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 Jan 20 2005, 07:47 PM
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 none of it seems real  Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889  |
Well there is a guy in my class who has been saying how he feels about me outloud..
examples - - I have a crush on Lilly, shes so cute - Lilly and I are going to get married - I'm only in this class because Lilly is in here - Lilly you're my favorite It makes me feel uncomfortable in a way.. because I've always known this guy as a friend/acquaintance and I don't think I could see him as more. I saw him so many times today and he called my friend over in his loud voice and then when he noticed I was there his whole voice changed and he says "heyyyy Lilly" all nice and loving. LOL In my head I'm just like what the eff. Today I didn't talk to him as much so that way he could get the hint that I wasn't really diggin' that .. but he ended up giving me a massage ( he sits behind me ) so I guess not talking to him didn't really give him the hint that I'm not into him like that. What should I do about this ? What would you do ? His a really nice guy.. I don't want to hurt him. I don't think he will ask me out.. but I don't really know with this guy, his unpredictable. |
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Jan 20 2005, 07:51 PM
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Hey [insert name here], I think you're really nice and all, but I only see you as a friend.
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Jan 20 2005, 07:56 PM
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reminds me of the movie "not another teen movie"
if you don't care about him, go "stop it, break it off." and ignore him if you want to keep him as a friend or don't want to hurt his feeling then treat him as a friend no matter what he does, as in, ex: him-- everyone i love lilly. you-- hey man want some pretzel? you know keep it casual like you don't care |
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 20 2005, 08:09 PM
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just tell him how you feel and that you're not very comfortable when he acts like that.
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Jan 20 2005, 08:25 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Tell him to stop. But, in a nicer, kinder, calmer way.
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| *Podomaht* |
Jan 20 2005, 08:26 PM
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" Quit being such a d**k! "
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Jan 20 2005, 08:46 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
tell him how you feel... how you dont feel the same way and stuff like that
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Jan 20 2005, 08:47 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
Be like: Hey SO-N-SO, I cool with you and all... but the stuff you do is making me feel uncomfortable. I would like it if you stopped. Ok? Um.. Thanks.
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Jan 20 2005, 09:12 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
just tell him how you feel. hah, that was how my ex acted around me- but i also liked him so it didn't bother me.
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Jan 20 2005, 09:21 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You: Hey, I'm sry, but I don't want to ruin this friendship we have...and besides I'm already interested in someone else..[say it like you mean it].
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Jan 21 2005, 06:16 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^ that's a good way.
or just tell him how you feel. |
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Jan 21 2005, 07:25 AM
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when someones bothers you or makes you uncomfortable in anyway n keeps doing it aaaalways tell them how u feel bout it.. or atleast say stop it pls i dont like that.. cuz the more u keep quiet bout, the more he'll think that ur ok with wat hes doing n hence he'll think u feel the same way bout him n the morrre he'll do other stuff hahah u get it right! =) seriously tell him somehow.. nicely even =)
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Jan 21 2005, 11:16 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,359 |
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| *Solipsist* |
Jan 21 2005, 12:03 PM
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QUOTE(lulu424 @ Jan 21 2005, 8:16 AM)  ^ Can't someone ban this chick? Or better yet, anally brutalize her? Jesus. So anywho, just tell him. Say that he's making you uncomfortable and that you really don't see him as anyone more than a friend. Also that if he keeps up whatever he's doing, he'll never get a girl. Because acting like a complete jackass won't win him a girlfriend. - Solipsist |
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Jan 21 2005, 01:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,584 |
(im such a genious, and im sorry if the advice im about to give has been said before, this just came to me)
tell him that youre afraid that if you and him do start dating/get serious/whatever, that theres a greater chance that your presently wonderful relationship could be ruined. tell him that its better not to mess with a good thing, and that you dont want to risk it. THIS IS GOOD because it gives him the impression that (whether its there or not) you DO care about the friendship between him and yourself. FURTHER this would create the impression that you care about him. which will make him happy... i think... unless he detects an air of insincerity. hell be all over your case then for sure. |
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Jan 21 2005, 03:07 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
hmm you can tell him to leave you alone or you gon call the Police? iurno, it might work
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Jan 27 2005, 12:42 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,040 |
yea tell him to leave you alone, kinda scary and weird and obsessed.. haha.. go talk to him
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