i like this girl but i got a problem, competition |
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 Nov 11 2004, 12:02 PM
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well i like this girl but shes older then me by 1 year and we get along fine i know her for about 2 weeks now and i dont want to rush things. shes getting over her ex and thats cool it gives me the chance to help her out and get to know her. but there is another guy and hes older then her by 1 year. shes known him for quite a while and there good friends. when he had a gf she liked him but now she dosent. shes getting over her ex and has no feelings for no one. she net her ex last saturday and he acted like he didnt even know her....i dont know what to do about the other guy help!
shes trying to get over her bf and has no feelings for any one. but i want her to get feelings for me...shes best friends with the other guy so she wouldnt want to hurt his feelings.... (the guy says really sweet things like shes his angel but shes dosent like that...she likes flirting and having fun got any ideas) 
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Nov 11 2004, 03:36 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
Tell her what you just said. You like her but don't want to rush things....
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Nov 11 2004, 05:24 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
if you know that she likes flirting and fun, then give her flirting and fun.
and don't try to "do" anything about the other guy. if she ends up liking him more than you to a point when you need to do something to eliminate him, that won't produce a very healthy relationship. |
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Nov 11 2004, 07:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
be truthfull & tell her what you just said.
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Nov 25 2004, 07:41 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
just say u like her , n u dun wana rush . take things slowly.
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Nov 25 2004, 11:17 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
I agree with what everyone else said! [= just say you like her but don't want to rush things!
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Nov 26 2004, 03:12 AM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
just be honest with her
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Nov 26 2004, 03:45 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 239 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,630 |
gosh, 2 weeks and ur already feelings for her? >_<.. i suggest u get to know her better b4 rushing on and telling her how u feel. afterall, what u feel is only of what u know of her so far. get to know her. talk to her a lot and find out things about her, maybe ur feelings for her will change. but later on if u do still like her, tell her.
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Jan 22 2005, 04:44 AM
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 jasloveelmo Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,121 |
clam downz
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Jan 22 2005, 11:16 AM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,899 |
Eh, give it the test of time. Just be her friend for a few months, I mean, who knows? You could wake up one morning and not like her like that anymore. I don't think you should tell her because it could drive her away; make her feel less comfortable.
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Jan 22 2005, 12:21 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Tell her how you feel, and if things don't work out, hopefully you guys can still be friends, goodluck!
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Jan 24 2005, 08:50 AM
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 tOrI---> ROX!-->aka me!!! Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,531 |
Exactly..tell her "I like you, but i dunt wanna rush thingz." dats exactly rite.
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Jan 24 2005, 09:11 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
confront her. there's nothing u can do about that other guy..
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