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 Jan 12 2005, 09:29 PM
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 dizzy me up.  Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139  |
my boyfriend is really feeling down and i feel bad because i cant help him cus he won't open up to me. anything advices or suggestions how to cheer him up or.. to make him tell me what's wrong?
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Jan 12 2005, 09:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Be there by him side & give him lots & lots of hugss.
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Jan 12 2005, 09:39 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Show him that you care.
Maybe if you're with him more and you show him you care by holding his hand or something, maybe he'll open up to you. |
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Jan 12 2005, 09:52 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Just becuz he doesnt want to open up doesnt entirely mean he wont....continue trying to help until he gives in and finally lets you know what's wrong.
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Jan 12 2005, 09:57 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
give him time...after a few days, tell him that you really care and you'd want to know what's wrong because you want to help him out...or write him a letter telling him how much you care
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Jan 12 2005, 10:02 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
stay outta his way
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Jan 12 2005, 11:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
What Steph said. He'll tell you when he wants to. Don't force him to open up if he doesn't want to.
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Jan 12 2005, 11:07 PM
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Anna says, " Give him a blowjob. "
Samantha says, " I..I..uhh concur with Anna. " I say, " Give him a blowjob AND bake him a cake. " That should open stuff up for you. - Solipsist |
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 12 2005, 11:35 PM
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just be there for him cause some guys just don't want to open up and he doesn't necessarily have to but at least let him know you care.
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Jan 12 2005, 11:41 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
be there for him...tell him u care..and let him know if he ever wants to talk then u will be there for him..
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Jan 13 2005, 12:00 AM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
Show him that you care, but don't nose in the business too much. Give him hugs and stuff.
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Jan 13 2005, 12:06 AM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
QUOTE(tooeffingcrazy @ Jan 13 2005, 12:00 AM) Show him that you care, but don't nose in the business too much. Give him hugs and stuff.  I agree with Derek, if you get too into his business he'll feel invaded. Maybe it's too personal to tell anyone, if he tells you, he tells you. If he doesn't, don't force him. |
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Jan 13 2005, 12:46 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 12 2005, 6:33 PM) Be there by him side & give him lots & lots of hugss. i agree [: good luck 
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Jan 13 2005, 12:50 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
just let him know that you are there for him and that if there is anything he needs, you'll be glad to help. also, like if you know that something cheers him up like ice cream or something, get it for him
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Jan 13 2005, 04:05 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
mmm..don`t bug him too muchh. jst let him knw you`re always there for him no matter what happens (: he`ll eventually let you knw...
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Jan 13 2005, 04:42 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
u cant do anything if he duznt open up.. cos u wont even know the problem.
i gues u just have to wait patiently... |
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Jan 13 2005, 10:47 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
yea dont try to force him to tell u cuz he'll most likey will get pissed off...
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Jan 13 2005, 12:13 PM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Jan 12 2005, 11:04 PM) What Steph said. He'll tell you when he wants to. Don't force him to open up if he doesn't want to. agree!!! just be always there for him when he needed you most. just like they say. we (men) dont use to say whats our problem speciallyto the one we love coz we dont want them to get hurt. we try to solve it alone. so dont worry, as long as you're there for him, as long as you stay by his side. he will be fine |
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Jan 13 2005, 12:47 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
Maybe open up to him about something, and that might make him feel more comfortable about opening up to you. Just be there for him, and show him that you care.
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Jan 13 2005, 07:11 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
don't smoother him.... he will open up when he feels like it... just let him know that ou are all ears
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Jan 13 2005, 07:14 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
just be there for him, talk to him, and just wait. i was that way with my boyfriend, but then after we talked for a while and he was always there for me, then i started opening up.
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Jan 13 2005, 07:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
coze him up, absorb him in *love*.. what a wonderful thing
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Jan 13 2005, 09:04 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
make him laugh, feel happy, mabye you can get him to tell you why he is feeling this way
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Jan 14 2005, 03:16 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,584 |
yeah, get his happy on, make him laugh and talk and what not, and if all else fails, i prescribe a raging makeout session to bring his spirits back up.... okay, okay, not the best of ideas, but when im shut off from other people emotionally (for whatever reason), the physical side enterance is always open. if thats your thing, then thats what i suggest, if not, then keep the yakking going, hes bound to come around sometime.
ONE MORE THING! i almost forgot... my whole body gets all tingly when my girlfriend kisses (and then some) my ear. if you do that to him, hell melt all over the floor. try that, hell love it... theoretically. haha |
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