sex help, .... Options

[asiu1990]

yes it is young... take the "good ppl's" advice, chill and wait... hopefully you will be fine... (instead of sex, you could have masturbated :-/)

[booger butt]

holy crap...11?!

I thought 15/16 was young when we did "it".

But don't stress, if you were protected and properly succeeded...then no worries.

Take it day by day.

[apple.]

what amuzes me is tht it says u were born on 1990...such a young girl to have sex now.

oh you should be suprised ho many young ones do it.

[xsweetxcandyx]

dang.. you're the same age as me.... well i widh you luck

[redroses85]

Geez... if your going to have sex... atleast know the facts...
Yes its actually possible to get pregnanty anytime of the month, just some times you are less likely, but i wouldnt rely on that.
Also if your going to be having sex and you REALLY dont want a baby, get on more birth control than a damn condom. Go to the doctor and get on the pill. If your mature enough to be having sex, then you should be mature enough to go to the doctor and get it. After all condoms are not 100% effective and can break, i'd rather use 2 almost perfect methods than one. And finally... if your worried about being pregnant.. go buy a test... $5 walmart! No excuses because im sure everyone can find $5 somewhere.
If you have to... go to planned parenthood to get your pills, but take them correctly. They will adjust how much you pay by how much you make.

[redroses85]

Damn you all.

I'm 11. Not a virgin. No condom. Not pregnant.
That guy who did me was the one who gave me my period so the sperm did nothing because I never have gotten my period at that time.

Go to doctors, dammit.

... guys dont give you your period....

And your able to get pregnant a month before your first period even happens.

[ryfitaDF]

if you didn't have sex then you wouldn't need to worry about anything.

[dOyOOHtHINK]

you've had sexy...?

too bad she said sex and not sexy.. if she had sexy then it would be in her first post.. which it says SEX not SEXY... stop changing peopels words...

but my advice on the sex confused youngin.. stop having sex.. its not to be abused.. i kno its pleasure but there are plenty more other things you can be doing that will give you pleasure w/o a baby being involved... so.. lay off for a while.. you have your whole life ahead of you.. unless you plan on dying anytime soon?

[captured_serenit...]

I doubt you are but good luck in the future.....ok...be careful next time...

[emrzz09]

Before you had sex, you should have asked yourself, "am i willing to risk having a child?"

That's my theory. Don't have sex til you're ready to risk having a baby.

[Nugget]

um ok u shouldnt b havin sex in the first place..ur too young and u shouldnt be doing that..anyways..yea i agree wit everyone else..its ur fault that u had sex in the first place so dont complain about havin a baby..u should atleast have sex wit the opposite sex if u really love them..not if ur just gona break up wit them and u dont love them..and yes again dont mess w/ sex..not a good thing to do...

[candiceness]

um ok u shouldnt b havin sex in the first place..ur too young and u shouldnt be doing that..anyways..yea i agree wit everyone else..its ur fault that u had sex in the first place so dont complain about havin a baby..u should atleast have sex wit the opposite sex if u really love them..not if ur just gona break up wit them and u dont love them..and yes again dont mess w/ sex..not a good thing to do...

you should kinda read what you just wrote here..

"its ur fault that u had sex in the first place so dont complain about havin a baby"

she never said shes gonna have a baby, she doesnt even know if shes pregnant.

u should atleast have sex wit the opposite sex if u really love them..not if ur just gona break up wit them and u dont love them

and second, what do you mean have sex with the opposite sex..? when did she say she had sex with a girl? and she never said she didnt love him and never said she was planning to break up with him either..

[Rachel]

shes not asking for you guys to bitch and moan about her having sex. shes had it okay, you telling her shes a horrible person wont change a thing!


anyways hun, you probably arent pregnant. get tested for STDs/pregnancy, next time use condoms, and go on birth control.

[tynabyna]

man o man most of yall are talking about how shes too young to have sex man you dont even know how many young people are having sex now i mean people are starting to have sex at the age of 10 but yeah i think its from pressure ive had pressure to do it but yeah im glad im still a virgin and its gunna stay that way for a long time any ways if you used a condom you shouldnt be pregnant unless the condom broke and you should know if the condom broke or not and if you arent sure buy one of those test things they are about 20 where i live but yeah if the condom didnt break then your most likley not pregnant.

