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 Jan 19 2005, 05:31 PM
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Sorry for you. RIP Joe. x3
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Jan 19 2005, 05:45 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
Im so sorry to hear about your loss. Unfortunatley I have lost alot of my friends thru High School. My friend Jaime died the day before graduation because she did not get a heart transplant in time. My other friend Parker died in a horrible car crash 5 minutes from his house. Jeremy commited suicide. Jenelle died of an asthma attack. I know how you feel. I was close to all of these people and losing them all within 3 years was very hard to deal with and it still is to this day. Do not close in your feelings talk to someone and get it off your chest. My condolences to you
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Jan 19 2005, 05:45 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
aww, i'm so sorry for your loss. you have my deepest sympathy.
that hasn't happened to me yet. RIP Joe. |
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Jan 19 2005, 05:48 PM
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OMG that is horrible!
But yes.. my friend Kevin was 19 at the time.. on August 23, he went to sleep and he just never woke up...it was heartbreaking =[ |
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Jan 19 2005, 07:18 PM
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I'm very sorry to hear that, I really am. i know how it feels.
Three of my friends died on september 11. I actually took this pretty well, because they died trying to save eachother. Obviously, it affected me greatly, but not as much as other people that have died because I had no way of stopping this. Last october my boyfriend at the time, Cal, drowned while he was out kayaking on a lake with his twin brother. I did not take this very well at all, considering I was going to go over to his house, but i wasn't feeling well so i didn't and he went out with his brother instead. That was one of the scariest things I have ever seen. And last december, one of my closest friends, India, killed herself. This one also effected me the most, because I didn't realize anything was wrong. I mean i had a suspicion, but I blew it off because I didn't think anything like that would ever happen. That was by far the scariest thing I have ever seen, she hung herself. I wish you luck, it is very hard to overcome the death of a friend. if you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm always here. |
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| *islandgirl4eva* |
Jan 19 2005, 08:50 PM
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cmgchica717 - I am so sorry for your loss as well. That must be horrible...losing so many people. I remember when I was a freshman my friend Robin killed himself because of his girlfriend, or so the rumor said. He was President of the sophmore class who was popular and had good grades. I wonder to this day why he did it and can only hope he has found some semblence of peace, wherever he may be.
StarryEyedSurprize - It must have been hard for you, but you have to think about this. Aside from the loss, at least he died peacefully, in his sleep. For some reason, I feel like that's the ideal way to die, you know? |
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Jan 19 2005, 08:51 PM
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no, but i don't know, it depends on if it's a close friend, i hope you well
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Jan 19 2005, 09:08 PM
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 My brother's friend's mom died on Friday. And his dad died 5 years ago! So he livs with his aunt now. And he's like, kinda welfare and it's so sad!But maybe that guy was on like, steroids and had an overdose or something? Rest in peace. |
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Jan 19 2005, 09:44 PM
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QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jan 19 2005, 9:08 PM) But maybe that guy was on like, steroids and had an overdose or something? Rest in peace.  well aren't you nice, that was a bit rude. this guy was her friend 
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| *islandgirl4eva* |
Jan 19 2005, 09:51 PM
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QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jan 19 2005, 9:08 PM) My brother's friend's mom died on Friday. And his dad died 5 years ago! So he livs with his aunt now. And he's like, kinda welfare and it's so sad!But maybe that guy was on like, steroids and had an overdose or something? Rest in peace. Yeah...um, no. He wasn't on drugs. He cared way too much about his career to contaminate himself with that shit. Even though that was a bit...not nice or you to suggest...thank you for the condolences...I think? |
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Jan 19 2005, 10:00 PM
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QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jan 19 2005, 9:08 PM) My brother's friend's mom died on Friday. And his dad died 5 years ago! So he livs with his aunt now. And he's like, kinda welfare and it's so sad!But maybe that guy was on like, steroids and had an overdose or something? Rest in peace. Not nice missy. That's not a way to sympothize. Eh, Im sorry Jackie.
