I only go for.. Options

[*basick*]

looks/how they dress

dont front you know you are like that too

[Shattered_Hope]

I go mainly for personality..I mean I wouldnt go for a guy just for looks...meh, he might be stuck up or vain...not willing to take that chance...

[jambaJUICE]

for me its personality and then i start to lyk how they look... its lyk a process...

I go for personality. Well, sometimes. Sometimes if they're too hot to resist.. i like them. But I have a crush on my male friend who I spend talking to most of the time. He's really understandable, funny, nice, sometimes stupid, but he's like me. =]

I go mainly for personality..I mean I wouldnt go for a guy just for looks...meh, he might be stuck up or vain...not willing to take that chance...

To the those that said that..

How would you be able to know what their personality is, before you even talk to them? I had asked how would you befriend someone that you don't even know. You're in a room filled with other people your age; and your friends aren't with you.

Like Christiee_Nax said,

you cant notice a personality from across the room. most of the time anyways.

It's understandable that you would find a crush with a great personality, but in order to find that personality.. wouldn't you have to meet him first?
So how would meet somebody with a nice personality in a room filled with people, in which you don't know anyone.

[xTINAA]

well i think that no matter if you say you go for personality, looks do come into play. i think you base everything off that FIRST time you see them, as in if you want to even try to get to know them better y`know? which is based on the way they look. like let`s say you are a prep or whatever. and you see someone who is all punked out. well because of the way they look you probably won`t want to get to know their personality because of who are you, y`know? so looks DO come into play. you can`t only go for someone based on personality or only based on looks. they kind of go hand in hand. and also, if you do like someone based on personality who you might not think is that goodlooking in the first place, well usually they get better looking. and someone who might be really hot who has a sucky personality, they might get uglier to you. so they go hand in hand kind of.

[Jean4evr[sK]]

I go for personality. Usually I just do something real stupid first... then see who laughs at me and who laughs with me. I talk to the ppl who laugh with me (I can tell these things), and just say f**k you to the ppl who laugh at me.

I don't really concern myself with looks, I mean if they got like 300 zits on their face..... naturally I wouldn't like them. But overall personality means more.

[Wishful Thinking]

i mostly meet people (that are guys) because they insulted me. =/ mostly because of my voice.. it's really high so yeahs. =.= then i go, "I don't know you, don't talk to me." and then they kinda introduce themself, even though i don't want them to...

or because they sit near me, so i usually ask random people questions.. cuz i'm a slow learner, i don't understand things.. or listen =.=" i never pay attention so i need to work on that..

if they help me... which people mostly do =) i'll find out that they are really nice, which they are... and really helpful. =D and i think that's all i need, but i think they are more of a friend? =P

[177emories]

i go for EVERYTHING.. needs the whole package... personality, looks, money, car... you know?...

[cmgchica717]

If I was in a room with a bunch of unknown people I would work my way around the room and befriend everyone. Whomever I connected with the most is the one I would contine to pursue. I guess i am just a friendly person.

[blah1234567]

i go for personality but then if they are really hott i would go for looks

[tallaznkate]

UMM, i DONT WANNA SEEM SHALLOW OR SUPERFiCiAL BUT i GO FOR LOOKS FiRST. CAUSE HOW CAN YOU TELL WHAT KiND OF PERSON THEY ARE iF YOU`VE NEVER MET THEM? iF THEY LOOK GOOD BUT HAVE A BAD PERSONALiTY [LiKE THiS ONE GUY i KNO], i JUST FORGET ABOUT iT.

[to-devastate]

I go for looks and personality.
I get hooked on them- first for looks. then see if they got a good personality. If they don't, I'll just pass them off as "cute guys" but not as my crush.
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and hm. i would just see if anyones looking kind of nice and interested. Usually; i just blab out whatever to anyone.. yeah. I'm kind of weird . . .

[miss barnes]

i must admit...looks are a must for me. ok- if two boys tried to talk to me and i didnt know neither one, sorry but, the cuter one will be the one ima talk to

[shortiiex]

At first i go with looks, then i get to the personalitys

[gnawxela]

mmm...i basically try to "befriend" everyone .... haha, yeah, i'm a pretty outgoing person, but if they like brush me off then i leave them alone...pshhhh

[mouse_3k]

i go for personality but looks wouldnt hurt

[misoshiru]

i guess when i meet people, i go for personality, and people who look friendly

[mistaken_identit...]

My crushes are always depended the hottness, and y'know the usual; but the guys that I actually 'go for' I go for them with good personalities and I wouldn't exactly care how they look like 'cause I like him for his person, not his face.

[iheartsimba]

exactly.

see i would probably notice a boy if he was cute...then if i got to know him and he was a jerk, no way. i'd never go out with someone who ecpecially treats women wrong..

[sammehmyst]

I just go for personality.
Once I start to like someone, they become really cute to me. [shrugs]
If that made sense at all.

I don't even know how my crushes form.
I just like someone all of a sudden.. it's not because of the way they look, however. I guess maybe the way they talk, their intelligence, their tastes in music, the way they carry themselves..

That kind of happens to me, too.

[xkiller_muffiinx]

I go for both..I mean the personality is more important than looks but the guy has to be at least reasonable looking. But Id rather date an ugly guy whose super sweet rather than a hott jackass

[*stephinika*]

yeah i do go for looks at first, but personality is definitely a bigger factor. and i just meet guys who seem to be interesting, for instance, i look at how they interact with the people around them.

[EddieV]

I don't want to lie to anyone, but I go for looks first, than personality later, mainly what I look for in personality is if me and her have any similarities, is she a good person, does she look trust worthy, is she sweet, would she still be friends with me if we break up...

No wonder why I have only had one girlfriend, I'm too picky...

Aside from that, no offense to anyone but I have lost interest in Asian girls...

[Rachel]

well obviously looks are somewhat important but personality is what wins me over.

my boyfriend, now i dont think he is OMG SO f**king HOT but to me he is the cutest thing ever because he has an amazing personality which makes him more attractive.

[ZiggY]

i go for personality cuz looks can always change

[silver-rain]

ok, well first thing i notice is their looks, so yeah i go for looks first. but after getting to know some people after a while, i like their personality and they become cute to me then.