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 Jan 6 2005, 08:35 PM
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I think you should dump him. I mean he did CHEAT on you & what makes you think he won't do it again? WORDS don't count, it's the ACTION that does.
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Jan 6 2005, 11:35 PM
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since he apologized, i think u suld stay with him. if u leave him, it will make him extremely depressed. who knows what happens to him after?
 DONT DO IT. WHO SAID PPL DONT DO IT ON ACCIDENT OR SOMETHING? WERE'S THE FORGIVENESS? YOU GUYS ARE SO HARSH. |
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Jan 7 2005, 12:55 AM
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everyone deserves a second chance... i wouldn't dump him if i were you. i mean, if you really love him then don't dump him.
good luck |
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Jan 7 2005, 02:51 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,382 |
if you want to give him another chance.
boys are so horny and perverted though sometimes. they just don't understand the true meaning of love and purpose of a relationship. but if he is like mature and all, and you can't "live without him", then yeah go for it? just be careful and dont assume it will never ever happen again because it is possible for it to happen again. |
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Jan 7 2005, 09:55 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i guess you should dump him.. but ierno he kinda seems so sincere ><
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Jan 8 2005, 08:41 AM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
this happened to me like a few months ago too. but in my case it was sex he did.
well i think you should give him a chance. think about it. it took him a lot of guts to tell you that he actually cheated on you and i think he really was sorry and truly regreted doing so. if he didnt care for you, he wouldnt have told you. but if he does it again, then dump him. once is forgivable but twice is never. |
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Jan 8 2005, 09:04 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
I think you should give him another chance. He sounds really sincere.. 'n if he didn't really like you..he prolly wouldn't have told you in the first place. If he cheats again, however, get rid of him. =]
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Jan 8 2005, 05:26 PM
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 Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
QUOTE(xtremeliquid @ Jan 6 2005, 10:02 AM) How old are you?  I'm 13. I know I'm young but I am more "mature" than regular preppy snobby 7th grade junior high f**kers. Sorry, I hate them all. |
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Jan 8 2005, 06:39 PM
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 chopstix-ninja Group: Member Posts: 325 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 206 |
tell him u need a break. then you are ready and when he seems date-able, date him. if you think he's changed and learned his lesson, keep him. he'll never cheat agian.
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Jan 8 2005, 06:54 PM
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who told you....if he told you he is a real man....but if you had to find from someone else then
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Jan 9 2005, 01:00 PM
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Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Jan 8 2005, 6:54 PM) who told you....if he told you he is a real man....but if you had to find from someone else then He called me crying. It took him about 30 minutes to actually tell me though. But yeah, he told me. 
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Jan 9 2005, 02:44 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
wow im sorry...well he cheated, and he feels bad about it...but if you feel like you can build a bridge and walk over it and are comfortable then i would say stay together...but none the less hes a creep for cheating reguardless of how bad he feels after wards... do what you want to and make sure your comfortable with it also
 
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Jan 9 2005, 04:49 PM
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 You Kicked My Dog. Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,782 |
so what happen so far?
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Jan 9 2005, 06:02 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
hahahaha minda.
i dunno, it was only feeling up...it's not like he had sex with her or something. if my bf did that i'd probably give him a second chance. and wow, you're in 7th grade feeling eachother up?  what's happening to you kids these days..
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Jan 9 2005, 06:39 PM
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Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Jan 9 2005, 6:02 PM) hahahaha minda. i dunno, it was only feeling up...it's not like he had sex with her or something. if my bf did that i'd probably give him a second chance. and wow, you're in 7th grade feeling eachother up? what's happening to you kids these days..Har har har. He is in the 10th grade. I know you think I am little inmature junior high girl who doesn't know what love is and shouldn't be dating a tenth grader, but screw you. I know perfectly well what love is. |
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Jan 9 2005, 06:44 PM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
The boy obviously aint feeling you. He cheated on you, "he who does not feel me is not real to me" he obviously found that girl to be better than you at the time.... he's not into you... kill 'em off... better yet just kill him... no im just kidding that wouldn't be legal. Severely torture him in a sexual kind of way getting him excited then let him go... >=]
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Jan 9 2005, 07:05 PM
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Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Jan 9 2005, 6:44 PM) The boy obviously aint feeling you. He cheated on you, "he who does not feel me is not real to me" he obviously found that girl to be better than you at the time.... he's not into you... kill 'em off... better yet just kill him... no im just kidding that wouldn't be legal. Severely torture him in a sexual kind of way getting him excited then let him go... >=] Thanks. That just made me feel so good about myself  EDIT// Why are you in the girls locker anyway? |
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Jan 9 2005, 08:06 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
well, my opinion doesnt matter because you already did but anywho- what i wanna know is, what your "Friend" has to say about the matter?
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Jan 9 2005, 08:40 PM
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Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
QUOTE(miss barnes @ Jan 9 2005, 8:06 PM) well, my opinion doesnt matter because you already did but anywho- what i wanna know is, what your "Friend" has to say about the matter? My "friend" didn't say anything. I called her and asked her, and she just hung up on me. Everytime I confronted her, she walked away. So I guess she has nothing to say. And Loren (the guy) hates her guts. I don't know why he did it. His friends say its just a guy, his heart corrupted and his hormones took in. She was persuading him to do it anyway.
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Jan 9 2005, 08:44 PM
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Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
QUOTE(TreesTurnMeOn @ Jan 9 2005, 7:05 PM) Thanks. That just made me feel so good about myself EDIT// Why are you in the girls locker anyway? Im in here because... I am in here! Besides it's the girls locker room.. what ugy doesn't want to be in the girls locker room? 
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Jan 10 2005, 03:27 AM
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I'd say to give him a second chance...if he wasn't a good guy, he'd have hid the truth from you. But he told you the truth and apologized, and from what you're saying, he sounds sincerely sorry.
I think you should kick your "friend" where it hurts and curse her out in public. Seriously, I think you should do that. Give your bf a second chance...but twice is not acceptable...if he does it again, dump him without hesitation. |
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Jan 10 2005, 08:05 AM
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Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
QUOTE(ApocalypseAelis @ Jan 10 2005, 3:27 AM) I think you should kick your "friend" where it hurts and curse her out in public. Seriously, I think you should do that. Already been done.  Got a weeks suspension for it, but oh well.
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Jan 11 2005, 07:09 PM
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You Kicked My Dog. Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,782 |
hahahahha ^^ rock on! did you dump him or are you still thinking about it? just out of curiousity
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Jan 11 2005, 09:24 PM
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Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
QUOTE(roberts_pink_drums @ Jan 11 2005, 7:09 PM) hahahahha ^^ rock on! did you dump him or are you still thinking about it? just out of curiousity I dumped him...  But I just couldn't live without him. 
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Jan 11 2005, 10:20 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(TreesTurnMeOn @ Jan 9 2005, 7:40 PM) My "friend" didn't say anything. I called her and asked her, and she just hung up on me. Everytime I confronted her, she walked away. So I guess she has nothing to say. And Loren (the guy) hates her guts. I don't know why he did it. His friends say its just a guy, his heart corrupted and his hormones took in. She was persuading him to do it anyway. great "friend" hmm, i don't care what you say, but to you.. dating an older guy might sound like not such a big deal. but if you're a 10th grade girl and you know a guy in your grade dating a 7th grader, you're gonna think he's weird and you're gonna know that all he wants is booty. i know that because i'm a girl in 10th grade and i know a lot of guys my age that date younger girls because they're easier. but then again... sometimes that's not the case. i'm just saying... be careful. but i guess if you've been going out a long time and he didnt try to screw you yet, you're safe... |
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