He threatens to kill my friend... Options

[shortiiex]

One of my friends, Kathy has a few problems with this boy. He has liked her every since last year and he keeps asking her nosy questions about her love life, she is trying to avoid him.
But, now somehow, he got a hold of her address, sn, email addreess, etc. He is a f*cking stalker and he is threatening her right now about her death. he is one of "those", you know those ghetto wannabes, but he has connections to the real ghetto.
We keep telling her to tell the police or gudience or her parents but she won't do it, she doesn't admit that she won't tell them b/c of teh attention and the trouble she has to go to.

[lovescream]

O_O Does she still like him?

[sammehmyst]

Tell the police yourself.

Make sure this is really happening first. Accusations that aren't true can hurt you a lot.

[shortiiex]

O_O Does she still like him?

she never like him....he liked her

[lovescream]

she never likek him....he liked her

He's probably doing that as flirting. You can't ever predict guys.

[bby_cutie]

i really think she should talk to her parents, i mean right now it doesnt matter if her parents yell at her. What is more important is her life...it's in the hands of this...pyscho...idk she needs an adult to talk to.

[shortiiex]

He's probably doing that as flirting. You can't ever predict guys.

you call threatening to kill you flirting?

Tell the police yourself.

Make sure this is really happening first. Accusations that aren't true can hurt you a lot.

I promised i would never tell

[Shattered_Hope]

you dont need any help becuz you obviously know the answer: if your friend wont tell the police then for her safety you need to do it for her.

[kellyannie]

I promised i would never tell

isn't her life a little more important? you should tell someone.

[HongKongDong]

What a promise... tell anyway. You don't keep shit like that a secret. Even if she is your friend and made you promise, it will be good for both of you

[*bright eyes*]

Ew. That's a little creepy.

I think that the only thing that you can do is keep talking to her. Tell her that if she doesn't tell anyone she won't have to worry about the attention later because her life is in danger, that is, if this boy is serious. Tell her that it is worrying you because you know she is going to get hurt and you want her to do this for you because it's better safe then sorry. If she doesn't say anything then she will regret it if something happens.

She will have a lot more trouble and attention if she doesn't say something


Obviously, you don't want to get in the way of the boy.
& She can always block him online or safer, get another screen name.

But this boy could also be all talk..Do you think if it really was down to the wire he would kill her? Like face to face with her he would have the heart to kill her or have someone else to kill her...

saying and actually doing it are two different things

anyway, just keep persuading her to tell
& if she doesn't then maybe you should say something
she might be mad
but if this boy is serious
she'll be thanking you,

[hannah1019]

tell the police or a parent, if i really care about ur friend then u would rather spare her life than her friendship? dontcha think??

[mouse_3k]

I would tell the guy to screw off because he probably doesnt have the balls to kill her.

[lilphoenix]

some secrets aren't meant to kept as secrets.

this is one of them.

though you promised you won't tell, you have to.

are you willing to put friendship before her life?


she won't tell, so you do.

and yeah, i kinda agree. why the hell would he threaten her if he likes her... that's extremely stupid. that dude is wacko.

if i were in your shoes, i'd probably already told the authorities. you shouldn't let things stretch over time, it adds more stress.

[sammehmyst]

I promised i would never tell

no. hell no. promises don't count.

tell someone or else your friend goes byebye.

[leeniex3]

why dont you tell the police .. soon enuf that dumbass is crazy enough to kill her ... better to be safe then worry about a little media

[HelplessCry]

isn't her life a little more important? you should tell someone.

yes i agree tell someone before somthing really happens to her. if you really care about your friend you would tell someone would you? before this matter goes even father wayy out of hand.

[lovescream]

you call threatening to kill you flirting?

Chya. This guy used to talk about killing me and it turned out that he likes me.. but eventually he hated me and now we don't even talk because I moved.

[HelloSunshine]

that's dangerous she should tell her parents or something persuade her to.

[pinayprincess]

well thats serious ... ya friend could get jumped ..well killed in this case...i dont thinkcalling the police would do any good..

[lovescream]

Let me take him on.


Naw. I can't fight.
Hideout in your house. Sleepover for a few nights, talk to her parents, call the police, ARREST HIMMMMM!

[misoshiru]

i think you should talk to her parents or the school about this..even though you promised not to tell, you still have to think about the question "what happens if he goes too far"

[jasloveelmo]

does she still lovve that man?

[jasloveelmo]

crazy

[jasloveelmo]

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