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 Jan 6 2005, 08:00 PM
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 it's our chemistry  Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775  |
Ok, since a lot of people are making such a big deal about others being shallow, I just wanted to say this.
I'm sorry, but everybody is shallow, no matter how many times they deny it. It's true that some of us judge others more on looks than others do, but in the end, people are simply attracted to what they consider "beautiful." People claim that they "only go for personality," but how can you tell a person's personality by simply looking at them? And even if you talk to them first, you are more likely to want to know the personality of the more attractive person. It's human nature to be attracted to beauty, and even if you try not to actively express your shallowness, people simply are. For example, every day you look at people and make a judgement on them based on their apperance; clothes, hairstyle, etc. If the person you see is well-dressed and well-groomed, you are more likely to view them positively as opposed to an unkempt person. Yea, this doesn't excuse shallowness in any way, but I just wanted to say what I think. ^_^ |
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Jan 6 2005, 08:11 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Everything that person said is so damn true.
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Jan 6 2005, 08:29 PM
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of course everyone is shallow....
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Jan 6 2005, 08:31 PM
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It's just that some people tend to be more shallow, to the extent where it gets ridiculous.
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Jan 6 2005, 08:34 PM
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yeah, it's true..some people have more of a shallow taste or personality or whatever than others..and it actually isn't a good thing at times, but that's just the way it is.
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Jan 6 2005, 09:17 PM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
yeah dude. everyone is shallow. who doesnt know that..
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Jan 6 2005, 09:36 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
even though i would like to think of myself as un-shallow but damnit i am to some extent... i would rather talk to someone who has a clean apperance and lets say a hobo...
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Jan 6 2005, 09:38 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Yeah. Some are just more shallow than others.
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Jan 6 2005, 09:41 PM
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 mosh. Group: Member Posts: 1,841 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,114 |
yeah. you're right
i'm somewhat shallow myself. alot of people say they arent shallow, when really they are. they go around yelling "OMG I LOVE [insert celeb name here]". when really, they're just loving them for the looks (most of the time). 
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Jan 6 2005, 09:41 PM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
I agree with you 100%.
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Jan 6 2005, 09:53 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i agree with you a lot. but some ppl just push those feelings away or those judgement made; others just uses it .. and ierno.. i know everyone is shallow. but some are just kinda showing it more than others.
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Jan 6 2005, 10:02 PM
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QUOTE(jr0h @ Jan 6 2005, 10:17 PM) yeah dude. everyone is shallow. who doesnt know that..  She was saying that because some people say they aren't shallow. Anyways, everyone is shallow. But I mean, we are humans and we always want to get the better things in life. I mean, there are some people that tend to be more shallow than others. It's human nature to be shallow and we can't just help it when we see something we think of as "nice." |
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Jan 6 2005, 11:23 PM
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 wake me up when september ends Group: Member Posts: 281 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,381 |
im shallow, i dont like it when people say they arent shallow because like you said, everyone is. i think that paragraph is totally awesome.
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Jan 7 2005, 12:56 AM
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 oh sweet pestilence Group: Member Posts: 2,251 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,876 |
exactly.
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Jan 7 2005, 01:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Yeah, you are so correct. Props for you. (=
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Jan 7 2005, 03:24 AM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
yea everybody is shallow.... I try to be less but i jut its part of human nature
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Jan 7 2005, 06:48 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
everyone is shallow.
(personal message: fk u, nicodemus! calling me cheap! read this now, EVERYONE is shallow. so there.) |
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