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[Oreo_bro]

Okay i planned to do this before i left cb a while ago, but i didnt get around to it. What im needing is some imput from all of you for some questions i will ask.

Why? Becuase im wanting to make a lengthy topic so people will love me! No not really, i mean you already love me right? Ha, anyways its really going to be a lengthy topic giving answers to a lot of common questions asked in this forum. Im not saying its bad that people ask them, but after awhile all of the "what do i do" and "i like this babe but.." just..gets boring! Know what i mean? So im wanting to create a topic that has answers to common questions asked here to possibly help people out in the future so they may not have to make those common topics and free up forum space!

Anyways what i'm wanting is that you copy paste the following questions and answer each of them as if you were giving advice or you're imput. Okay? It would be cool if the mods helped too, but im wanting everyone to do it, everyone who can. Even if you dont feel your advice is good, give it anyways im wanting to know what CB as a whole says to each question and then i'll put that question and answer *i'll combine the answers* so that people in the future will know what cb says!

Take as much space as you need to answer the questions, and if you dont feel like answering one then go ahead and skip it.

Okay so here are the questions"

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.


4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?

Okay peeps. Those are the questions. Now im not going to use the exact formate of each question in the final product, but i will use your answers to make a decent document thingy. If you all could please copy paste the questions then answer them as best you can that would be a big help. If you cant answer a question just put a dash in it. Im wanting to get a feel for what a lot of people here feels, so answer as you want!



Thanks again people! And may the force be with you.

[blah1234567]

2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?
well first let him get to know you more...dont rush. when you think you are ready tell him that you like him...


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
well if you dont like the way he is acting or something mabye you should just dump him...well....there are plenty of other hott guys

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..
huh?


8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?
well theres nothing really to say about this one but try harder i guess

[sammehmyst]

I don't understand the topic. <:l

[teeners4]

how random but i'll fill it out

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?

well i like boys... but anywho... im a girl! so i can help you. casual flirting! if you know what that means. like you know how friends can sometimes tease each other? kinda like that. and also my school we do a lot of hugs. hehe so if your group of friends is like that. then hug her too. makes her feel special. like i have a guy friend. he just walks up from behind in the hallways and either hugs me or puts his arm around me and askes how im doing. sure we dont like each other, but it makes me more happy if im ever feeling down.

2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?

HEY! thats like ME! hehe. well actually i just think he's cute. but i dont like him. and i think we're more friends and smilng is just out of friendship. i mean he has a gf damn her. haha jkjk. she's a nice person. i think you should just TALK to him at least. and see what goes on from there. maybe once you get to know him more. you'll like him more as a friend than a crush.


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.

you love him right? does he love you? i mean he says it's cool and all. but just say to him. "if you like me/love me (Depending on your relationship) then would you please stop smoking? im really worried about you this isnt good for you" or something along those lines. if he doesnt stop. he isnt worth it.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?

just tell her straight up. well maybe not that straight up. go "you're a nice person and i think you're very sweet, but i dont see you in that way. if you wanna, we can still hang out as friends" and YEA you will probably hurt her feelings either way, but she's gotta deal with it. and yea... might as well tell her as soon as possible than drag it out

5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?

worst thing to do in a relationship: dragging things out. i mean yes you'll probably hurt her feelings. but i mean. the longer you drag it the more she'll love you so might as well cut it off as soon as possible. dont wait for her to dump you. i mean what's the point of love if it's only one-way? tell her straight up. you lost the spark.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..

tell him that if he claims he loves you he will stop abusing you. maybe from his perspective he doesnt see how he's abusing you. but tell him some examples of what happened that was abusive according to you. and you dont wana hurt him rite? but he's already hurt you if he's being abusive. another choice is to weigh out the pros and cons. is he really worth it for some battle scars?


7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.

