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[endura88]

i dont know if this is the right place...but i've been bulimic since i was 15 and now im turning 17 it's only this year and last year that i become more 'bulimic' i would throw up after every meal and feel so guilty eating....i know what im doing is wrong but i cant seem to stop....i wanna stop really bad..but i dont have anybody to talk to...and today a boy in my class said oh your sister is so pretty but i bet you would look the same if you was a little bit skinny-er AND maybe i would take you out.. i dont know if im overweight or whatever but i think my BMI is 22 im 5'4 it made me feel like i need to be aneroxic...geesh i dont know what is this maybe just a vent of how im feeling right now??

[Nicolatofu]

You should really talk to a counselor about that....if that guy is only concerned about your physical appearnence, then he's not even worth it. If you feel you're overweight, then try a healthy diet! but don't do that to yourself! For the age of 16, the healthy BMI range is 16.8-24.7 so you are perfect!

[sunissed14127]

Dont listen to other people. As long as your happy with the way you look, there is no reason to listen to a guy, who's probably gonna dump you anyways.Because you know how our teen relationships go.... Maybe you should talk to your parents/a councelor about it. And your BMI is perfect, so you weight is just right.

[anger_is_my_frie...]

i know e-x-a-c-t-l-y what you mean, cuz i've been bulimic for about 3 years, and sometimes i wonder if anyone would care if i told them because the only place i talk about my problem is here on cb, but it's hard cuz i can't even tell my best friend that every time she criticizes me, or my mom, or even a guy criticizes me i choke and throw up.. i know i may not be making sense but you could always pm me if you want, because i know how it feels when you can't talk to anyone because you know they'd never listen.

[picaso_smile]

You need to remember that you have the power to make the right choice, and at the end of the day you answer to yourself-- not some jerk who obviously is only into looks. There are healthier EASIER ways to get fit. But you need to make the decision to change how you live... You just need to find the right kind of support. I suggest a close friend or a school counselor. But if you like you also can PM me.

[xsweetxcandyx]

you are fine... plus if you don't eat anything... it not going to make you lose weight easier... just know that people are worried about you

[lilJdawg]

Talk to your doctor or parent about this. That guy is such a jerk, going for looks only. If you feel happy on how you look than that's good, don't need other people telling you how skinny you are or whatever. If you want to lose weight, eat healthy diets & excerise a lot. Feel better.

[endura88]

Thankx...for all the help anyways i was wondering anybody else that's bulimic or aneroxia but suddenly just stopped like for 3-4 month then you have the urge to do it again? well that's what happend to me i havent been making my self vomit for nearly 4 month but then i did it again....

[leeniex3]

well dat guy ... needs alife T>T and i have nooo clue about bMIs but i doubt your "overweight" ... that guy seriously needs a life ... no guy should think about asking you out just because of how you look .. hes probably gay T>T ne waiz forget them .. but yu should try counseling for that bulimic problem ... well i hope things go well <3 keep ya chin up ^^v

[Wishful Thinking]

I'm underweight and I don't like it. I hate being skinny. Your normal, be happy. Who cares what 'that' guy thinks. He's not important. You don't have to be like your sister. Everyone is different. Nobody's perfect.

[DixieDaCutie]

distract urself, talk2 ur friends or a conseller bulimia is really serious, n if you become too skinny its not evn attractive anymore

[bad_girl]

*stares blankly* what's bulimic?

[xj_liana_tx]

yeah, you should go talk to your counselor, the reason you can't stop is because you're so used to it and your body can't adjust

[Shattered_Hope]

be satisfied with your look and what you weigh...meh, dont wry about what other people say. what you're doing is unhealthy and you should stop..before its too late...

[becomingAWARE]

that gue is an idiot. you are gorgeous. talk to your parents, they will help you. visit a pshychiatrist, or call some ed helplines.
you shouldnty have to go through this. at least you want to stop. thats drive.

what's bulimic?

bulimia is a disease where your self image is twisted, and you force yourself to throw up after every meal.

also, having an ed is almost pointless, in a way [sorry for bluntness, not meant to be mean]. on average, all the weight lost returns in 5 years.

[angelrevelation]

talk to your school counselor, friends, parents... because it's really unhealthy (you probably know that) if you want to lose weight, try excercising and eating smaller portions. have your parents monitor it to help. but first of all you have to get help. and btw that guy's stupid

[AeRoSwEeTie4259]

F*ck what other ppl think. The first step is realizing the problem, which you have realized you are bulimic and u admit it. Next step is getting help, but its something you have to decide for yourself. No one else can save you from your life and make these choices for you so its a choise u have to make on ur own.

[you suck]

awwwww well get help. its kinda obvious. anyways good luck and all the best.

[becomingAWARE]

its kinda obvious

well, srta...but its so hard...

[HelloSunshine]

You should really talk to a counselor about that....if that guy is only concerned about your physical appearnence, then he's not even worth it. If you feel you're overweight, then try a healthy diet! but don't do that to yourself!  For the age of 16, the healthy BMI range is 16.8-24.7 so you are perfect!

I agree! That guy's not worth it. Think about all the people who care about you, and love you, and don't want you to be doing it. Hope you get through it! You could always excercise as an alternative, too! :flwoers:

[_sarcastic_]

that guy isn't worth it, he only cares about physical appearence, don't do that to yourself you look great just the way you are. Talk to your school counselor or your parents about it. they can help

[sheddingtears]

forget about that stupid boy.

you can tell if you're underweight, normal, or whatever at this site:

http://nbc.com/nbc/The_Biggest_Loser/health_tips.shtml

yeah just scroll down and input the necessary information.

[endura88]

thankx everybody for your conccern i havent been throwing up for a week now :) which im very happy...i realized how stupid i was for not sticking up for myself when that boy said those words....but anyhow...i think i'll be alright :P

[sammehmyst]

Talk to somebody. Like, a guidence counselor.

[maia_dc]

Girl, you are perfect as you are, and NOBODY has a right to tell you that you aren't. You are not overweight, and don't let ANYBODY give you lies like that. So forget that mofo! We've all got your back here. =]