sex help, .... Options

[*AngelicEyz00*]

how is underaged sex illegal?

[*Solipsist*]

take ^her^ advice.

What the hell ever gave you the idea that I was a chick?
...
You're lucky I promised nuna I'd be good.

- Solipsist

[bad_girl]

trust the condom.

[Shattered_Hope]

It's really young for you to be having sex..but if you don't get your period this month...don't do anything stupid....becuz you're still young and sometimes the schedule will skip a month or be really really late. Don't wry so much. But yea..there's always a chance for you to be pregnant..you knew what you were getting yourself into....so if you are there's no blaming anyone..live up to the consequences that befall your actions. Meh, grow up and worry less. There are many solutions even if you are pregnant.

[candiceness]

how is underaged sex illegal?

i agree. i think it really depends where you LIVE first of all..i never heard of the "underage sex" law..i've heard of 18 year olds getting arrested for having sex with minors but theres no such thing as an "underage sex" law.

1. Stupid question.

2. You're not old enough to have sex.  

3. You can become pregnant AND use a comdom?

4. No.

1. its not a stupid question cus the girl just needs help. if you dont know or can't help then just dont reply.

2. don't judge her by her age. if she thinks shes ready for it then let her make her own decisions. you dont even know the girl so dont tell her shes not ready.

3. and yeah you can become pregnant and use a condom. there are such things as condom breakage or slippage.

5. yeah.



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all you people responding with

"omg 14 year olds are stupid these days having sex your all dumb blah blah its your fault your pregnant i hope you do get pregnant cus your stupid blah blah what are you thinking your too young bla blah"

seriously, back off of her..my gosh. did she ASK for your opinion of whether or not shes too young? thats not the matter here. she didnt ask for your opinion she just needs some advice here. if you dont have it, or dont wanna give it, dont reply. thats not her main concern..she never said she regrets having sex here. and your replies are actually pretty cruel. back up off of her cus she just has some questions if you cant answer them..dont reply with mean things. thats not something she needs to hear in her state. and if she thought she was ready to have sex then let her think what she wants. and if she does end up pregnant then she'll learn to take responsibility. its not like her entry says "OMG I THINK IM PREGNANT IM SO STUPID HELP!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!"


and, you people act like its nothing thats happening these days. i see 10 - 12 year olds having sex. its not uncommon. i'm not judging and saying its right, but i'm saying you guys make a huge big deal acting like its unheard of. and i'm not saying just cus everyone else does it doesn't make it right. i'm just saying its common, younger people having sex. it may not be right, but its common.



anyway, back to you.
your probably not pregnant if you used a condom. but there may be that chance it broke, but thats highly unlikely if symptoms or anything didnt appear. don't worry about it but if its really getting to you you should buy a pregnacy test. either way, dont go crazy over it. if you do end up pregnant, just remember, it was your choice to do it so i hope your not one of those girls that blame the guy for getting them pregnant. but other then that, dont worry.

[sammehmyst]

If you live in America, too bad Bush is against abortions.

Have a nice day.

[Just_Dream]

well for new years eve i had sex but now im afraid that i mite get pregnant...i used a condomn...but im still scared...i heard that u cant get pregnant until 12 days after ur period...but im not sure ...please help...

That only is true if your period is regular and you know exactly when it would begin... 12 days after your period? YOu can still get pregnant... because I herad an egg drops after a week.. But then again, it really depends on the person. Nothing is for sure.

Take a pregnancy test. Yea I think you are too young to have had sex, but it is your choice. And anyway, condoms are like.. 99.7% (I think) effective.

Back in my freshman year, a lady came to my Physics class and taught us about sex ed. She said that it's illegal to have sex when you're a minor. Usually, the boy that engages in sexual intercourse is penalized. She said that it doesn't matter if the boy and girl are underaged, and if the girl said she WANTED to have sex, it's still considered illegal. I forgot what she said about how the girl is dealt with, but the boy is mainly blamed and would be sent to court and eccentera.
But hey, that's just what the lady who came into my class said. I'm skeptical about it since I've never heard of the law before, nor have I seen the law written anywhere.