NO.! suicide is not the answer. k if you think your life is over... i mean work out slowly. take baby steps. yes. sometimes life seems to go downhill all at once. and downs come faster than the ups. that's how life works. and for it to go up. you cant wait for it to come. you hafta do it yourself. your girlfriend left you right? there's plenty more fish out in the sea. yes i know that's cliche but it's true. maybe you're not ready to go back into the field thats okay. hang out with the guys. watch the big game. and just chill. your parents yelled at you? well just like talk to them. sure they might get more mad. but they should listen. i cant really help you here, because i've never had a bad relationship with my parents. but i mainly suggest try talking. and if your failing school, get a friend or a inschool tutor. they really help! well your car got towed? depends why it was. cant u pay the find? it'll probably only be like $75. and cutting is disgusting. do you REALLY wanna cut yourself? you WILL feel betta it just wont come all at once. join clubs, youth clubs, anything! meet new people! it'll help. i promise


8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?

hey. maybe it isnt your time. not everyone HAS to date when they're 14 you know? when it's their time it's their time. i mean do you really want to keep dating the wrong people for you or do you want to wait a little longer for the right person?

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?

just tell her WHAT and WHY was it your fault. i mean if she doesnt tell you she's just being childish you know? and if she doesnt listen. then its her problem. i mean she doesnt have to blackmail you into saying "sorry" for something that you DIDNT know WHY its your fault.

10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?

no. well depends i guess. some people HATE being single...some people HATE being in a relationship. it also depends on your previous relationship. and the people around you. i mean if all your friends have bfs and gfs then of course you do right? well...i dont think it's a bad thing. i mean endless flirting with an endless number of people. and you can date just for the hell of it. play the field. it helps you get to know the game a little bit better

hehe well im done

[to-devastate]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?
Go ask her out. If you like her for a long time and you guys are friends; just take a chance and go for it. Hey. Maybe she likes you too. =]


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?
Wait a little longer. If he's definetly dropping you signs, I say, go for it. He could just be flirting; everyone flirts, or he could just be a nice guy.


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
Bug him to stop. lols. If he hates you just because you're asking him to stop smoking- because you care- then dump him. If he doesn't see through that you're only trying to help him because you care about him, then he's not worth it.


4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?
Tell her No. But let her down softly. A girl could think of a guy as a jerk just because he rejecter her. So tell her that you're not ready for a relationship right now or something. And don't go out with her. A relationship isn't good if it's based on a lie.


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?
I think you should break up with her. A relationship should not be lied to; it should be truth. Tell your girlfriend that you just don't really feel any sparks between you guys anymore. Sure, she'll get mad at you, but atleast you feel better knowing that you did the right thing- before it got too serious.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..
LEAVE HIM. Dating is all about loving and hurting. If he hits you; get out- fast. He needs help. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't give him the right to hurt you physically. If the devil said he loved you, would you go out with him? .. If you love him, then that's a different story.

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.
So what? Life is a gift. Use it. So your girlfriend left you, no big deal. There will be others. Every parent yells at you; it's because they care. Get your grades up. Get a tutor or something or go ask help from a teacher.. it's not that hard. If your car got towed... get it back? And if you can't find the money- get a part-time job or something. Just use common sense.
And no. Cutting does not work. It doesn't take away the pain. It hurts you even more. You will feel better when you feel like you achieved something. Go out there and say, "I will be a better person because I know I can do it. If I fail today, I will suceed tomorrow; Tomorrow will be a brighter day."

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?
Be patient. That's what you should do.

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?
Whoever's fault it was; you're worried that your girl will dump you. Talk to her about it. If she still thinks it's her fault- and if you really like her and don't wanna lose her, tell her you're sorry because she's being immature about a little thing. But if you know that it's not your fault- and you could live without her; don't say sorry for something you're not sorry for.


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?
No. Being single whenever isn't a bad thing. It really depends on your perspective.



WHOO. That took like 30 minutes to answer. Haha. =]

[misoshiru]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?
hmm...flirt around with her first and see if she likes you. but even if she doesnt, still go for her..it might be worth the try.

2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?
i think you should try to get to know him better first, and then chance it, cuz it sounds as if you dont really know him. and if you dont really know him, how do you know that you really like him.

3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
ask him to stop...and if he doesnt stop, ditch him.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?
just try going out with her on a date, unless you really hate her. then tell her no.

5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?
break up. you'll hurt her sooner or later.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..
leave him...he probably won't be hurt by you leaving.

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.
there's always hope. i dont know when you'll feel better. but you could try harder in school, stay away from girls for awhile, and try to have fun with friends.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?
there probably is someone out there for you. it might not be "mr. perfect" but there will be someone out there one day who will like you for you.

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?
break up. she's not worth it.

10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?
no it isnt. the single life is more fun...you can flirt with more people.

