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 Jan 3 2005, 11:43 PM
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yeah it seems kinda early and with that kinda situation...but yeah i agree with you. i'd wait to say it until i really, really meant it.
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Jan 4 2005, 08:28 AM
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Jan 4 2005, 11:45 AM
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QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Jan 3 2005, 6:34 PM) it's too early... because your... 23  Well, i don't really think that just because he is 23 is a good excuse for it to be "too early". When you are in LOVE, age really doesn't mean anything. Most likely, you love your mom right? Probly since you were born. So who's to say you can't love someone else just as quickly? ... think about it. |
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Jan 4 2005, 11:57 AM
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What does it matter? People say "I love you" all the time without meaning it.
Notice what she says and how she acts. As in, she loves you, but does her actions show her love for you? |
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Jan 4 2005, 03:00 PM
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i think partly i'm a little scared because she had broken up w/ her ex of 3 years late last summer (about 5 months ago). god, love can be confusing
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Jan 4 2005, 11:59 PM
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within a week or two weeks of the relationship
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Jan 5 2005, 03:26 AM
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it's not really too early if she really means it. i mean, cant u be loving someone in 3 weeks? yess, yes u can.
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Jan 5 2005, 10:21 AM
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Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
QUOTE(RavedandConfused @ Jan 4 2005, 3:00 PM) i think partly i'm a little scared because she had broken up w/ her ex of 3 years late last summer (about 5 months ago). god, love can be confusing Like I said, if she wants to tell you that she loves you, that's great and all, but what's more important is how she shows her love. Remember the saying "you talk the talk but you can't walk the walk"? If she says she loves you and her feelings for you are projected through her actions, then live for the moment. Why take into consideration of all the past when it can hinder your happiness with her? If you doubt her, question her, then it's going to hurt her and she'll break up with you eventually. It also shows how insecure you are. Though it is okay to be insecure sometimes, don't let it rule your life and destroy this chance of love for you. |
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Jan 5 2005, 07:36 PM
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Only if she means it, it's not to early at all.
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Jan 6 2005, 01:49 AM
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f**king this girl met my bf for less then a week and says she loves him! WTF? get a life. Hate it when ppl use the word LOVE freely when they don't know what it means.
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Jan 6 2005, 07:26 PM
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i dunno .. depends i guess
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Jan 6 2005, 07:47 PM
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Highly doubt she meant it. She barley knows you after 3 weeks.. That is way too early.
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Jan 6 2005, 08:15 PM
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I think it's too early but if she says it & means it, then it's okay. I think you should wait 'bout another month or so.
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Jan 7 2005, 02:53 AM
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haha everybody with their early boyfriends and girlfriends usually, say "i love you" and don't really understand the true meaning of the words. Umm. I think your friend is a little too early for saying that. True love is hard to find and it takes a long ass time to find your "soul mate" or "the one"
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Jan 7 2005, 09:47 PM
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well it really depends. how long have you known her b4 you guys went out? and how well do you?
you see my bf; we knew each other for.. a long time. so we like said it like yeah.. :] do YOU love her? |
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Feb 2 2005, 08:16 PM
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does she REALLY mean it? how old are you 2?
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Feb 6 2005, 06:20 PM
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yes.
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Feb 6 2005, 11:31 PM
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QUOTE(tungtwista @ Jan 3 2005, 5:43 PM) 3 weeks and already saying i love you. damn thats heckkkaaa earlly. sometimes peopel just say those words, cuz they cant find another word to use. curious. what is a word for more than like but less than love. =\ the word for that would be "lust". and yea, thats way to friggin early. |
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Feb 6 2005, 11:51 PM
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Yep that's early. I had my friend's friend come over, and in an hour he just confessed he like me. O___OT
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Feb 18 2005, 11:07 AM
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QUOTE Definition of Love (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3) : affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests (4) : warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion <love of the sea> (5): the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration (6) : a beloved person : DARLING -- often used as a term of endearment (7) British -- used as an informal term of address -taken from Merriam-Webster Online I think if any of this relates to your situation...its never too early |
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Feb 18 2005, 11:29 AM
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i think there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them. she could possibly love you after only three weeks but i don't really know if she could be IN LOVE with you! i personally think it is too early.
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Feb 18 2005, 11:58 AM
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one day is 2 early.
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Feb 18 2005, 12:43 PM
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Asking you out and then saying I love you is WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too early.
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Feb 18 2005, 01:17 PM
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after a day or two, thats just gonna be scary for me when they say i love you already. most of the time, it's mostly not.
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Feb 18 2005, 01:39 PM
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i guess its too early to say it before ou feel it.
after you have falen in love, why not let it out. FREE LOVE FOR ALL! WOOT! |
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