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 Jan 19 2005, 08:36 PM
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 yeah. i'm kevin.  Group: Member Posts: 1,399 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,782  |
i started to like one of my close female friend, we really good friends and we trust each other and everything. she just broke up with my friend and told me that she likes someone new, but she wont tell me who she likes cuase she says "she cant" and she usually tells me who she likes, so i was thinking maybe its me. but liek a few months ago she said she wouldnt go out wiht me cuase we were really close friends. what should i do? should i tell her that i like her?
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Jan 19 2005, 08:43 PM
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i think you should just tell her your feelings. Since she's been telling you who's she's been likeing & she won't tell you now, i think maybe just maybe, she likes you.
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Jan 19 2005, 08:43 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
i think that she may like you... mabye you should tell her that you like her and then mabye she will come out with the truth.. its worth a try..
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Jan 19 2005, 08:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
it doesn't hurt to tryy. Good Luck!
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Jan 19 2005, 08:55 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
it depends! she just broke up with your friend so he will probably not be happy about the whole thing. and she could like you but you have to remember that she might NOT like you. and friends that get together sometimes don't work out! so if things don't work out, things might get weird. you just have to decide what YOU want to do.
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Jan 19 2005, 09:12 PM
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^^
well put. and i agree. its really up to you because at this point, it would be hard to tell... |
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Jan 19 2005, 09:54 PM
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yes.
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Jan 19 2005, 11:41 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
ask her...good luck!
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Jan 19 2005, 11:41 PM
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I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
ask her...good luck!
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Jan 20 2005, 05:11 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
yes, tell her. otherwise, u'd never have another chance to.
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Jan 20 2005, 06:00 AM
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 ~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
Be very careful!
If she just broke with your friend, give her time to get over it. Be there for her and comfort her. Im guessing she knows you like her at lest a little bit right? heres what you should do. Get her alone with you, like in a park watching the sunset. Ask her how her day was. Ask her things, let her know she is number 1. Let her feel comfortable, then when she and if she snuggles againts you *say its cold* make your move. I would suggest leaning over and picking a flower form the side of the bench *or pulling one out of some placE* and handing it to her saying "Hey...i just wanted you to know how special you are to me, and...i wanted you to know i will always be there for you". Now she may look confused/about to cry/or just a plain face. NOW HERES THE IMPORTANT PART. Depending on her reaction to that, you can either end it there or continue with, "[name]. Like i said your so special to me *look into her eyes* and...i...like you...alot. Will you go out with me?*look away*" I dont know if this would work, girls of cb if this happend to u what would you do? But yeah its a scenario u could try |
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Jan 20 2005, 11:58 AM
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TELL HER TELL HER TELL HER XD XD XD
GLUCK! BUT DONT BE FORCEFUL THO N DONT EXPECT TOO MUCH SO THAT UR HEART DOES NOT FEEL A PINCH hAhahAH im hyper =,= gluck!! |
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Jan 20 2005, 04:22 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
the worst thing that could happen is if she says no
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Jan 20 2005, 04:28 PM
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 uoyevoli Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 |
you should tell her!! you may never get another chance...but give her time to get over her last boyfriend. anywayz, feelings CAN change in a couple of months...
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Jan 20 2005, 04:36 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
yeah you should tell her how you feel.
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Jan 20 2005, 06:27 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
she has a right to know.
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Jan 20 2005, 06:33 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(gponce10104 @ Jan 20 2005, 4:22 PM) the worst thing that could happen is if she says no  Yes, so heed caution. Usually when one party likes the other, but the other party doesn't like them back...it can hinder the close friendship. Find a way to approach her without telling her directly, be slick. 
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