why doesnt anyone understand me?, no one even gives a #$%& |
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 Jan 9 2005, 04:02 PM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,893  |
yah its simple: NONE OF MY so called FRIENDS UNDERSTAND ME nor do they care about any of my problems. if i try to explain my problem, dey get annoyed and think im conceited by talkin bout myself too mch. everythin i say, such as a problem, dey ALWAYS answer by saying "um......okay...." or "i see......" and then dey just ignore my problem.
letz see, an example: okay, a few weeks ago, i just thought this guy (lets call him andy) was hot, but i didnt like him or have feelings towards him, but i still talked to my friends about it sometimes just to have something to talk about. and well, two days ago, i met this guy, who is incredibly nice funny and seems really smart, and im attracted to that. plus the fact that he looks kind of cute :D .. but anyway, i didnt meet him at school and he lives 5 hours away from me .. so thats just making me really sad because he lives so far away and i like him a lot .. so i tell my best friend this and she jus goes like "so its like another andy?" that just really annoyed me because NO it wasnt like ANDY because i didnt like andy, but i like this guy now. and i just tell her a bit more about the guy and my friend just says "I see." she doesnt even freakin CARE! and i dont wanna tell her i like this guy a lot and stuff because my friend will think im just obsessed and deeply infatuated, and thats jus not how i feel. and plus, if i explain even more, she'll think im conceited! i guess thats what happens when you have friends who have never liked a guy before ... ugh .. and w/ no similar interests!! and dont say im still young and ill meet better ppl when im older, because i see a lot of people my age with really really good friends who are always there for them and stuff .. im jus unlucky, huh? havin friends that dont care about a thing that happens to you .. |
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Jan 9 2005, 04:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
Get new friends. Same thing happened to me. Try hanging out with guys, a lot of my guy friends love to listen to me.
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Jan 9 2005, 04:06 PM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
People like you scare me.... just because of their reponses you automatically think they dont care? Can you read mind's or something? Didn't think so... maybe they just don't know what to say about it and choose to not do anything about it.
Just talk to them more, OR! Let 'em burn(Can't believe im using that) and get new friends. Its not hard, I can do it.... transfer from one group of friends to another xD of course I know a lot of people |
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Jan 9 2005, 04:17 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
tell them to act more considerately (right word?) or youll leave them...
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Jan 9 2005, 04:47 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Jan 9 2005, 4:06 PM) People like you scare me.... just because of their reponses you automatically think they dont care? Can you read mind's or something? Didn't think so... maybe they just don't know what to say about it and choose to not do anything about it. Just talk to them more, OR! Let 'em burn(Can't believe im using that) and get new friends. Its not hard, I can do it.... transfer from one group of friends to another xD of course I know a lot of people  i agree. if you think your friends dont care.. then go find new ones. or maybe its not them thats the problem.. maybe its just you. 
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Jan 9 2005, 05:04 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
well maybe something is bothering ur friends and u dont know about it.. or they dont have anything else to say..or it could be that they dont really care..
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Jan 9 2005, 05:29 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE if i try to explain my problem, dey get annoyed and think im conceited by talkin bout myself too mch. everythin i say, such as a problem, dey ALWAYS answer by saying "um......okay...." or "i see......" and then dey just ignore my problem. well even to me, u seem conceited about urself. "oh why doesnt NE guy want me? boo hoo" deal with it or get plastic surgery. |
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Jan 9 2005, 05:57 PM
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 ♥ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,393 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jan 9 2005, 6:29 PM) well even to me, u seem conceited about urself. "oh why doesnt NE guy want me? boo hoo" deal with it or get plastic surgery. hahahaha! that made me laugh. anyway. if they're not willing to listen, they're not worth your time. friends are the people you know you can come to when you have a problem. in this case, they're not those people. hopefully you'll find some real friends that will always be there for you. and yes, guys do tend to be better listeners. *cough* hint. |
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Jan 9 2005, 09:19 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jan 9 2005, 5:29 PM) well even to me, u seem conceited about urself. "oh why doesnt NE guy want me? boo hoo" deal with it or get plastic surgery. hehe  maybe they say "i see" or whatever because they don't know what to say... |
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Jan 9 2005, 09:29 PM
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 because i'm cool like that. Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,603 |
your title made me laugh
better go write about it in your livejournal! |
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Jan 9 2005, 09:37 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
you can always try suicide.
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Jan 9 2005, 09:43 PM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
Maybe you're being annoying and don't know it. My friend can't stop talking about singers from Hong Kong with me, because she thinks I'm the only person who knows who Boy'z are. It's getting a bit irritating, because whenever she opens her mouth it's something like "oh mah gaw did you see that new music video? I LOOOOVE IT?" Blahblahblah.
I bet you're just tiring your friends with your boy watching. But don't worry, I do it all the time. =] If you think they don't care, either ask them why so you can change your ways if you deem necessary, or just get new friends. |
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Jan 9 2005, 10:04 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(barelyy_coherent @ Jan 9 2005, 9:43 PM) Maybe you're being annoying and don't know it. My friend can't stop talking about singers from Hong Kong with me, because she thinks I'm the only person who knows who Boy'z are. It's getting a bit irritating, because whenever she opens her mouth it's something like "oh mah gaw did you see that new music video? I LOOOOVE IT?" Blahblahblah. I bet you're just tiring your friends with your boy watching. But don't worry, I do it all the time. =] If you think they don't care, either ask them why so you can change your ways if you deem necessary, or just get new friends. lol, my best friend used to be like that with boys -_- but now it's korean singers, se7en, some guy named eric, there has been so many 
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Jan 9 2005, 10:40 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Friends are supposed to be there when you need them. Listen if you have a problem and be ready to help you through the hardships or obstacles that you face. That's why they're there. If they don't do anything of this sort..why are you friends with them still???
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Jan 10 2005, 12:49 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,893 |
um .. no .. im realli not conceited, and when i mean "problems," i dont only mean BOY PROBLEMS. it meanz family problems, school problems, and friend problems too. and no .. im not goin like "no guy wantz me!!" or whatevr .. i didn say anythin close to that ..
and o i wish guys were easy to talk to too, but seemingly da guys at my school only kare about their yugioh cards and crap .. and o yea .. how is trying to explain whats really goin on in my life being conceited?
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Jan 10 2005, 12:54 AM
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Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
Just because you don't see yourself or think you are conceited doesn't mean you aren't...
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Jan 11 2005, 08:12 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
[sigh]
Can you maybe type better next time? -_-' Maybe you should tell them what you told us. |
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Jan 11 2005, 08:14 PM
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Stop whining and go do something about it.
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Jan 12 2005, 02:56 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
she NEVER liked a guy before? wow. hmm.. the first time i liked a guy was like umm.. KINDERGARTEN?? lol.
neway.. yeah what sean ho said. also, she/they treat u like an enemy would treat me.. so, why are they ur friends in daH first place?? summ good advicee: slap her, then ditch her. perfect. |
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Jan 12 2005, 09:26 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
if they are you're friend they would listen.. but if you keep having a new guy problem all the time.... no one is gonna gave a sh*t as much.. make sure you're not overloading
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