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my bf cant keep his hands off me! and its getting pretty annoying. he always wants to hold my hands, want to kiss me and touch my face every f*ckin second. he follows me all the time and calls me and writes notes to me all the time! i know he loves me alot. i tell him to back off a little but he wont listen. i love him too but isnt it a little too much?
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Jan 26 2005, 12:30 AM
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"i know he loves me alot."
Really? Are you serious? If he loves you a lot, then he wouldn't exactly do that and keep his hands off and respect what you told him. |
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Jan 26 2005, 01:26 AM
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well if he 'loves' you he should respect what you want but it doesn't really sound like he's doing anything really horrible except acting like your boyfriend...
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Jan 26 2005, 01:32 AM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
it sounds like he's more interested in making out with you than loving you. run away!
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Jan 26 2005, 01:37 AM
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Do to him what hes doing to you and wait until he cracks and complains about it. Then use that against him >=]
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Jan 26 2005, 02:35 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well if you really loves you, then he would respect what you want. but yeah, it doesn't sound like he's doing anything too bad. eh, just keep telling him that it annoys you.
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Jan 26 2005, 05:22 AM
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QUOTE "i know he loves me alot." Really? Are you serious? If he loves you a lot, then he wouldn't exactly do that and keep his hands off and respect what you told him. ditto. u have to like.. talk to him more. or hit his hands everytime he does that.. hahaa to remind him. |
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Jan 26 2005, 05:36 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
if you dont like it, then tell him to stop it. it he really loves you that much,he should respect your decisions.
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Jan 26 2005, 05:56 AM
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QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 26 2005, 5:36 AM) if you dont like it, then tell him to stop it. it he really loves you that much,he should respect your decisions.  ^ ditto to that |
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Jan 26 2005, 06:42 AM
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To me, all it sounds like he's doing is normal boyfriend stuff. Maybe you should sit him down and tell him how you feel about it. Make sure he get's the message.
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Jan 26 2005, 10:50 AM
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i agree with ^... he does seem like hes doing the normal boiifriend stuff... maybee hes just taking it to the extreme because he reallii likes you and not "just want to make out with you" like everyone else sayss.. soo maybe you should just let him doo the things and sooner or later he might get tired? ierno... either that or talk to himmm ...
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Jan 26 2005, 11:36 AM
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tell him to give you some space =)
there are boyfriends or girlfriends are abit toooo clingy.. but remember its only cuz theyre crazy bout you =) BUT alot of ppl do need their space! =) its normal! :) lemme know wat happens! |
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Jan 26 2005, 01:34 PM
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 Skateboarding is NOT a crime!!! Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,515 |
yo honestly if a guy "loved" you then he would respect your privacy an back off when you told him too
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Jan 26 2005, 04:33 PM
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Many people want a b/f as dedicated as yours..and what can I say? I think you're taking this for granted..you think every guy is like this? But if you want him to give you space..tell him that if he doesnt you'll have to take a break from the relationship.....
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Jan 26 2005, 04:36 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
eek
 no offense but are you sure its love if he wont respect you as a person? 
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Jan 26 2005, 05:33 PM
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Sometimes would be okay but, all the time is a little weird. You should have a serious talk and tell him how you feel. If he listens then he will understand and lay off. If he doesn't stop well then i don't no tell him you'll end the relationship or something like that to scare him maybe tthen he'll stop.
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Jan 26 2005, 06:05 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Omg the same thing happened to me in 7th grade, he forced me to sit on his lap, hold hands with him and kiss him (once in a while was ok), he would always slap my butt and was trying to force me into sex (but I didn't do it
 ). After a while I was tired of him and told him to back off a number of times, but since he didn't listen so I told him to get away from me and not touch me, and if he did I would call the cops on him. It seemed to work, lucky we went to different high schools so I only had to deal with it until 8th grade. Get help, before it's too late, it sounds like some of the signs of an abussive bf. Goodluck!
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Jan 26 2005, 06:16 PM
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he sounds like a sweet little obsessor to me
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Jan 26 2005, 09:07 PM
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talk to him.. yeah.. if he loves you then he would respect you.. if he doesnt then do it to him, but he might like it.. haha.. so i guess the best thing to do is tell him to give you more space and privacy and that you dont like it..
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Jan 26 2005, 09:11 PM
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If he really love you, then he should respect your wishes. Talk to him about it or just keep on reminding him.
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