Premarital Sex, Yes or No? |
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 Oct 16 2004, 03:19 PM
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WONDERWOMAN?  Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636  |
i say no to it, but watch me end up doing it before i get married.
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Oct 16 2004, 03:40 PM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Mar 8 2004, 10:49 AM) I had been having sex since I was 16 and I've recently decided to become a born again virgin because the bible says that that is God's intention. Sex is God's gift and it is not meant to be used until you find that perfect partner and after you are married. So I say, no, premarital sex is not ok. And I think two people can be even more intimate and more trusting of each other if they hold off on sex. Once sex comes into the picture, all these problems and trust issues start coming up... it's not worth it... plus it's probably a message from God that you're doing something wrong. Makes me really think Raxanne..thnkx.. |
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Oct 16 2004, 05:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,194 |
defenitly is up to you and not up to anyone else. you know what kind of person you are...
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Oct 16 2004, 08:47 PM
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I'm not religious. My 2 cents there.
However, if u decide to have premarital sex (watever) its not like its gonna kill you, its not like ur penis or boobs are gonna fall off. If u love someone with all ur passion at that time and YOU feel comfortable, and willing to and BOTH agree, when u do have it, u'll be happy. Besides, I don't think there are many virgins that are 20 today. There are some out there, but non-V's out # them by ALOT. My 2 cents again |
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Oct 17 2004, 08:46 AM
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there are sooooooooo many threads on this!!....anihoo...i believe in premarital sex!! its good!!
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Oct 18 2004, 05:25 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
yes!!!
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Dec 30 2004, 03:56 PM
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 ::i love jesus ramirez:: Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,957 |
yea if have found someone u really love
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Jan 5 2005, 05:44 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
Moo? Personally, I'm waiting until I get married. I have a friend that has had sex before and she was a nervous wreck she might be pregnant now. It comes with so many worries and problems if your young and not married, I'd rather wait and be ready to have children.
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Jan 5 2005, 05:59 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,738 |
<<I don't believe you should go through a ceremony just to have sex. If you really truly honestly without-a-doubt know that you're gonna marry that person when you're "old enough" anyway... I believe any time can be the right time for the first... time. (I need a broader vocabulary )>>
Sorry this is so long!!! But I have something important to say... I don't see marriage as just a ceremony...for me, it's taking a vow before God that my love, my life, my soul, all my decisions, my everything will be shared with this person until I die. Once a man and woman are bonded in marriage before God, they're united...it even says somewhere in the Bible that if one spouse is heaven-bound and one is not, the one who isn't may still go to heaven just b/c their souls are bonded...it's more than just a contract before the state. I'm lucky enough to be with the person that I will someday marry. We've been together over two years now.  Right now, we're both too young to actually marry (I won't graduate till May) so we're waiting until we're older and at least started through college and financially stable and such. It gets very very hard sometimes to NOT have sex, especially when I know how much we love each other and that we plan on being together forever...very very very hard.  We prayed about it when we first got together, before anything happened, (both being naturally extremely sexual people, tee hee...we knew it'd come up eventually), and decided it's alright for us to do other things, but we're saving sexual intercourse for marriage. Not just because we found that that's what God wants for us, but also because PREGNANCY. That would screw our plans up big time...Of course there's birth control and condoms, but I love our unborn children. I don't want them to have to deal with young poor parents who can't afford to raise them and who are trying to get through college...I've seen too many friends stuck in that family situation and it sucks. So when it gets hard, I think about them...and even if there's only a less than one percent chance I'll be able to get pregnant with birth control, my children's lives aren't worth that risk, no matter how small. So that's why I'm waiting, and that's my motivation to wait... |
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Jan 5 2005, 06:43 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
Na. Only thing you get out of premarital sex is unplanned pregnancy. ;)
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Jan 6 2005, 01:28 AM
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^and great orgasms... ;)
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Jan 8 2005, 09:11 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
To me..it depends on both of the people. If they want to, I don't see why not. Buh if they don't, its understandable. 'n I got tons of respect for people who don't
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Jan 8 2005, 11:39 AM
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 ^say hello to my eye^ Group: Member Posts: 298 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,039 |