[bad_girl]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?
what do u mean what do u do? u have to go tell her, stupid. dont just sit there and wait for miracles!


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?
take the chance. u might never get another.


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
tell him to stop. it's for the good of him. u wouldnt want him caught doing drugs or dying soon of lung cancer, would u? if he's mature enough, he'll know it's for the better of him. drugs and smoking isnt cool.


4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?
tell her u arent attracted to her. true, it might hurt, but she'll get over it. why not now so that u wouldn't have to worry about it later?


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?
break up with her. dont force urself too much. u wouldnt want to be with someone u dont have feelings for, trust me.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..
u'd rather let him hurt urself physically than get him hurt mentally? if he doesnt care about u getting hurt, why should u care for him? he duznt love u.. he's just saying it.

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.
are u insane? dont cut urself (i want to.. lol)!! u have to work hard and put ur life back together again, u only get one. there are no plans for life ahead of u yet, so u make the decision and plan it urself! but not in a stupid way.. like killing urself. some people are dying and they beg to live.. while u ppl, dont even treasure life anymore.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?
there's always a perfect someone for everyone. make sure u really have feelings for that person before u ask them out. rejecting u is their lost!! keep going, u'll be accepted if u have faith! maybe it just isnt the right time ..yet.

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?
dont admit to something u didnt do. it's like saying u murdered someone when u didnt. she's being an unfair b*tch. break up.


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?
no. maybe it just isnt the right time for ur other half to come along yet. u still have a long way to go.

[Oreo_bro]

btw to clarify some, the imput you all give will be going twards making a new post with answers to common questions asked here on the fourms.


Im liking this already, keep it up!

[KissMe2408]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do? Everyone usually starts off as friends, I say go for it. Ask her how she feels about you, as a boyfriend. If she says she likes you, then yipee go you. If she just wants to be friends, then you guys stay friends. Atleast you won't think to yourself, "i wish i told her that i like her".


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait? I think you should get to know this guy a little better before you start asking this question. Try talking to him more outside of class. Him smiling at you in the hallway is nice, try talking in the hallway. Get to know him alot better, and if you guys start to like each other then great


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
He won't hate you because you ask him to stop. just tell him that you care about him too much to see him go through this. If he can't understand that or doesn't want to stop then maybe you should question whether you want to be with this kind of guy. But give him a chance first, talk to him about it more. Don't just drop the topic. Talk to him more, and tell him how you feel about it.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do? If you don't like her, then i suggest you not go out with her. She of course will probably be hurt that you say no, but it would hurt her even more if you went out with her when you didn't like her, and dumped her later. Just tell her that you would love to be friends and that your not really ready for a relationship with her. end of story.


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do? You shouldn't just drag it on if you don't feel anything for her, it's not fair to this girl. But talk to her about it..you really just need to talk to her.


6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving.. Leave him. If he is abusing you, then you need to get out, because it gets worse. Don't worry about hurting his feelings, you just need to get outta that relationship.


7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help. You should not cut yourself, it doesn't make you feel better in the end. And committing suicide doesn't fix anything either...If you hate your life, then try to make it better....start studying at school, don't slack off. try to make ur life better...and learn to be happy with yourself

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do? Yes, there is someone out there for you. There is someone out there for everyone, stop looking, because usually you find that special someone when you least expect it. Being lonely happens to alot of people, but just know that someone is out there waiting for you

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what? You've got to talk it over with this girl, see from her point of view...what exactly did you do? It matters on the situation, if you actually did do somethan, then yeah you better apologize. but if you truly didn't do anything, then you might consider breaking it off with this girl


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing? Not at all. I think people start dating way too young. You just end up getting hurt. Honestly, i wish that i didn't start dating until college atleast. And being single can be very nice and you can keep you focused on the more important things in life.

[lilJdawg]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do? Since you are already friends with her, i guess you know quite a lot about her. Take a chance & ask her out.

2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait? I think you should wait and get to know him a little bit more & then tell him how you are feeling. Since you guys "talk a little" in class, i suggest that you don't know him that well.

3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help. Just tell him to stop taking drugs or your relationship is over.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do? Just tell her that's she's really sweet & nice but you only look at her as a friend.

