sex, i need advice badly Options

[theoneandonly_SC]

Well my bf and I are planning on doing it but he is freaking out because of protection and shit like that.

Whats the best type of protection to use?
and also...What is some good advice on this subject?

[rockmyx]

you guys know alot!!!!

[shortiiex]

ususally girls freak out....use pills and condoms

[Brina]

#1 protection againts babies, STD and HIV/AIDS?







































Abstinince.

[Spirited Away]

And the whole comment of kids wanting to have kids... lmao. Just because someone's having sex, doesn't mean they want to have kids, nor does it mean that it will lead to that. It may, but most likely won't. And why is it pointless? Really. Elaborate on that for me.

Well, if you mean my post, I think you should read again and into context.

The first person said sex is pointless (and I disagree) and the next person says "it is useful but only to make kids so unless you want kids, don't do it".

So if you read it right when I said I wanted to "add on to what that person was saying", that it's pointless for kids because why would kids want to have kids (refering to her comment about having sex to make babies). Meaning it is pointless for kids to have sex for babies. And if you disagree with that... well, that's your own thing.

But yes, I'm fully aware that just because have sex doesn't mean that they want kids. Maybe I wasn't clear.

[MeanBastard]

#1 protection againts babies, STD and HIV/AIDS?







































Cutting off the penis and super gluing the vagina shut.

[iiiiiiiYON]

NO SEX PLS =P AGAiNST THE BiBLE... WAiT TiL U MARRiED, iTLL MAKE JESUS HAPPY

[MeanBastard]

NO SEX PLS =P AGAiNST THE BiBLE... WAiT TiL U MARRiED, iTLL MAKE JESUS HAPPY 

Allah is the way.

[asiu1990]

condoms and well to prevent from getting pregant, he should remove his penis before ejaculation.

it's still possible for some semen to touch the vagina...

[captured_serenit...]

just don't do it. keep it real by not doing it.

[Me= Sex-C Love x...]

i could have sworn I answered a question like this...if you guys aren't sure about doing it...and your freaking out. The best thing to do is NOT to do it. I mean ABSTINENCE is the best protection.

[sexymixelix]

use a condom with spermicide... those trojan ones... and tell him to pull out before he ejaculates... that should do the trick

hmm honestly i don't think spermicides help too much entirely. if anything just wear a condom the whole time just to be sure he doesn't cum inside you, but make sure you two are ready for this and you really want to do it.

oh and just in case, you can always opt to get the "morning after" pill to prevent pregnancy. you have to do that within 48 or 72 hours. i forget, but the doctor would be able to clear that up.

[bad_girl]

*looks at u like u're crazy* protection? condom.. duh. lol.

Use a balloon.

or if u couldn't purchase a condom... use that.

[travnewmatic]

broken_lance.... youre an up tight wench

im not all against sex or anything, but just dont get pregnant. go crazy making out or something. make LOVE dont HUMP. the lovemaking is where its at, and there IS a difference.

why is stimulation of the nerve endings in your genitalia so frowned upon. it feels good. just makeout like heck. thats good clean fun, plus you cant get pregnant. just be safe. dont have a kid. have fun too.

[i3reakah_X3]

1) definitely use a condom

2) dont have sex..

it's really not worth it, cuz when you break up, it's really hard on you.
i had to learn that the hard way

[lidoaznboi89]

if you guys really love each other, then WAIT, but if not want to wait, condom or some sort of protection..

[*Programmer*]

K. most people are avoiding the subject here. If you are sure you want to do it. Then go for it. Im sexually active. Best advice i can give you is use "Magnum's" or "Trojan Ultra Ribbed's" don't go for that pull out Bull$hit trust me niether of you will want to . There's nothing wrong with sex. It's a part of life and if you feel that your ready for it. Knock yourself out. If you go on the pill your gonna have to wait 30 days. Before it starts to kick in. And most likely your parents are going to find out. Are you ready to face them?. If worst comes to worst "morning after" pill to prevent pregnancy. you have to do that within 48 or 72 hours. Well that's all the info i got for you. Your the only one that's knows the awnsers

[shewasradiant]

if you had to get our opinions on what you should do, then youre having second doubts....meaning maybe youre not ready. but condoms if you are. unless you want to pay $40 for a months worth of pills. or $24 for the morning after pill. you should be able to get it from any planned parenthood place....they most likely wont need you to sign papers or need a parent/guardian there with you.

[princess2113]

don't do it...if ur not ready to raise kid(s) then don't have sex

[*mishyerr*]

Pill, condom.

I would say don't do it, unless you REALLY, REALLY want/need to. Sex is something .. sacred? LOL. Gosh sorry I sound like a preacher now. But whatever, just don't get mad at yourself if there are consequences other than pleasure. Don't regrett...