friend flirting.. Options

[lovescream]

Friend flirting with ur crush. I mean your girlfriend. >_< Not GIRLFRIEND. Girl-friend.
w/e. Just what if you saw your friend flirting with the guy you like? You really reaaaaaaally like him i mean.. like.. for a year and usually you'd like guys for maybe 3 months. >_< And maybe the guy's flirting back? How would you feel?

I'd feel jealous
Sad..
Damned. *face here*

I can't get over him.

[Xprezsion]

I would feel very jealous too, maybe you should tell your friend how you feel about the guy (if she already doesn't know) or tell her to back off of your "love intrest", in a nicer way of course...goodluck , feel better, it happens to all of us.

[shortiiex]

crushed but whatever...

[Nicolatofu]

well, that happens a lot with me..since my friends are big flirtacious people. i still <3 them (no, not like that..) but it can get to me at times...especially when i really like the guy!

[silver-rain]

hah, yeah that happened to me before. but, i ended up with him, and we went out for around 4 months. it just turned out that he liked flirting with other girls... anyways, i guess you talk to your friend about how you feel.

[sunissed14127]

I would feel jealuous. Just try talking to her, and tell her how you feel. tell her that u like him a lot, and you really feel bad/jealuous when you see her flirt with him. but dont say it rude, because she might take it offensive. if she doesnt know that you like him though, i wouldnt say anything, because she didnt know that you liked him.

[*islandgirl4eva*]

I get jealous really easily, and it would definitely hurt...a lot. I wouldn't tell them upfront. My defense against pain is to put up a wall. I would keep my distance for a while, and if they wanted to know what was wrong...well, I would wait for them to ask me to tell them. I'm not sure what would happen after that.

[xj_liana_tx]

VERY jealous.. my friend does that, and my crush seem to like her better than me.. i hate that, and she is all pretty and .. just better than me in every single way except she is dumber

[jr0h]

i'd be jealous too. but i'd try to care less.

[lilphoenix]

the guy i have my eye on is in high school, & he's a grade above me. [i'm 8th]

i met him last year. we were always doing something, mainly play-fighting.

i'm still waiting.


i think we know that we like each other.

i see him with his/my friends.

i really don't give a care.

i know him.

[family_4_2_3]

did u tell ur friend dat u like him? (if u did then she aint a good friend) n i would feel jealous bout it 2 but ill get revenge (if a friend does dat to me then ill think she is back-stabbing me, so revenge it is ~nothing to horrible)

[family_4_2_3]

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[family_4_2_3]

did u tell ur friend dat u like him? (if u did then she aint a good friend) n i would feel jealous bout it 2 but ill get revenge (if a friend does dat to me then ill think she is back-stabbing me, so revenge it is ~nothing to horrible)

[stephenmatthewg9...]

I would shoot the friend that's flirting with him.. But I would feel really left out and sad. If he KNOWS you like him and still does it in front of you, you shouldn't waste your time on him..

[Skyline Drive]

My friend did that with my one and only biggest crush ever..
she leads every guy on aswell.

I felt jealous.. angry.. confused.
Yeah.. it was sad.

[lovescream]

Well.. I dont know if my friends like him. Well, she's REAAAAAAALLY flirty by the way. Yes, I do feel very left out sometimes. Damn hormones! She does know I like him..


Maybe it's just me.. but I think he likes my friend. that'd totally crush my heart because he's the BIGGEST crush I have EVER had.

[gigiopolis]

It's happened to me before, and believe me, it is not a good feeling. It's like, you spend months telling your best friend that you like this guy, and the reasons, and all the things he does, and it's like your friend steals your thunder and runs off with it.

[oo1_Lady]

does your friend know about you liking him? because if they did i would be mad ferious[sp] because thats is backstabbing! but yeah if they didn't know then i would just live with it but flirt with him too ^__^ so i can get him lolx...but yeah thats wat i would do


//edit// but i wouldn't really get mad at them cuz they are my friends but yeah friendship is stronger than a boy

[lilJdawg]

I would be jealous indeed & have a "decent" talk with my FRIEND.

[gigiopolis]

does your friend know about you liking him?    because if they did i would be mad ferious[sp] because thats is    backstabbing!  but yeah if they didn't know then i would just live with it but flirt with him too ^__^ so i can get him lolx...but yeah thats wat i would do
//edit// but i wouldn't really get mad at them cuz they are my friends but yeah friendship is stronger than a boy

That is where you're wrong. She obviously didn't think our friendship was more important. My friend had no idea who this guy was, and I'd known him for years. Then, after she first met him, she instantly started liking him. A true friend wouldn't do that to you. And besides, even if she did like him, it's part of an unwritten code that you aren't to date your best friend's crush/ex.

Anyway, that was a long time ago.

[pikimoo]

Hmm.. I don't really have crushes anymore... but I HATEHATEHATEHATEHATE it when my friends flirt with my boyfriend.

RAWR!!!





btw.. if you're in this situation, get to him first

[RandomHero]

I would feel ashamed. haha. Well, you should of talked to him. Actually, go with your friend & strike up a converstation with him.

[xsweetxcandyx]

i hate it when that happens.. my man// back off lol

[bad_girl]

get over and flirt with him aswell. btw, does ur friend know that u like him??

[yskulmate]

jealous of course. but u can talk to your friend about that..