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 Jan 11 2005, 02:08 AM
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 wannabe an official member!  Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 751  |
QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Dec 3 2004, 8:53 PM) the best protection is abstinance. my best advice is don't do it.  right on 
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Jan 11 2005, 03:57 AM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
Advice?
Don't do it. He'll probably end up dumping you for that skanky chick anyways  .
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Jan 11 2005, 08:56 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(waccoon @ Jan 11 2005, 3:57 AM) Advice? Don't do it. He'll probably end up dumping you for that skanky chick anyways .yeah!!! |
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Jan 11 2005, 08:58 AM
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you say BOTH of you are planning on doing it...so, do it...
it's nice to hear that your boyfriend want to plan it with you instead of.........XD gd guys, huh |
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Jan 11 2005, 11:05 AM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
QUOTE sex is pointless. QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Dec 14 2004, 6:31 PM) no it isnt..without it, we wouldnt have...well...us it is useful but only to make kids so unless u want kids, dont do it I would like to add on to what that person was saying... Sex IS pointless for kids. Why would kids want to have kids? |
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Jan 11 2005, 01:12 PM
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use comdoms. if ur worried don't do it.
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Jan 11 2005, 06:29 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
the best kind of pretection is to not have sex at all. and if he is so worried, don't do it.
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Jan 11 2005, 11:25 PM
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QUOTE(xheavenzcentzx @ Dec 4 2004, 3:50 PM)  wait...how OLD are you??why does it matter how old she is? sure you all say that age doesn't matter when you date, so why does it matter now?? QUOTE(xtrashx @ Dec 10 2004, 7:12 AM) DONT USE TROJANS!!!!.... trojans do break easily, and they have the highest leakrate..... just get really drunk so that way if there is any accidents their gone the next morning... if you drink enough you wont remember it anyway... and if you cant handle that then you shouldnt be.... ...  i've had sex 10+ times with my boyfriend, those trojans never tore, if they did then why is it considered america's number one condom or whatever? QUOTE(my world @ Dec 13 2004, 10:46 PM) omg DO NOT DO IT.. i know people have dif opinions.. but if your ready to do it.. then get married like right now! then do it.. so you think that whenever people want to have sex they should get a las vegas wedding first? QUOTE(waccoon @ Jan 11 2005, 3:57 AM) Advice? Don't do it. He'll probably end up dumping you for that skanky chick anyways .if that was true then why is he the one who's scared? go have sex if you want to, don't let these people sway you decision (unless you yourself change your mind), buy some condoms (3 condom packages are 5 bucks at most, i believe) get lubrication (a water based one) too...and believe me...it will hurt like hell the first few times 
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Jan 12 2005, 01:29 AM
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wannabe an official member! Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 751 |
QUOTE(chii @ Jan 11 2005, 11:25 PM) why does it matter how old she is? sure you all say that age doesn't matter when you date, so why does it matter now?? i've had sex 10+ times with my boyfriend, those trojans never tore, if they did then why is it considered america's number one condom or whatever? so you think that whenever people want to have sex they should get a las vegas wedding first? if that was true then why is he the one who's scared? go have sex if you want to, don't let these people sway you decision (unless you yourself change your mind), buy some condoms (3 condom packages are 5 bucks at most, i believe) get lubrication (a water based one) too...and believe me...it will hurt like hell the first few times good lord girl, must you snap at everyone? anyway, I don't think we needed to know the 10+ times....  why are you even voicing your opinion about trojan condoms anyway? if it happened to that girl than it happened why are you saying it like she's wrong or lying, no need to bash her for her statement 
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Jan 12 2005, 05:23 PM
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well how old are you? if he is not ready then dont do it because how would you feel if you were in his position? well im not sure which condom to use coz im only 12.... well anyways is always to be safe then sorry.. if you DO have it be ready to face the consiquinces
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Jan 12 2005, 09:12 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
make sure he doesn't have AIDS or any other virus.