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Jan 19 2005, 10:38 PM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
damn thats gona be some tough stuff to go through. well i hope you will feel better and you and your friend has my prayers. i never had a friend die...so i guess i wont really understand how a friend's death would really be like. but watever the circumstances are..i hope you overcome it.
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Jan 19 2005, 10:41 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
It's hard, but it's the past. You just had to let the past memories go away. It hurts because you have known that person so much and now that person is completely gone in your life. I never knew I will have one of my friend die... but yeah... It hurts inside still, but it's the past. you just have to let it go.
Maybe that guy died because of sudden heart attack? |
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Jan 19 2005, 11:05 PM
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I'm sorry your friend passed away. =\ I didn't have any friends that died, but a piano teacher that I loved so much..
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Jan 19 2005, 11:14 PM
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QUOTE(angel_roh @ Jan 19 2005, 10:41 PM) It's hard, but it's the past. You just had to let the past memories go away. It hurts because you have known that person so much and now that person is completely gone in your life. I never knew I will have one of my friend die... but yeah... It hurts inside still, but it's the past. you just have to let it go. Maybe that guy died because of sudden heart attack? They say that it wasn't a heart attack. The autopsy results came back inconclusive. That's what hurts the most...we have no idea why he died. |
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Jan 20 2005, 12:54 AM
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I'm sorry for the death of your friend, Joe. It made me realize that I'm a lucky kid to not have had a friend die. I hope you go through this alright.
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| *islandgirl4eva* |
Jan 20 2005, 03:17 AM
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QUOTE(henrydotcom @ Jan 20 2005, 12:54 AM) I'm sorry for the death of your friend, Joe. It made me realize that I'm a lucky kid to not have had a friend die. I hope you go through this alright. You are very lucky indeed. Treasure your friends and the times you share with them. I wish I had done more of that myself. |
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Jan 20 2005, 03:09 PM
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 love sucks...big time jessir.. Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,644 |
No it never happened to me..but I send my condolcences.
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Jan 20 2005, 03:17 PM
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i really don't know what to say....but sorry
R.I.P Joe |
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Jan 21 2005, 12:14 AM
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When I was little, my godparents (I believe that's who they were, or well my parents said something like that) died.. they were around their 90's, I believe. First, the husband died after going to the hospital and getting some short or something like that. And then he died a few days later. And then his wife died maybe a week after that, from heartache.. She just couldn't take it anymore.. :[[ The last time I saw her.. *sigh* I miss her delicious butterfly cookies.. and.. *sniffle*
I can barely remember her, since I was a little less than four years old at that time.. This deals with the relationships between people.. whether it be friends, family, etc. MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS |
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Jan 21 2005, 12:44 AM
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awww.. feel better. that hasn't happened to me before. .. he'll always be by your side.
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Jan 21 2005, 07:35 AM
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God rest his soul..
i've had more than 5 friends die.. all drug related.. you'll get through it, time will heal ok? its heartbreaking i know =( i wonder wat happened to him<3 RIP Joe. |
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Jan 21 2005, 08:14 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
sorry to hear that
 my mother died when l was only 8. cant say how much pain l been through. its just that l dont want to be emotional again. it stil hurt me when l talk about her coz l love and miss her so much. my lost my two friends last year. their names are Buloy and Leeroy. Buloy kill himself after losing the love of her life. while Leeroy died in a car accident. sorry about your friend, they are in the hands of God now. He will always be love and remembered as long as we remember them. |
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Jan 21 2005, 06:36 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Hey, First off I'm really sorry, I hope you feel better. One of my friends in died in a car crash when I was in the 7th grade, it was so sad I woas crying for weeks. There is a memorial for her at my elementary school where I stop by to remember her sometimes. I guess the saying "only time will heal" is kinda true, even though it never fully does, 8 years later I still remember that day, it was the day after my birthday and I came afterschool to get my homework with my mom cause I was sick that day and then my friend told me, I was crushed. I hope things get better for you, I'm so sorry *pats on the shoulder*
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Jan 21 2005, 07:27 PM
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how sad, i never have any friend died yet. hopefully not ....
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