virginity, im scared to loose it..., help |
 Dec 21 2004, 04:18 PM
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okay me and my bf have talked about having sex whenever were ready, alot of my friends aren't virgins and they tell me to just get it over with ... i want too but im scared,plus i dont want to bleed on my bf when my hymen breaks... isnt that embarassing
 although its proly broken already cuz i ride horses every day
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Dec 28 2004, 12:27 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
actulay im scared to lose it too. la
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Dec 30 2004, 03:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,950 |
 QUOTE(chii @ Dec 28 2004, 11:33 AM) i don't see what the big deal is, you people shouldn't just outright say "no don't lose it" just give a suggestion, it's not like you know her personally or that you're her, it's her body she can do whatever she wants as long as it's not going to kill or severely damage her. what's the big deal about losing your virginity when you're 16? i lost mine in august and i'm 16, (soon to be 17 in february), also to be honest, i had sex with my boyfriend  yesterdayblah blah blah we (my boyfriend and i) know that condoms are only 90 something percent effective but whatever, we love each other and it just feels right    seriously  i think ill wait longer and not do it now, but im gunna end up loosing sometime soon, and almost ALL my friends have done it and they tell everyone, im not ashamed of who i am... ppl who want to label me as a "whore" can go right ahead i dont care what ppl say about me cuz within a few years i proly wont even know who they are   you dont understand, dont say that my bf doesnt respect me and he just wants in my pants... he told me he doesnt want to rush me into anything i dont wnna do, nad i talked to hima bout it not him to me,
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Dec 30 2004, 06:18 PM
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 i`M N0T A TEASE; JUST A REMiNDER 0F WUT U CAN`T HAVE!! Group: Member Posts: 153 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,700 |
omg, if you are scared, u are def. not ready. and dont let your friends tell you what to do, its your life!
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Dec 30 2004, 06:19 PM
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i`M N0T A TEASE; JUST A REMiNDER 0F WUT U CAN`T HAVE!! Group: Member Posts: 153 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,700 |
and it depends on the PERSON. there is not proper AGE for it.
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Jan 9 2005, 08:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,950 |
QUOTE(BEBEx_iNFAM0USS @ Dec 30 2004, 6:19 PM) and it depends on the PERSON. there is not proper AGE for it. Thank You ive only found 2 ppl who feel the way i feel about it
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Jan 9 2005, 09:35 PM
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 Muah kisses all over Group: Member Posts: 273 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,424 |
just because your friends does it doesn't mean that you have to do it to,some of my friends do it but i don't want, people think that sex is noting but its a whole lot more than that. Your virginity is your diamonds, your pearls, it has to be with the right person at the right time, there are alot of steps on getting ready for it, alot od cautions, u have to know your partner very well (check if they ever done because you don't want any diseases from them) and don't let your friend pressure you to do it, only you can decide.
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Jan 16 2005, 09:36 PM
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 Romantic Soldier Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,422 |
I wouldn't listen to your friends. It's stupid...if you don't think you're ready to do it. DON'T
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Jan 17 2005, 02:03 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
haha pretty_pinay057 that IS true (the movie thing)
 personally, i think you should wait until you're married. and from this post, you're definetly not ready, even if part of you wants to... do it... and you should tell your friends that you dont feel comfortable about them pressuring you like that. and wow. you're only 14! and most aren't virgins anymore?? wow  i'm 13 and i only know of 2 girls that supposedly aren't. what's the world coming to?? *sigh*
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Jan 17 2005, 02:10 AM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
you should wait
you do it when you ready not when your friends are ready for you to get it over with |
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Jan 17 2005, 02:19 AM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,874 |
hey if you're not comfortable dont do it. it'll be fine, just hope you're bf would support with you're decision. dont worry about you're friends. if they were you're true friends, they would totally understand. it's you're body not theirs. remember just think what's in you're heart not what other people say.
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Jan 17 2005, 03:27 AM
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 nOW wHY tHE hELL aRE tHEY bLINKIN'!?! Group: Member Posts: 116 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,739 |
I def. kno im afraid... i mean i dont really have anything to be afraid of.. more than half of my friends arent virgins but when im ready ill be ready.. and when i got out with a guy.. i make sure he knows that he cant push me to do sumthing i dont wanna do.. and if he likes/loves me he will respect my decision..
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Jan 17 2005, 03:38 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Be sure you're completely ready and sure before, though!
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Jan 17 2005, 03:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,507 |
If you're scared / nervous / afraid, then that's a sign of not readiness. And yes, don't let your friends pressure you. You do it when you feel like doing it. Plus, what's the rush for? Stick to making out / kissing, then maybe, later on in life, you'll be ready. If you're not ready, then you're not ready. It's your decision. Plus, you're only fourteen, you have a long way to go. Just wait, and the time will come to you.
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Jan 17 2005, 10:11 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,680 |
virginity is a very speacial thing that us women or girls whatever have....so dont lose it yet if you're not ready and please youre friends dont listen to them....it's your body so you have the right to choose not listen to your friends who might be trying to get you to lose your virginity cause they done it and they prolly regretted it that's why they wants you to do it so that they can see what you've done and you might regret it...so please make the right choice....hell whatever your friend say for staying a virgin but it's special so do it with someone who u trust and love not some 14 year old love that will probally break after a few weeks or something after you done it...
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Jan 17 2005, 10:15 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
Ok, its up to you.
Do you want to do it or not? We can't decide for you if your ready =/ |
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Jan 17 2005, 10:24 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
if you're scared then don't lose it...if you're scared it probably means you're not ready to lose it.
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Jan 17 2005, 11:57 AM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
Read the lyrics to "Genie in a Bottle."
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Jan 17 2005, 12:01 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
If you're scared even onebit, a teeny little bit, don't do it.
If you want to have sex, and you both are ready, then feel free to do it but even one bit of insecure-nce(sp?) is totally not worth it. |
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Jan 17 2005, 03:19 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
well if ur scared dont do it. duh.
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Jan 17 2005, 03:59 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
If you're scared, then dont do it until you feel that you're ready. Your friends should be supporting your choice. If you dont want to do it, you're not being forced to. Just because all of your friends aren't virgins.. doesn't mean you gotta lost your virgnity. listen to your heart..
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Jan 17 2005, 05:48 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,084 |
dont let ur friends or ur bf presure u into doing something that makes u feel awkward...just let it happen when u feel that ur ready. If ur still scared look at this pic.... it reminds me of myself....
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Jan 17 2005, 09:01 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
QUOTE(Despise @ Dec 25 2004, 10:16 PM) Don't feel pressured.. If you do, then don't go through with it. Wait until you're older.. or at least wait until you're ready to enjoy it. ^I agree with you. I mean you're only 14 and I'm 13...I'm not even thinking about having sex...you're way too young. |
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Jan 17 2005, 09:44 PM
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 WANTED..for sexyness Group: Member Posts: 1,050 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,290 |
Do It..Wait A Second..YOuv Rideen A Horse Before And YOur A Virgen?
That Makes No Cents..lol jk. |
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Jan 17 2005, 09:45 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
Do what YOU want to do. Don't have anyone pressure u into anything... follow your own mind!!!
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Jan 17 2005, 10:03 PM
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 ^say hello to my eye^ Group: Member Posts: 298 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,039 |
wait til your older....if youre afraid of losing your virginity, keep it!
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