Do u lyke it wen gurls come striaght up nd tell u, that they like u |
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 Sep 15 2004, 11:00 PM
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like ive done it alot of time and i never get a reaction...and it urts..like what ami doin wrong?? am i just plain ugly...or not wanted or what?!?!?
 like ive told soo many guyz and they never have a reaction so should i stop and wait ...for some one to tell me or just keep trying??
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Sep 15 2004, 11:04 PM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
Well, when I first read what you said, I imagined a girl perking up to a guy and sunnily going, "I like you!", and that isn't such a good way to approach.
 Otherwise, it depends on the guy... what I do (I'm a guy) when I want to let someone know is by first researching on her on how she reacts to different types of people... Then subtly telling her, like giving her a gift, or talking to her more... |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Sep 15 2004, 11:05 PM
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be better if i knew they were hinting that they like me
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Sep 15 2004, 11:06 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,892 |
well like gopng..."umm..u no what...i kinda like u"...dat sort of thing..nd like leaving to let him think...
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Sep 15 2004, 11:07 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
Yes... i hate it when I have to hear everything from other people or find out by yourself...
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Sep 15 2004, 11:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 293 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,801 |
yeai want the gurl to tell me that they like me.. so i can make the second move ya know??
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Sep 15 2004, 11:14 PM
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Id much rather the girl flirt and not tell me right away. The curiousity between me and the girl of "does she/he like me" thing is something that doesnt really happen that often. It shouldnt really be said in words anyways. It should be shown in actions.
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Sep 15 2004, 11:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,604 |
I guess so...but tat thought is juz fantasy...i'm ugly, no girls lik/liked me or will like me...i'm more lik juz a friend to them...
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Sep 16 2004, 12:19 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,299 |
I know what you mean. Im known as the friend-figure as well. Anytime a move is made, the words "I dont want to mess up our friendship." slips out of their mouths. Atleast it isnt "I just want to be friends."
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Sep 16 2004, 12:44 AM
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I would love it if a girl came up to me and told me she liked me or something... It saves all the confusion
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Sep 16 2004, 08:18 AM
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oh it would be so much easier if a girl could come up and say that they liked you.. cuz then you wouldnt have to stress over whether or not she really does.. it would be better if i knew somehow.. haha
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Sep 16 2004, 10:52 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
It would be a real change if a girl came up to me and be like "Whats up? You wanna go out?" I would be shocked at first, but I always give people a try before i truly judge and see if I like them.
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Sep 16 2004, 06:12 PM
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 my name is tiffany Group: Member Posts: 567 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,213 |
 i dont have the guts to even tell a guy that i like him online or in real life..im just so SCARED.
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Sep 16 2004, 06:24 PM
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Ehh, I did that before. I went up to him and I'm like "I like you Daniel". And yeah he didn't really talk to me after that. Silence moments.
Anyhoo, it would be better if you knew the guy for a long time and then you tell him that you like him. |
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Sep 16 2004, 06:25 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
i say we beat up that daniel guy !! lolz T.T
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| *corizzle20* |
Sep 16 2004, 07:33 PM
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i agree to some of the other ppl. u should hint that u like them, not just say it.
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Sep 17 2004, 06:32 PM
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It would definitely be a lot helpful if the girl comes straight on and tell you that she has a crush on you. I wish some did that to me.
But I do understand that is is awkward when the guy doesn't respond well to it, probably cause they're in shock, or that they don't like the girl.
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Sep 17 2004, 06:43 PM
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Yup Prolly or Mostly cuz they are in shock i guess... we guyz have feeling to u kna? ;]
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Sep 17 2004, 07:32 PM
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i vote "yes" but depends on tha girl... y'nkow.?..
cause one time there this one girl that asked me to tha social but.. i didn't really like her.. so i said no... but dang she came up to me honest, then she called me.. ... kinda uncoinedencal [sp] that i'm tha only one with that last name in tha phone book -.-
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Sep 17 2004, 07:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
yeah it depends on the girl i guess you can keep what your doing but the guy might be kinda surpise so yeah i dont know lol sorry i wasnt a help
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| *wind&fire* |
Sep 17 2004, 11:52 PM
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yeh it really hurts like i have prib told 3 guys that ive liked them and nuthin has happened and now imtoo scared to tell anyone else cos it hurt too much
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Sep 18 2004, 01:02 AM
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yeah.... but it depends on how you say it....and not too many girls say this to me but ok...id rather hear it from you than any one else...
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Sep 18 2004, 01:04 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,484 |
i would rather have the girl that likes me say it to my face, then one of her friends say it to me b/c they can be lyen. but yea, the way i found out my currect gf liked me was like we was conversating in class and i was like "so, who do u like"and she sed " i like u"......den it just carried on from there
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Sep 18 2004, 05:43 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE yeh it really hurts like i have prib told 3 guys that ive liked them and nuthin has happened and now imtoo scared to tell anyone else cos it hurt too much yeah i agree w/ you. i've told abt 2 that i've liked them and then after that, they basically just ignored me. ohwell...thats all in the past. |
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Sep 18 2004, 09:34 AM
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 I'm 2 people's favourite CBer. Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,514 |
I unno... I told this guy that I liked him after 3 months of pretty obvious flirting, but he told me that he "had a lot on his plate" and iggyed me until he asked out one of my closest friends later. -.-'
Of course, with my current bf, I kinda just went up to him and kissed him - we'd only shared, perhaps, 3 sentences with each other beforehand... Like; (Hi, how are you? Just really basic things..) 
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