5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do? If you don't like her anymore, talk to her about it. What will make the "spark" come up again. If you really don't like her anymore, you'll just have to break up with her. It's better to get hurt now than later.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving.. I think you should break up with him because later on in the future, he will abuse you again. Find someone who won't do that.

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help. STOP! There are ways to fix that. Keep your head up & stop cutting yourself. That won't do you any good. Things will get better sooner or later. Get over your girlfriend & try to find somebody new. Your parent's yell at you? Try to please them. Do more chores around the house or do whatever that will make them happy. Failing school? Don't go out 'til you finish your homework. Study extra hard & don't slack off. Your car got towed? Go find a job to pay for it and get it back. That's all i have to say, but the rest is up to you.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do? Take time. Yeah, there is someone out there for you but god will send her/him to you when the time is right. Be paticent(sp?).

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what? Say your sorry & talk to her about it. I don't think it is fair, unless you did something very big that caused her to be THAT mad to break up with you.


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing? No, because you can do other stuff. Love will come your way eventually. You just have to be paticent(sp?).

[sheepy]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?
get to know her more; let her open up to you and trust you. and sooner or later; she might like you back too!


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?

you should get to know him more, or you can even try and go for it.


3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.

relationships are about sacrifice. smoking is bad for his health; so if he really loves you; he'll try to stop. and so what if its cool; all it matters is what you think.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?
tell you that you currently do not like her; but would like to get to know each other more. no doesnt mean forever.


5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?
tell her how you feel, and talk about it. if you don't really feel the same anymore.. don't lead her on.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..

tell him how you feel. if he loves you; why would he abusive you? if it gets worst, tell someone and just break it up.

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.

do not cut yourself. just because a section in your life isnt going greatly; you just gotta keep a positive attitude and look forward to tomorrow. if you have a positive attitude, and work and try for what you want, things will get through.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?

you have your whole life time ahead of you, and yes you will find someone you love and loves you back.


9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?

ask her about it. tell her you don't know what you did wrong, and it would be unfair to break up just because of that. clear the confusion out of the way. don't apologize for something you don't even know what. and if she does break it off.. then she's just stupid for being so shallow.

10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?
no being single is normal. being single has its ups and downs. when you're single, you're free. you'll be able to do whatever you want, say what you want, and you won't be held back.

[silver-rain]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?
I think you should get to know her better- and drop subtle hints that you like her. if you think she also might have the same feelings, tell her and ask her out

2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?
hah, that was the same with me last year. well, i suggest, you get to know him better, flirt with him a bit, see how he feels about you. wait a while.

3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
if you love him, and care about him, you should tell him how you feel. and if he loves you too, he should listen to you and stop, or your relationship is over.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?
just tell her that you're not interested-that she's really sweet, but you would rather beher friend.

5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?
you shouldn't lead her on. i've been in your situation, where i was the girl and my bf didn't have anymore feelings for me, but he kept the relationship going for a while. and when he broke up with me out of nowhere, it hurt. it is better to just tell her now and not lead her on- cause that'll hurt even more.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..
if it's a loving relationship, he shouldn't be hurting you. i think you should first tell him, but if he doesn't do anything, leave him.

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.
ok, first of all, stop cutting. i know it's really bad now, but if you wait a while, things'll pick up. i sorta know what you're going through, and suicide is not the answer. since you don't have a girlfriend anymore, concentrate on your studies, and try to bring your grades up. if your parents see that your grades are getting better, they'll stop yelling. get a job to get your car back. try to make your life better.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?
just wait. i think that there's someone out there for everyone- but you just have to be patient. keep trying, and don't get someone just to "fit in" with time, that someone will find you.

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?
hmm, say you're sorry, and talk to her about it. try to see what she thinks you're doing wrong.

10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?
no, there's nothing wrong with being single in hs. you can concentrate on your schoolwork, and get involved with extracurriculars. besides, you'll probably find someone in college, just be patient.

[jnukes]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?

get to know her more ?.. drop hints .. then when tha time is right ask her out


2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?

wait a little .. see his signs more clearly .. if you think they're right, then go for it

3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.

love is about being attracted to someone by their looks and personality and how they act and all that good stuff .. if you don't like it then you're not in love ?

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?

"sorry, but i like you that way"

5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?

tell her that you want to break up and that you're really sorry. then ask "can we still be friends ?"

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..


7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?


10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?



err.. i'm too lazy to answer tha rest ..