[LiLaZnGirL122]

wut ur like 13 or 14 DAMN U YOUNG GURL!! WUT WAS U DOING?? if u get pregent ima laugh at u cuz u aint lisnting ....

jp jp u prob will b aiite if u do hav a baby get abortion

[angel-roh]

I heard that if you used condomns. It's a 99% chance that you won't get pregnant =] But how old are you on asking this kinds of question?

[*mSz_dOrk_anGeL*]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

Rofl
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Uh, right, so I take it your first time and one night stand.
I don't feel sorry for you.
Use you f**king head.
If you DON'T wanna worry about having a kid, THINK BEFORE YOU f**k!
Jesus.
And your like only 13 -- 14?
Pity what this world has come to.

[islandkiss]

14 years old.

now, you are either seriously desperate and you felt like posting something really random and making something really pathetic up,. or just sexually active and idiotic for having sex at this young age.


you might not be pregnant but condoms don't fully protect you against having stds.

[sammehmyst]

how is underaged sex illegal?

Uh.. the law?

[xnastyninjagrlx]

hmm ok first of all..WTF man???? I hope it wasn't
a much older guy..but anywayzz get the morning after
pill if you want to be extra sure..it's better safe than sorry,
I hope you will consider having sex more carefully
next time..

[megan_x3]

you decided to have sex ... when ur so young . if you had decided to have sex, then you must have been prepared to get pregnate. but since u had used condom . den i guess u would be ok ... i guesss. but its just a chance . just wish and pray for no pregnacy . !!

[bby_cutie]

ur born in 1990 and ur had sex? wow...even i noe better..but neway i dont realli noe much about these things but i suggest u c a doctor

[callie828]

Holy sh*t. You're all so judgmental. It's a little sad the way you need to tool on a 14 year old to feel better about yourselves. Who cares how old she is? What's right for some people isn't always right for everyone. She didn't come in here telling everyone that they should have sex. So why is everyone telling her that she shouldn't have? And she practiced safe sex, she used a condom. So she's smarter than a lot of people my age (early twenties) who don't use any protection at all.

Either she made this up for attention, which is sad and you should feel sorry for how pathetic she is, or she is nervous and regretting a decision she made, which clearly shows that she knows it wasn't the smartest decision for her and that's also sad and you should try to sympathize with her situation. Like any of you have never done something and regretted it before. She deserves to get pregnant? Come on. That's just plain stupid. Ooooo sex is bad, don't ever have it! You'll be punished! *eye rollage* Like everyone who has sex deserves to end up with an unplanned pregnancy. Uhhh, NO. Glad you're all so perfect though.

Anyway, I hope that, for your sake, you're not pregnant. Try not to worry too much, but if it still ends up stressing you out, confide in someone and then make sure you go to a doctor and have it checked out. Good luck.


Callie

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Uh.. the law?

where does it state that?

[DittotoAnne18]

how is underaged sex illegal?

i know, exactly what im thinking?

[mouse_3k]

Its not a underaged sex law. its basically called Satitory Rape (sp?) nowadays. u know..when a person over age of 18 have sex and stuff with someone under age of 18..yah..satitory rape..i think?


For all those people saying *stop being so mean blah blah blah*, well its the truth, u shouldnt really be having sex at tht age NE ways so whatever. my opinion is tht if you get pregnant and ur 14, then thts YOUR fault. dont be complaining and all since u basically asked for it so back off of me and the other people thinkin sex at age 14 is wrong. i actually care and if it means being strong with my opinions about sex at a young age to get them sum sense, then ill doin it.

To sum it up, dont be sayin *stop saying sex at 14 is bad* to me cause ill say my opinion is i please.

[ghjgfkgfk]

well, we are givin her help too. it would have been better if she came to use before she had sex to see if she should think bout it or somethin but now tht she already did it, there aint nothin we can do. we cant just cut her open and take out her egg or somethin chill.

