H E L P ! I THINK MY FRIENDS ABOUT TO COMMIT SUCID |
 Jan 7 2005, 04:15 PM
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alli  Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108  |
omgg ..my friend i seriously think shes gonna commit sucicid like rite now..plzz someone help me..what do i do? go to my xanga.. CLICK and read the chatterbox..at the bottom..she was anonyomous..she rote like 3 times in a row..
plz i need helpp..i seriously think shes goin do it. |
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Jan 7 2005, 04:38 PM
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you should call her and talk to her. maybe call someone for help like a school counselor or parent.
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Jan 7 2005, 04:39 PM
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i highly doubt that she's going to take it to the extent to kill herself. everyone dramatizes situations..and it seems to me that she just wants you to give her attention and feel guilty. it sounds lyk u guys are having a bitch fit...you'll b friends before u no it.
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Jan 7 2005, 04:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,340 |
QUOTE(caytexo @ Jan 7 2005, 3:39 PM) i highly doubt that she's going to take it to the extent to kill herself. everyone dramatizes situations..and it seems to me that she just wants you to give her attention and feel guilty. it sounds lyk u guys are having a bitch fit...you'll b friends before u no it.  i agree, but just in case it wouldn't hurt to call and talk things over. |
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Jan 7 2005, 04:55 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
but she wont talk to me..and her away messages for aol are like thinkin bout life , dont regret ur life ..im soo scared shes goin do it
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Jan 7 2005, 04:56 PM
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she just wants people to feel bad for her. my freinds have done it before...
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Jan 7 2005, 05:14 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
Sometimes I feel depressed and say I wish I was dead and get all dramatic thoughts, but then I get away from anything.
Tell her to do yoga. |
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Jan 7 2005, 05:17 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Talk to herrrrrrrrrrr and her parentsssss and do something that'll make her feel great. Or the center of attention.
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Jan 7 2005, 05:20 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
well i think she's just doin it for attention, but to be safe, i would tell her parents. If she's not serious, telling her parents will teach her a lesson to not say things like that anymore.And if she really is serious, You may help save her life. Yes, she might be mad at you for a while, but after a while, she will probably thank you. o yeah- this should be in relationships ;)
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Jan 7 2005, 06:34 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
oh that was like my friend.. i didnt think he would do it; but i wasnt taking the chance. we talked on the phone till 12ish and i convinced the girl that he likes to change his mind.. YAYYY ^___^
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Jan 7 2005, 06:51 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Wow, she sounds like an attention-whore.
She's not going to do it. I can just tell. I could be wrong, though.. maybe call her? |
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Jan 7 2005, 06:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 41 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,580 |
hmmm how old is she?...i went through that phrase in high school...it stink...but it would stinks even more if there is no one there for her...this is the time where it is very important that u are there for her...just stay positive and keep reminding her that there would be a brighter side on the other side of the road...that if she dies, she would miss out a hell lot...
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Jan 7 2005, 06:57 PM
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 Hello there. Group: Member Posts: 343 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,879 |
QUOTE(caytexo @ Jan 7 2005, 1:56 PM) she just wants people to feel bad for her. my freinds have done it before... Exactly. I had a 'friend' threaten to kill himselves a few times. He asked me out at one point and I said no. He ended up cutting himself deeply down the back. For weeks I felt unbearably guilty, but he ended up admitting that it was just to make me feel bad. If your friend actually goes through with actually trying to hurt themselves, get a new friend. This one obviously isn't a good one if they're going to make you feel that way. |
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Jan 7 2005, 07:06 PM
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 Kris is getting bonified. Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 |
ok..did something happen between u and ur friends against her?? like u were hanging with ur others instead of her more?? cause it seems like shes left out and she wants to be notice so she wrote a message to get that much of attention for ppl to worry about her...but just incase,tell her parents...or even ur parents...hopefully she doesnt do it but it didnt really seem like she would but just do it incase..
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Jan 7 2005, 07:14 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,123 |
I'm not saying i know what your frined is going through...but last yr. in 8th grade there were times that everything was driving me crazy and i was getting in fights with all my friends..ppl were spreading rumors and stuff like that...and i figured that the only thing was to..well..yeah....and then the one friend that it hurt most to be in a fight with made up with me...and helped me through everything....
my advice is to just talk to her...call her if AOL doesn't wk...listen to her w/out commenting that much....don't put her down...and be there for her shoulder to cry on.... if that doesn't work...i'd call her parents or tell the school counselor...but i would prbly do that if all of that wks..just to let ppl know what she was going through... and it might not hurt to tell her how much she is scaring you... |
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Jan 7 2005, 07:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
Call her parents my "friend" did that before.
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Jan 7 2005, 07:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
She is an Attention Whore. Get a new friend. She's not going to do it.
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Jan 7 2005, 11:54 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
go call her now! or talk to your parents, or her parents. good luck!
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Jan 8 2005, 12:26 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
cant see ur chatterbox..
 . no, dont get the counselor, that would probably make her feel worse. get over to her house NOW!
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