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 Jan 7 2005, 07:53 PM
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 To Live is to Dance  Group: Member Posts: 791 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,074  |
okay so my boyfriend and his friend are being dicks(sorry for the language but i'm really pissed off right now) my boyfriends friend is all free mind and into the whole lesbian thing(i have nothing against it, i just dont think that way about other girls) anyways just because my boyfriends friends girlfriend would answer a stupid sexist question of "what girl would u be with" and just because she answers and she is all into that, does not mean i am.. i am not into it, i dont think like that. and now he is asking me every min that question and his stupid ass friend and i'm ready to have a nervouse breakdown because they wont accept the fact that I DO NOT THINK LIKE THAT .. i really hate media.. the media has turned some guys into pigs, sexist pigs were they think every girl wants to be with another girl. i'm so fed up. and everytime i tell him "i dont think like that" he says thats not an answer.. i'm fed up! and i can't really do anything because we live together..arg! and i'm not gonna lie and go against what i believe in. ..sighs.. i'm so depress.
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Jan 7 2005, 07:56 PM
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Talk to him 'bout it & get him to talk to his friend. If it doesn't stop, leave him.
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Jan 7 2005, 07:58 PM
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To Live is to Dance Group: Member Posts: 791 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,074 |
QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 7 2005, 7:56 PM) Talk to him 'bout it & get him to talk to his friend. If it doesn't stop, leave him.  love the advice.... it would be hard to leave him for one i love him and for two i would have no place to go... so i need a logical simple solution to fix this piece of crap question..sighs.. |
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Jan 7 2005, 09:24 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
umm...i don't see how it's sexist...but anyway, talk to him about it, tell him how you really feel and that this makes you angry...
personally, i wouldn't mind being with another girl...my boyfriend doesn't like the idea though for some reason...lol then again, i am bi  (you can ignore that =P )
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Jan 7 2005, 11:01 PM
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To Live is to Dance Group: Member Posts: 791 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,074 |
QUOTE(chii @ Jan 7 2005, 9:24 PM) umm...i don't see how it's sexist...but anyway, talk to him about it, tell him how you really feel and that this makes you angry... personally, i wouldn't mind being with another girl...my boyfriend doesn't like the idea though for some reason...lol then again, i am bi (you can ignore that =P ) hehe :) erm things are better i guess. . . . i think i'm just stressed because most of my friends are getting married and i'm gonna be 23 soon and in like 7 years i'll be 30 and thats so scary! i have to get married by my 30th birthday LOL i told my boyfriend that he has untill 2012 to worry about that :o) god ! thats so long from now.. now that i think of it. okay i'll ush now lol sorry |
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Jan 7 2005, 11:16 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
Guys have always been pigs.. xD
Dump him if it irks you that much. |
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Jan 8 2005, 01:05 AM
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move out?
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Jan 8 2005, 05:42 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
well..talk to him about it first....then, threaten to leave him if he doesn't stop? hmm...well...good luck with that :flwoers: and yes the media turns guys into pigs :angry:
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Jan 8 2005, 09:15 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
like everyone else said. Talk to him abou' it.
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Jan 8 2005, 10:59 AM
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guys are guys. beat the crap outta him. he'll stop. :-) jk
the media's not making them act the way they do...they are like that. If you don't like it, find one who is less likely to act that way. |
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Jan 8 2005, 01:23 PM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
just start yellin at him and walk away and then he'll know that ur mad at him and later, he's gonna start crawlin up to u and sayin sorry for the way he's actin
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Jan 8 2005, 02:39 PM
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 easily amused. Group: Member Posts: 189 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,094 |
try asking your boyfriend and his friend the same question, "which guy would you do..?" and see if they answer. i bet they'd say something like, "eww, we're not like that!!" then tell them that it's the same way with you. HOWEVER, if they do answer.. then you've got even bigger problems.
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Jan 8 2005, 09:04 PM
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To Live is to Dance Group: Member Posts: 791 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,074 |
QUOTE(makulit @ Jan 8 2005, 2:39 PM) try asking your boyfriend and his friend the same question, "which guy would you do..?" and see if they answer. i bet they'd say something like, "eww, we're not like that!!" then tell them that it's the same way with you. HOWEVER, if they do answer.. then you've got even bigger problems. LOL :) ooo i asked them that question and they told me to stop changing the question around.. i started to joke around and told them i would sleep with their mom and they stoped asking LOL sooo yeah things are better now.. erm guys are just erm.. yeah guys.... if u watch enough American Pie like i do.. eventually u get enough jokes to tell them to have them shut up LOL :) i'm glad i watched American Pie last night LOL |
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Jan 8 2005, 09:26 PM
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talk to them. If they don't change their views... dump his ass.
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Jan 9 2005, 12:20 AM
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you see this message right here?
show it to your bf. |
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Jan 9 2005, 01:07 AM
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To Live is to Dance Group: Member Posts: 791 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,074 |
QUOTE(wonders79 @ Jan 9 2005, 12:20 AM) you see this message right here? show it to your bf. what message? in the whole forum or what? hehe |
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Jan 9 2005, 01:11 AM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
ask him wat guy would he be with.
trust me when u ask him this he'll stop. |
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Jan 9 2005, 12:09 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE just start yellin at him and walk away and then he'll know that ur mad at him and later, he's gonna start crawlin up to u and sayin sorry for the way he's actin well said. |
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