I like an older guy....., yea.... |
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 Jan 3 2005, 09:32 PM
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 Styna  Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047  |
I like a guy and he's almost 17 in march and, im 13 we are very alike and i talk to him alot and he's cool and hott.
 He thinks i'm cool and its weird cus sumtimes i feel like he's way too much like me and, we might clash but it never happens. I don't really know if he has feelings towards me the way i do for him. I'm afraid that if i tell him he might think i'm kinda weird but then i dunno. Is there a way i can ask him or find out without him not knowing or having suspision that i do. And do you think he might think i'm too young or him?
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Jan 3 2005, 09:33 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
hmm.. well i guess its not that bad.. eww its like me dating my brother
 totaly grossed out now. anyway yeah just control it i guess.. dont let him abuse u, be careful
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Jan 3 2005, 09:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
have someone else ask him who he's interested in?
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| *Azarel* |
Jan 3 2005, 09:41 PM
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.. jailbait is all I can say.
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Jan 3 2005, 09:42 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
umm...
older guys at that age... no-no. |
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Jan 3 2005, 09:43 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
Age isn't really the issue in a relationship unless it's like 10 or 15 years apart. So go ahead and tell him how you feel, you might never know what might happen. Just becareful, he's 17 and you're only 13
 anyways i'm 14 my bf's 16 going 17 |
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Jan 3 2005, 09:44 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
Well, age isn't a big deal when you're older.
But, at 13 liking a 17 year old.. eh.. |
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Jan 3 2005, 09:46 PM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
I'm 14. My boyfriend is 17. We don't think it's weird.
But.. I am turning 15 in a few days. |
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Jan 3 2005, 09:49 PM
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 Afflicted: Hurt. Group: Member Posts: 443 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,295 |
Umm Sorry but that isn't good. I think you might want to reconsider it... in a year he'll be legal and might not be interested in you.
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Jan 3 2005, 10:17 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
right. i like an 18 year old im 14. he likes me i like him, i duno. we never see each other though so we decided to wait..
talk to him i duno |
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Jan 3 2005, 10:20 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
umm i guess it can happen..it will be awkward when he turns 18 though and ur still..barely in hs and all..but i guess anything can happen. I always just go for a guy thts 2 yrs older then me tops..(which is 15-16 or 15-17)
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Jan 3 2005, 10:21 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
QUOTE(emptyminded @ Jan 3 2005, 9:49 PM) Umm Sorry but that isn't good. I think you might want to reconsider it... in a year he'll be legal and might not be interested in you.  I agree. There's not much to say about it. If any of my guy friends ( who are also 17 ) were to date a 13 year old.. I would just be like *cough*gross*cough*. No offense. 
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| *Kathleen* |
Jan 3 2005, 10:34 PM
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Not all guys are like how many of you are thinking this one is. Honestly, just go for it. You only live once, right. And...four years isn't that bad. If you're mature enough to handle it, then go right ahead.
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Jan 3 2005, 10:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,248 |
mmhmm...i think it wouldnt be good...i mean, 4 years and how long is this going to last. and it wouldnt be good if he decided to take advantage of you either...
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Jan 3 2005, 11:15 PM
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 Kris is getting bonified. Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 |
yes go for it...mai friend and i were tlking about this this morning..this 15 yr old grl is pregnate with this 22 yr old..ugh..and it is legal rite?? 4 years apart..think lindsay and wilmer..she had to wait when she was 18 to prove that she was dating wilmer and hes 24..but hey that may just be for 18 yr olds..i duno but go for it..it could happen..it could not and if it doesnt im sorry..
 ..but GOOD LUCK!! 
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Jan 3 2005, 11:24 PM
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none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
QUOTE(aznangel4lyfe357 @ Jan 3 2005, 11:15 PM) yes go for it...mai friend and i were tlking about this this morning..this 15 yr old grl is pregnate with this 22 yr old..ugh..and it is legal rite?? Are you serious... Pshh that is not legal. |
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Jan 3 2005, 11:29 PM
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 You're a blue eyed lightning bolt. Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,896 |
QUOTE(aznangel4lyfe357 @ Jan 3 2005, 11:15 PM) yes go for it...mai friend and i were tlking about this this morning..this 15 yr old grl is pregnate with this 22 yr old..ugh..and it is legal rite?? well yah..THAT'S actually not legal..cuz he's over 18 and she's only 15..she's still a minor and yah..having sex with a minor (if you're 18 and older) is illegal..eh but yah..onto the topic..i would say go for it..that's not a huge age difference..i'm 15 and my bf is 17..age really shouldn't matter unless it's crazy (i.e. 15 years older or so) |
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Jan 3 2005, 11:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Wow, i think that's kinda' old for you. Anyways, ask a friend to ask him how he's feeling towards you.
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Jan 3 2005, 11:33 PM
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 Flamebow Group: Member Posts: 299 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,444 |
a lot of the times it wont work out well... and if where you live is like where I love he can go to jail when he reaches 18.
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Jan 4 2005, 12:08 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
eh, i mean it's not that bad of an age difference, but he might just look at you like his younger sister...so i mean u gotta be careful on what you say. YOu can just simply straight out ask him, or get one of your friends to ask him
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Jan 4 2005, 12:35 AM
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 »»»»»»»»»»» Group: Member Posts: 557 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,261 |
QUOTE(Jayembe @ Jan 3 2005, 9:32 PM) I like a guy and he's almost 17 in march I turn 17 in March! 
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Jan 4 2005, 12:57 AM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
heh. I like an 16-17 year old too.
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Jan 4 2005, 02:23 AM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
13 and a 17? uhh 4 years =/ wut if u get raped? mb u should get to noe him like alot and den u get older and den if u RILLY trust him den date him and say ur feelings to him
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Jan 4 2005, 03:28 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
ehh are you sure he's the right guy for you? How long have you know him?
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| *mSz_dOrk_anGeL* |
Jan 4 2005, 03:31 AM
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Don't worry about it.
It all depends on how mature you are though for him to have an interest in you. I'm 13 and the guy I like is 17 also. But whatever. |
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