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 Jan 21 2005, 04:06 PM
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Alright, so I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago or so... and last night she kept talking about how she wanted me back and how she couldnt stand us being a part... Well we only dated for like 2 months, nothing serious... and I just kept saying things like "ok" and "whats done is done".... and she just kept saying how she wanted me back and she couldnt take it anymore... and I was trying to ignore it but she just kept going...
Seriously, how do you deal with a psycho like this? |
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Jan 21 2005, 04:12 PM
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one of my exes was kinda like that. He kept tryin to go back out with me. I simply told him that our relationship is over, and that I was willing to be friends with him, but I did not want to discuss us going back out any longer because I didn't want to have a relationship with him anymore. So try telling her something similar to that. It may hurt her a little, but sometimes that's the only way they'll listen!
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Jan 21 2005, 04:17 PM
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Yeah, I told her we were done and we are friends only, and thats all that we will be... but she just doesnt get it i guess
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Jan 21 2005, 04:19 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Find someone else..and then your status will be taken..and try as she might...the relationship is over....meh, it will hurt her to see...but it'll get her to finally realize the situation...
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Jan 21 2005, 04:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,628 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,359 |
yeah, I was thinking of asking a freind to act like my girlfriend so she would know it was over...
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Jan 21 2005, 04:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Hmmm yothat actually sounds like a pretty good idea, if that doesn't get it through her head, i don't know what will! Her poor heart will be broken but, it's gotta happen sometime, right?
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Jan 21 2005, 04:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,628 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,359 |
definetely, she is a total psycho
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Jan 21 2005, 05:05 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
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tell her that you cant really.. think of you guys getting together again. tell her its really really over; move on already. |
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Jan 21 2005, 05:38 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
not talk to her anymore...
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Jan 21 2005, 07:18 PM
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ouch that sucks to have an ex like that...i haven't but my friend did...ugh. the guy just would not get over it. but yeah, avoid her or bluntly tell her its not gonna happen.
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Jan 21 2005, 07:22 PM
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just tell her that there is alot alot alot of guys who suit best for her.
dont worry, let her do it over and over again. its gets very tiring for her .. |
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Jan 21 2005, 07:33 PM
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try and avoid her i guess
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Jan 21 2005, 07:35 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, find someone new or aviod her. eh, it would hurt her, but she should be able to understand that it's over.
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Jan 21 2005, 08:12 PM
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just tell her that you guy's relationship is overr & try to ignore her.
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Jan 21 2005, 10:12 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
wow, everyone seems so unconcerned about the "psycho ex" maybe she was really in love with dukesoccer07, is that so bad? he broke her heart and you all want him to ignore her and have a new "girlfriend" parade around in her face??
 just keep trying to talk to her...this may not have been serious to you but it seems like it is to her, if you were in her position wouldn't you want the same thing? |
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Jan 21 2005, 11:02 PM
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Seriously, it was a 2 month relationship, love can hardly be used....
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Jan 21 2005, 11:06 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
say go away
that happened to my friend robby, this girl kept saying "i miss you" and he was just like, " sarah, just go away!" |
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Jan 21 2005, 11:51 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
ignore her. if you get a "fake" gf, your ex might go way psycho and do really..scary stuff.
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Jan 22 2005, 12:00 AM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Same thing happened with me and my ex. He kept asking me EVERYDAY whether or not I still like him. Wtf. When I say no, I MEAN IT. He's becoming annoying.
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Jan 22 2005, 12:23 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Jan 22 2005, 12:00 AM) Same thing happened with me and my ex. He kept asking me EVERYDAY whether or not I still like him. Wtf. When I say no, I MEAN IT. He's becoming annoying.  Like Kelly, that happened to me, too. All of a sudden, he tried to make me jealous by making sure I'm looking at him while he's flirting with the girls I loathe. Just deal with it. Eventually she'll stop. If she doesn't, talk to her and tell her to stop. This is over, get out of my life, plzkthnx. |
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Jan 22 2005, 12:32 AM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
yea u have to kinda be blunt w/ her. cut to the chase if she wont listen
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