[toodlepops.]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

wow 1990.
cha. if u get pregnant its ur fault that u decided to have sexy

lmao. sexy??say what?? lmaolmaolmao.
yea, sorry.

if you get pregnant, you have to take full reposibility. coz you were the one who decided to have sexy lmao. i mean, sex.

[xGlovex]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

I cant get over that..its halerious..somewhat.

[vickiwang123]

well, if ure mate used a condom..dat would be ok 4 most of the time, but %95....it's fine but the otha percentage it's dangerous...but im sure if u had a condom dat would be ok...but id still be guilty...

[mouse_3k]

and second, what do you mean have sex with the opposite sex..? when did she say she had sex with a girl? and she never said she didnt love him and never said she was planning to break up with him either..

I think she ment that she should have sex with the guy she's in love with. i think she though that the girl was having sex just because it was new years eve but thts just my opinion

[ilauqh]

wait to see if u get ur period... if u dont, take a pregnancy test.

[topsyturvy]

good grief u people!!

the whole reason she posted this up was to ask for help.. who cares if she's too young? she needs tips, not more criticism. the point is, it happened already so now we gotta figure out what to do next.

those of you that say it's entirely her fault if she gets pregnant.. she knows. that's why she needs our help.

so stop going "oh my god, you're only 14 and you're having sex!! bad girl!!" good lord, big deal, you're only making her feel worse. WE DON'T NEED YOUR THOUGHTS IF THEY DON'T APPLY TO THIS TOPIC. THIS TOPIC IS ENTIRELY HER ASKING FOR HELP AND THAT ONLY.


okay back to you.. i suggest going in for a test. best of luck

[kyuubi319]

Gees, even i know enough to not do that.
Okay, well, if your boyfriend used a condom, then you should be okay. But even if you don't get pregnant, you could still get Syphillis, Gonorrhea, Herpes, other STDs or God forbid, AIDS. Get yourself checked for pregnancy/STDs.
For everyone that's saying that we shouldn't be bitching about her ever having had sex in the first place.. Well I don't know. I see what you're saying but it isn't like she didn't have this coming. Think about it. She's fourteen. She had sex. And she thinks of the consequences now. She really should have thought about this before she did it. I don't mean to lecture you, but really. And if the guy you, excuse the terminology, fcuked and if he's over 16 and you get pregnant.. Well, then you're both screwed. Next time, before you do something like this, think of the consequences and the people who'll be affected.
Good luck with not getting pregnant. God, that sounds stupid.

[topsyturvy]

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okay look. she knows she made the wrong choice. she made a mistake. who doesn't make mistakes? it's just that her mistake was more serious than ours. so now she's just asking for a wee bit of guidance from us cb-ers, but nooooo, you people decide to lecture her about making the wrong choices. that's the parent's job. we're supposed to be her counsellors(sp?) here. so stop bullshitting about her "sins" and HELP HER OUT HERE.

[mouse_3k]

okay look. she knows she made the wrong choice. she made a mistake. who doesn't make mistakes?

well I wonder whats gunna happen if she is pregnant and ruin her whole life

And if the guy you, excuse the terminology, fcuked and if he's over 16 and you get pregnant.. Well, then you're both screwed.

if the guy is over 16, then I say you should sue him for all his money..hey, at least get a little bit of something outta this whole situation

[topsyturvy]

well I wonder whats gunna happen if she is pregnant and ruin her whole life

lets just consider her very very unlucky then.

by the way, it's not like i'm saying she's making the right decisions, having sex at 14 or anything. it's just that she doesn't need half as much bitching as she's getting right now.

[kyuubi319]

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okay look.  she knows she made the wrong choice.  she made a mistake.  who doesn't make mistakes?  it's just that her mistake was more serious than ours.  so now she's just asking for a wee bit of guidance from us cb-ers, but nooooo, you people decide to lecture her about making the wrong choices.  that's the parent's job.  we're supposed to be her counsellors(sp?) here.  so stop bullshitting about her "sins" and HELP HER OUT HERE.

You know.. I'm pretty sure I helped her out some in my post:

Okay, well, if your boyfriend used a condom, then you should be okay. But even if you don't get pregnant, you could still get Syphillis, Gonorrhea, Herpes, other STDs or God forbid, AIDS. Get yourself checked for pregnancy/STDs.

Also, I'm not bullshitting about her "sins", as you put it. I'm telling her about the repercussions and consequences. And I personally don't think any of what I said in my post could possible be bullshit, seeing as how they could possibly happen.