QUOTE(wonderwoman1987 @ Jan 5 2005, 5:59 PM) I'm lucky enough to be with the person that I will someday marry. We've been together over two years now. Right now, we're both too young to actually marry (I won't graduate till May) so we're waiting until we're older and at least started through college and financially stable and such. It gets very very hard sometimes to NOT have sex, especially when I know how much we love each other and that we plan on being together forever...very very very hard. We prayed about it when we first got together, before anything happened, (both being naturally extremely sexual people, tee hee...we knew it'd come up eventually), and decided it's alright for us to do other things, but we're saving sexual intercourse for marriage. Not just because we found that that's what God wants for us, but also because PREGNANCY. That would screw our plans up big time...Of course there's birth control and condoms, but I love our unborn children. I don't want them to have to deal with young poor parents who can't afford to raise them and who are trying to get through college...I've seen too many friends stuck in that family situation and it sucks. So when it gets hard, I think about them...and even if there's only a less than one percent chance I'll be able to get pregnant with birth control, my children's lives aren't worth that risk, no matter how small. So that's why I'm waiting, and that's my motivation to wait...  wow i totally agree....i like the way you wrote that lol. neway i believe sex should be saved for marriage. |
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Jan 8 2005, 11:51 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
QUOTE(tkproduce @ Mar 8 2004, 12:00 PM) but i hear stories where people have made promises not to have sex till they get married and then, after they got married and had sex once, one of them didn't like it (usually the woman) and never wanted to have sex again and so his/her partner's sex life was ruined for the rest of their lives (unless they got divorced or had affairs that is) well probably because (im a virgin so i dont know) i hear that female's first time isn't the most pleasurable thing, because they're not used to it or something? so all they gotta do is practice and get it right  and i also believe you shouldnt have sex until you're married. and im not religious at all. but i believe when a child is born, it's like made from the love. and the action is having sex. yea k that sounded corny, hopefully you knew what i meant  plus condoms + birth control pills are bad because they prevent from having a baby.... so yea... haha and i want a big family when i grow up. 5 kids 
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Jan 8 2005, 01:08 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
there is no right or wrong answer for this question. to me its more of a faith/belief based question. i don't think there is anything wrong with people having great sex before they get married, if you are completely ready and safe and are with a person who is right for you then its allright to have sex. Sex is not a horrible thing people, you cannot die by having sex before your married if you do it correctly (condoms, birth control ect. ect.). God will not come down and damn you to hell just because you were having sex. the end =)
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Jan 8 2005, 09:51 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
I THINK that u should have sex when u love some1. thats it no rules.
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Jan 8 2005, 09:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
Well I don't think its too bad if you love the person. Just having sex before 16 or 17 is stupid.
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Feb 23 2005, 04:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i am going to have sex during marriage...but ppl should have sex whenever they feel like it
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Feb 23 2005, 04:42 PM
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 go go power rangers<3 Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,457 |
I voted maybe.
I'm not religious at all. All that affects my view on it is if you're in love or not. |
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Feb 23 2005, 04:46 PM
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religons arn't perfect...and anyone that says otherwise.....just reflect on your religons history...to see what im talking about....but in the case of pre-marital sex....i don't need something telling me when when and when i can't have sex.... period.
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Feb 23 2005, 05:02 PM
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 iiiiii'm a cucumber! Group: Member Posts: 202 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,556 |
I think it's fine. If they love each other, why not?
There are facets to every relationship. Just because they are having sex doesn't mean they're doing something wrong, but just because they aren't doesn't mean they're doing something right, either. And as a side note, some people act like sex is a bad thing.  Sex at the wrong time in a relationship can be, but sex itself is not.
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Feb 23 2005, 05:28 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i think that it is okay even though i am told that it is not right. i personally think that it is not right but if you love the person, than i am sure you can do it. i know for a fact that i will not be able to wait until i am married.
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Feb 23 2005, 07:39 PM
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 boa loyal fans 4eva!!!! Group: Member Posts: 533 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,738 |
QUOTE I had been having sex since I was 16 woah!i think premarital is ok becuase you can't control your love and desite but as long as you wear a condom (guy) and take care of the baby if one actually existed. |
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Feb 23 2005, 09:15 PM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...i mean no
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Feb 24 2005, 12:12 AM
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i don't think its so wrong to be premarital but when its too young and not for the right reasons, then it can be wrong.
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