[Wishful Thinking]

1.) I've liked this girl for a long time and we are friends but i dont know what to do. What should i do?
Just suddenly say this randomly when you are sure she's listening and no one but you and her are around. "What would you do if I were to ask you out?" If she says she would say yes then that shows that she likes you back. If she says no then go, "I was just kidding." or something.

2.) I've sorta liked this guy in my ____ class. He sits near me and we talk a little in class, we see each other in the halls and he always smiles when i see him but i dont know if he likes me, should i chance it or wait?
Don't wait for anything. Don't go up to him either. Maybe he just wants to be friends with you. I don't know. Get to know him more. Become his friend. Maybe you guys are better off as friends.

3.) I've been going out with this guy for a few months (or more) and he is totally awsome, but some of the things he does concerns me. He smokes (or does some other drug) and i've asked why. He says because it is cool and i drop it. I mean i love him but what he does is wrong and i want him to stop but i dont know how to tell him. What if he hates me because i ask him to stop? Please help.
Smoking is wrong. Drugs is worst. Tell him you don't like it. If he doesn't respect you, break up. I'm sorry but seems to me like he only cares about being cool. Sounds like a jerk to me.

4.) This girl asked me out the other day after school and i dont really like her. I mean no offence but shes sorta big and just not my type. She is really sweet but i dont have a real attraction to her..what should i do?
If you don't like her, don't lead her on. Tell her, "I just want to be friends." At least you'd have another friend, right?

5.) I'm in this relationship right now and i dont know what to do. I totally fell for this girl when i met her, and we hit it off real good. We have been going out for some time and i just..dont like her anymore. I mean i like her but the spark that was there is just..gone. Should i break up with her or keep it going? She tells me she loves me and i can tell i mean a lot to her but the feelings just arent there...what should i do?
She sounds like a burden to you. But like I said before. Don't lead people on. If you lost all the feelings, why keep going? I think you should break up with her.

6.) I'm in this abusive relationship but he says he loves me..whats should i do? It doesnt happen often..and it doesnt really hurt..im just..confused....i dont want to hurt him by leaving..
Get out of this relationship immediately. Seems to me like he loves you, but he doesn't care about your physical being or health. So he's hurting you. He may love you, but he's not the right one for you. You deserve better. Someone that wouldn't hurt you. Would you rather give him a little pain by breaking up now, or get hurt a million times worst later?

7.) My life is ruined. My girlfriend left me, my parents yell at me, im failing school, my car got towed..i hate my life. I want to end it! Should i? I mean it would be quick and easy..im..im just so afraid. I've tried cutting but it doesnt work, should i keep cutting myself? When will i feel better? I dont know im so confused please help.
Life gets better. Trust me. It does. If your parents are yelling at you, ask them why they are. Or go live with a friend for a day or two. Calm down and relax. Girls come and go. There's over a million girls out there waiting to meet you. If your failing school, start straightening up and studying. School is more important than relationships. School is about your FUTURE. Your car got towed away? Well, seems to me like you did something wrong. Cars aren't THAT important. Sure, it's easier to travel by car. Try saving the air and trees by walking. Don't cut yourself. It's wrong. It makes it worst. It doesn't help. Just go swimming or take a hot bath to relax yourself. Things will get better.

8.) Is there some one out for me? I keep getting rejected by people, i just want to fit in and find some one. I dont know what should i do?
Well, first of all, you should stop trying to find someone. Stop asking people out. Just because you like them, doesn't mean they have to like you back. Maybe they just aren't the one for you. I know there is someone for you in the near future. Wait awhile, concentrate on your schoolwork or the things that are currently important. The one may pop up unexpectedly. "Somebody out there is waiting for you..."

9.) Say my girl says something was my fault when i dont think it was but she does..and shes mad at me and says she will break up if i dont appologise, should i just say yes or what?
Your girlfriend has an anger problem. She's one of those people that always wants to be right. My mom is like that. I accepted her and got used to it. If you truly love your girlfriend, you would accept her for how she is. If you don't, break up.

10.) Is being single in hs a bad thing?
I suppose "hs" stands for high school right? Nope, it's not a bad thing. It's easier to concentrate in school without a boyfriend/girlfriend. Have fun with your friends, hang out and study. You don't need a guy or girl to be happy.