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 Jan 19 2005, 11:31 AM
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I have the biggest problem with small talks, don't ever know what to say, makes me feel dorky/boring. I'm really good with deep conversations though. Does anyone ever have problems like that?
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Jan 19 2005, 11:47 AM
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 NO. I'm not 13. or 14. or 15. or 16. Group: Member Posts: 4,616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,577 |
yeah..it makes me feel uncomfortable when i have to make small talk.
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Jan 19 2005, 12:48 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
yeah, like when I meet someone for the first time, it's really awkward and uncomfortable for me.
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Jan 19 2005, 12:52 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
Big time! I work in Customer Service and my clients always try to small talk with me. I just cut them off.
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Jan 19 2005, 01:22 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Not really. There are plenty of things to talk about... you just have to find out if you're comfortable enough to talk about it.
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Jan 19 2005, 01:30 PM
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yes, actually. i am the worst at making conversation
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Jan 19 2005, 02:44 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
its sad for me to hear that awful awkward silence.
i try to make small talk but when i can't think of anything it saddens me. 
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Jan 19 2005, 02:53 PM
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Aren't we small talking right now?
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Jan 19 2005, 03:28 PM
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[Aиdy] Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,532 |
Yeah, I'm not too big with the small talk...
... So what about this weather? |
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Jan 19 2005, 03:35 PM
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Small talk...hmm..I'm not really good with small talk. I say some random stuff that sometimes turns into small talk, I guess. It's like someone for the first time- There's only so much I can talk to them about until that akward silence comes along.
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Jan 19 2005, 03:36 PM
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I hate making small talk. Its annoying
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Jan 19 2005, 03:39 PM
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I always have small talk. I feel.... un comfortable when its in person. When I'm online, I just don't really mind it as much. But as I said, I get so dang tensed up with people in person. Its so dang awkward.
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Jan 19 2005, 03:54 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Yeah. :] Always for me. o_O OMG I JUST TOLD MY CRUSH THAT I LIKE HIM AND NOW WE'RE IN DEEP TALKING. lmfao. xD see. i'm happy.
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Jan 19 2005, 05:50 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I absolutely detest small talk-ing. Especially when it's face to face. I just try to get out of there asap
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Jan 19 2005, 06:08 PM
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So how's the weather?
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Jan 19 2005, 06:25 PM
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 oh sweet pestilence Group: Member Posts: 2,251 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,876 |
Yeah small talk can be awkward.
*cricket chirps* 
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Jan 19 2005, 06:26 PM
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 blahblahblah. Group: Member Posts: 690 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,045 |
hmmm... i don't really have a problem with small talk actually yeah........
i'm very talkative lol |
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Jan 19 2005, 06:27 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
i can deal with small talk.. but its kindda pointless
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Jan 19 2005, 06:42 PM
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My name is Jason, not imafreakinazn D: Group: Member Posts: 2,008 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,432 |
i don't have that problem
i always have something to talk about ~.^v |
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Jan 19 2005, 06:44 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
it really depends on the person. i hold back a lot with some people but others i feel so comfortable talking with
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Jan 19 2005, 06:50 PM
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 boo. Group: Member Posts: 567 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,376 |
DEFINITELY. eeeek i hate small talk. i loveee deep talks though.
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Jan 19 2005, 06:50 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(sharpieaddicteD @ Jan 19 2005, 2:44 PM) its sad for me to hear that awful awkward silence. i try to make small talk but when i can't think of anything it saddens me.  yeah, same here. i don't like that awkward silence- so i try to make small talk, but sometimes, i can't think of anything to say. |
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Jan 19 2005, 08:40 PM
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hmm...i don't mind it. depends who i'm making this small talk with...
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Jan 19 2005, 09:28 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i kinda hate small talk..it usually ends with something like sure or ya..lol..so boring..lol..
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Jan 19 2005, 09:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
I have the same problem...I suck at making small talks.
There's always an awkward silence if I don't know you well. It bothers me when I can't keep a conversation going. I feel kinda bad. |
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