[i'm not directing this all at you]

this topic pisses me off. more so the replies.

you're not giving any help but making her feel guilty and regreting it even more. don't say crap like, "OMG. HOW CULD U DO DAT!!!!?? DA IZ S0 STOODPID. YOU SHOULDNT OF HAVE D0NE IT!!!!!!!!11`".
no, you have live with it whether you like it not and people have make the best out of their choices. you can't change it. you can't change society.

so what if she made a "mistake". who the hell hasn't?
when you make mistakes you learned something. maybe she'll get pregnat (which i kind of doubt) maybe she won't. she'll learn to deal with whatever has/will happened. because that's life. don't like it? boo hoo. go die. i'm sorry if one person isn't like you or doesn't agree with you but that doesn't mean they have to do what YOU wanted them too. that's stupid. that's not life.

the only way you or every other person here can help is if they answered what she wanted to know. most people here didn't. they just had to push in their damn morals and narrow minded opinions. it was HER choice. she can do she wants. people are goign to have sex anyway and it doesn't matter if it's their first time is "pErFeCt aFtEr yOu gEt MaRrIeD" like the way (or the way your sex ed teacher wants you to do) everyone wants their first time to be.

oh no. not sex! i thought i was going to die a virgin, really!!

[candiceness]

Its not a underaged sex law. its basically called Satitory Rape (sp?) nowadays. u know..when a person over age of 18 have sex and stuff with someone under age of 18..yah..satitory rape..i think?
For all those people saying *stop being so mean blah blah blah*, well its the truth, u shouldnt really be having sex at tht age NE ways so whatever. my opinion is tht if you get pregnant and ur 14, then thts YOUR fault. dont be complaining and all since u basically asked for it so back off of me and the other people thinkin sex at age 14 is wrong. i actually care and if it means being strong with my opinions about sex at a young age to get them sum sense, then ill doin it.

To sum it up, dont be sayin  *stop saying sex at 14 is bad* to me cause ill say my opinion is i please.

she never said it wasnt her fault. if she gets pregnant, then it is her fault for having sex. but like i said, no one asked for anyone elses opinion. she just asked what she would do. never did she say she didn't make a mistake. if she gets pregnant, it is her fault. end of story. she never said it wasn't her fault. and you know what? the truth is mean. but who knows if she really is pregnant or not. if you cant help her with her question then theres no point in replying in this topic. she doesn't need to hear you guys all lecture her telling her shes too young and that she deserves to get pregnant. she never complained, she asked for HELP. she's scared. she never said it wasn't her fault. theres no rule saying
"NO YOU CAN"T HAVE SEX AT 14" if she had sex at age 14 then let her. its just the consequences of her actions that are going to decide that it was her fault. i know alot of young people that had sex at age 12. You people act like its a HUGE deal these days. i know 10 year olds that had sex. its not uncommon. im not going to judge about it and say "YOUR TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX" because number one, its not like you guys know her. you people dont know if she was ready or not. if she thinks shes ready then she'll do it. im not saying i think sex at 14 is wrong or right. i'm keeping my opinion to myself. but don't judge her and go crazy saying OMG YOUR SO STUPID YOU DESERVE TO GET PREGNANT CUS UR DUMB CUS U HAD SEX. come on now. you dont even know if shes pregnant yet. if shes pregnant, then its her fault. but like i said, she never complained or said it wasnt.

[lyin_in_wait]

psstt.....you can still get pregnant even though your on your rag (<--technical term ) well since you used a condom, you may not be but then again something could have slipped...just wait untill your suppose to get your period and if you get it, your not pregnant

[LuvlyGreenEnvy91]

wow.....very young to have sex...but its your choice

[mouse_3k]

yah well ok its her choice but if she is frightened and all, then she should have thought about it before she had sex.

OK GUYS LETS ALL HAVE SEX WHEN WE ARE 12!!! uhh..no..

no one asked for anyone elses opinion.

oh well, we all decided to give it so why not. besides, she should have saw this coming NE wayz. i mean, isnt about 95% of little kids tht has sex going to have a bad rep at school sooo she should have thought about what people will think about her too before she had sex.

[lovescream]

Damn you all.

I'm 11. Not a virgin. No condom. Not pregnant.
That guy who did me was the one who gave me my period so the sperm did nothing because I never have gotten my period at that time.

Go to doctors, dammit.