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 Jan 11 2005, 04:45 PM
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leenie <3  Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,816  |
okay meh and my bf have been goin out for 6 months ... this month is goin to be our 7th .. anyways .. we used to talk on da phone every night, talk to each other on aim if we couldnt talk on the fone, lets just say we tried to do a lot of things to be wtih each other .. so now its starting to stop, no more late night calls.. hes always busy playing games or talking to his friends, i dont know what to do .. i mean i just stay quiet because me complainin will make things worse ... i dont know what to do! we got a couple ring and he lost that too ... i dont know T>T help ):
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Jan 11 2005, 04:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Well sometimes, it's best to talk to him even if it means stirring up an arguement. A lot of relationships slowly start to lose the cutesy-romantic stuff after a while. Try doing something together that will show each of you how much you really care for each other. Like...try spending the day together somehwere-just the two of you
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Jan 11 2005, 04:58 PM
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leenie <3 Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,816 |
thats really hard ... because well .. i dont get to see him a lot .. as much as i want to like other girls do .. and also ill feel bad bc my dads friend's DAUGHTER is now living with me, she just came from korea .. and iono i guess i cant DITCH her?...
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Jan 11 2005, 05:16 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I think you should basically tell him what you told us.
That you're worried about things. =] Good luck. |
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Jan 11 2005, 05:16 PM
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talk to him and tell him you really miss what you two used to do last time
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Jan 11 2005, 06:31 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
well since you guys been together for so long.. i think you should tell him how you feel. i mean thats part of the relationship; having trust and not being afraid to speak your mind.
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Jan 11 2005, 08:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
try something new for a change ...since its been so long urrmmm i guess you should spend time together by making a date on a friday lol...try it nd then talk about whats been going on with you two
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Jan 11 2005, 08:11 PM
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Well, to be simple, you're basically screwed.
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Jan 11 2005, 09:19 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 11 2005, 5:16 PM) talk to him and tell him you really miss what you two used to do last time  yes, be upfront about things...or write him a letter explaing how you feel about all of this and what it was like in the past... i read in cosmopolitian that it seems like your boyfriend doesn't care because he already has you, in the beginning of the courtship, he had to "woo" you, but now you're already together, guys don't really think that girls need much else |
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Jan 11 2005, 09:35 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, talk to him, explain how you feel.
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Jan 11 2005, 10:26 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Tell him what you told us..that you want to know what happened to the late night calls..etc..tell him what happened and if you two can go back to being what you were once in the beginning...this sometimes happens when like after a few months ..lack of interests come in and so you two aren't that close anymore...meh, it'll get better.
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Jan 11 2005, 10:30 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
Maybe he is doing this to you on purpose. It might be a hint that he doesn't want you anymore. Confront it with him, and ask him why he's doing this. Good luck! =]
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Jan 11 2005, 10:32 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
u guys dont always have to be mushy mushy together forever etc, 24/7. have ur own lives. Be independent for a while.
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Jan 11 2005, 11:24 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
im going through the same exact thing as you are. take my advice and talk to him, tell him how you feel. if only i had done that...
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Jan 11 2005, 11:46 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
tell him how you feel. if he understands, then things will work out. if not..then..well..looks like you'll have to break up..
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Jan 12 2005, 12:11 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
mhmm....this happens in every relationship...and i'm sorry to say, that everytime it happened to me the guy was either 1)cheating on me 2)about to break up with me or 3)just plain bored with me so we broke up neways. lol and 7 months is a long time...so why don't you just talk to him about it.
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Jan 12 2005, 03:12 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
it seems like he's starting not to care...
i mean, loosing a ring that should mean that much??? and.. at least he's hanging with his friends, and not with another girl, right? |
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Jan 12 2005, 09:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Told him what you told us. You have to work things out with him.
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Jan 12 2005, 09:39 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
tell the boy whats on your mind! say your feeling neglected and that if he doesn't want to lose you, he needs to shape up...sing him that grease song
"you better shape up...because i need a man and my heart is set on you...you better shape up, you better understand...." |
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Jan 13 2005, 07:18 PM
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leenie <3 Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,816 |
i see X: thanks for the comments some were kinda harsh T>T butt lets just say .. things have gotten better ^^v
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Jan 14 2005, 03:17 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,584 |
dont worry, distance makes the heart grow fonder. (emtional distance in this case, not geographic)
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Jan 14 2005, 05:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
try to cozy up with him, see how is feeling about you
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Jan 14 2005, 11:35 PM
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leenie <3 Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,816 |
QUOTE(travnewmatic @ Jan 14 2005, 3:17 PM) dont worry, distance makes the heart grow fonder. (emtional distance in this case, not geographic) your right ... the distance does make the heart grow fonder .. because ive seen other couples being with each other TOO much ... but i guess we dont spend TOO much time .. but not really too LITTLE time .. right? hehe well i guess things are going better now .. because i told him about how im feeling ^^v thanks <3 |
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