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 Jan 8 2005, 10:24 PM
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I started something with someone and it started out really good, but then I got the worst news of my life... I was moving. Then this person got mad at me for moving! Its really outta my control and theres nothing I can do but they are still mad at me. What should I do?
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Jan 8 2005, 10:32 PM
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Just tell them that. There really isn't anythign you can do. Its not your fault that you are moving.
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Jan 8 2005, 11:16 PM
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Tell him/her that you didn't choose to move. if he/she really likes you they'll understand.
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Jan 8 2005, 11:37 PM
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QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 8 2005, 11:16 PM) Tell him/her that you didn't choose to move. if he/she really likes you they'll understand.  Exactly. 
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Jan 9 2005, 12:20 AM
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I have... we talked about it for hours but she just doesnt understand that I dont have a choice. I mean I am kinda excited about leaving cuz this town is a sh*t hole, but I dont wanna leave her behind because I love her and wanna be with her...
 I just dont know what to do.
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Jan 9 2005, 12:23 AM
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well, its not like you can help it. tell them that...plus the fact that nothing is gonna change.
ahhh nvm, you just wrote another post about her not listening. reassure her you'll visit and say sweet things to her? sorry, i really dont know anything on this. |
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Jan 9 2005, 03:06 AM
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QUOTE(runforfun529 @ Jan 8 2005, 10:32 PM) Just tell them that. There really isn't anythign you can do. Its not your fault that you are moving. Exactly. Just tell them straight up. You cant change anything about it. |
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Jan 9 2005, 11:51 AM
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tell them what you told us.
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Jan 9 2005, 01:36 PM
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It's not your fault that your moving. Tell her what you just told us. Maybe she would understand. Ask her to visit you often, chat online, & hang out on breaks or something.
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Jan 9 2005, 02:37 PM
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i know how that feels....stupid military...but hey try to make them understand that you have no control of where you move too, and i dont think they are mad at you personally just mad that your leaving and they cant do anything about it...
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Jan 9 2005, 03:17 PM
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just tell her/him things happen for a reason and that not your fault..that you wish it never happeneD? lol idk..make a convincing excuse, but thats mean of your friend to be mad...but i would of felt the same way if my friend lef me! but i wouldnt be soo mad, i would of just been really really sad...
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Jan 9 2005, 08:24 PM
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screw them if they are ignorant idiots its not ur fault.
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Jan 9 2005, 08:40 PM
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yeah they shouldn't be mad at you...there's nothing you can do about it.
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Jan 9 2005, 08:58 PM
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i actually just had the same thing happen to me...
you have to tell them as much as you dont want to move you cannot change anything about it...it might suck but you can always go back and visit or vice versa...also if you are meant to be, everything will work out |
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Jan 9 2005, 09:43 PM
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QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Jan 9 2005, 8:58 PM) i actually just had the same thing happen to me... you have to tell them as much as you dont want to move you cannot change anything about it...it might suck but you can always go back and visit or vice versa...also if you are meant to be, everything will work out Yeah I guess your right! I would tell her that cept she isnt speaking to me. 
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Jan 9 2005, 10:07 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(CraziWhiteBoi @ Jan 9 2005, 12:20 AM) I have... we talked about it for hours but she just doesnt understand that I dont have a choice. I mean I am kinda excited about leaving cuz this town is a sh*t hole, but I dont wanna leave her behind because I love her and wanna be with her... I just dont know what to do.aww...but you can't always have what you want...  QUOTE(CraziWhiteBoi @ Jan 9 2005, 9:43 PM) Yeah I guess your right! I would tell her that cept she isnt speaking to me. then try your best to try to make up, if she still doesn't talk to you then stop trying...if she truly loves you, she'll come around eventually and maybe you can work things out 
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Jan 10 2005, 03:38 AM
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that person is being very immature
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