they should know what they're doing, and the consequences of what they're doing. They shouldn't do something that they'll regret. And really, I'm just sick and tired of seeing all of these "OMG! I'M PREGNANT! HELP MEH!" topics.

[expoised]

Well, I'm not giving anyone any pity just because they're pregnant or whatever.

I don't give a f**k about what the person wants to hear. I don't give two shits if I sound harsh or not.

I know the person knows that they made a mistake, but what's wrong with telling them what you think? The person posted the topic because they wanted opinions or whatever. Nothing can really be done, except, well, take some birth control pills, or whatever. The person should've been aware that this could've happened. Once you have sex, you should know that you can risk getting pregnant, get STDs, or whatever.

they weren't asking for pity...

and also, they DIDNT ask for your opinions and they dont wanna know what you think. if you actually read the topic, they ask for help. they dont go "omg, i'm pregnant. what do you think?"

so actually, they dont give two shits whether you think this or that. they asked for help.

and as i said... if you dont like topics like those, just dont click a topic if it mentions "sex" or "pregnant" or "baby".

btw. its a great thing you don't care about what people want to hear. then you wont wonder why people think you're a bitch.

[blah1234567]

i reply to those topics sometimes but not all the time coz well i think they are pointless...but then again thats just my view..