condoms prevent STD's and such and birth pills may prevent pregnancy... but they both don't prevent you from getting viruses. |
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Jan 12 2005, 09:26 PM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
QUOTE(giggl3s @ Jan 11 2005, 10:29 PM) good lord girl, must you snap at everyone? anyway, I don't think we needed to know the 10+ times.... why are you even voicing your opinion about trojan condoms anyway? if it happened to that girl than it happened why are you saying it like she's wrong or lying, no need to bash her for her statement I don't believe she was bashing. And the person you say she was bashing on said "Don't use Trojans." Trojans are very reliable condoms and are America's #1. What if say, someone took that advice not to use a Trojan and used a condom that DID break? Not exactly good advice there. Not bashing. Pointing out my opinion. |
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Jan 12 2005, 09:33 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
~condoms-trojan are the best
~birth control-really is just a preferance...if you don't want to have your period every month, then get seasonale only 4 times a year! <3 if your parents/mom wont let you go on the pill, definently use condoms EVERY time...i dont care how horny you are CONDOMS ARE YOUR BEST FRIEND! they come in many colours, flavours, and now shapes! ohh also, get tested...if its both your first time, then probably b4 and after...if its only one of your first time, before...neither of your first times DEFINENTLY before and after. |
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Jan 13 2005, 01:15 AM
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ABSTINENCE.
If you don't listen to that, I suggest you buy condoms with spermicide and be on the pill at the same time. You can NEVER be too careful. Also, ask your b/f if he has been tested for any HIVE/AIDS or any other STDS. You should go be tested as well. |
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Jan 13 2005, 01:22 AM
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wannabe an official member! Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 751 |
QUOTE(pikimoo @ Jan 12 2005, 9:26 PM) I don't believe she was bashing. And the person you say she was bashing on said "Don't use Trojans." Trojans are very reliable condoms and are America's #1. What if say, someone took that advice not to use a Trojan and used a condom that DID break? Not exactly good advice there. I'm sorry, I'm confused, I know she said don't use trojans cause they broke on her, and you're saying to use a condom that doesn't break and recommended trojans... so what's your point again? |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Jan 13 2005, 02:38 AM
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The point is that she said trojans weren't reliable and all this other crap. Yes, crap. She obviously doesn't know what she's talking about. If trojans sucked so much, they wouldn't be so popular and reliable. And from experience, they ARE reliable.
And the whole comment of kids wanting to have kids... lmao. Just because someone's having sex, doesn't mean they want to have kids, nor does it mean that it will lead to that. It may, but most likely won't. And why is it pointless? Really. Elaborate on that for me. |
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| *islandgirl4eva* |
Jan 13 2005, 03:04 AM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 4 2004, 1:44 AM) Use a balloon. OMG...bad visual...what if air got in it...*shivers* But as a lot of others have already said...if you're not ready to do it, then don't... |
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Jan 13 2005, 03:22 AM
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 omw to be an offical member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,817 |
my vote is dont do it.. if he loves you enough and u love him enough then you will wait. because what if you have a baby can u afford the baby and you? please do both of you 2 a favor and don't do it :)
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Jan 13 2005, 06:52 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
well if you really want to do it... pill and condoms... but i say don't do it
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Jan 14 2005, 04:57 PM
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sex is over-rated...
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Jan 14 2005, 05:18 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Dec 3 2004, 8:53 PM) the best protection is abstinance. my best advice is don't do it. woohoo! xD dere you goes |
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Jan 15 2005, 08:41 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
sex does NOT equal kids if you use protection correctly people.
just because someone has sex, it doesn't mean they are going to get pregnant and have kids. if they f**k up and don't use condoms and be safe about it then yes, kids might happen... |
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Jan 15 2005, 08:54 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Dec 4 2004, 1:55 PM) condoms don't protect against the 10000 kinds of std though.. .HAHAHAHAH ANyways, I also have to say that she wants to do sex. She wants advice on protection. Not advice on whether she should have sex or not. So stop saying Abstinence or however you spell it. |
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Jan 15 2005, 11:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
Trojan Man.
 I don't know, it's just a suggestion. |
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Jan 16 2005, 12:17 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 227 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,035 |
condoms and well to prevent from getting pregant, he should remove his penis before ejaculation.
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