saying "i love you", how early is to early? |
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 Jan 3 2005, 02:33 PM
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ok so one of the girls i've been dating has told me she loves me after only 3 weeks......is this to early? what are your experiences?
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Jan 3 2005, 03:15 PM
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Yes.
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Jan 3 2005, 03:21 PM
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its early if you they just say it to say it but dont mean it.
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Jan 3 2005, 05:37 PM
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i think thats kina early...but then again if she really does mean it, its the right time!
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Jan 3 2005, 05:41 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Personally, I think it's a bit early.. but I don't know.
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Jan 3 2005, 05:43 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
too early i'd say. how old are you guys?
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Jan 3 2005, 05:44 PM
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I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
too early i'd say. how old are you guys?
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Jan 3 2005, 05:51 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
eh, i guess it is a bit early, unless she really means it.
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Jan 3 2005, 06:17 PM
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i'm 23. and like i said we've only been dating for about 6 weeks and 3 weeks ago she told me "i love you." When we first started dating it kinda started like "friends with benefits" to be honest. I know i like her but I haven't even committed, let alone goten to the point where i can say "i love you" to her. Those 3 words are pretty important to me and I don't just throw them around
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Jan 3 2005, 06:34 PM
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it's too early... because your... 23
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Jan 3 2005, 06:38 PM
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Umm.. Yeah. It might be. Plus you might be sending her the signs that you feel the same way, you might want to change that.
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Jan 3 2005, 06:43 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
3 weeks and already saying i love you. damn thats heckkkaaa earlly. sometimes peopel just say those words, cuz they cant find another word to use. curious. what is a word for more than like but less than love. =\
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Jan 3 2005, 06:50 PM
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by the way: she's 22 if you were wondering
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Jan 3 2005, 06:57 PM
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i personally think it's way too soon. Then again that's just me ..
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Jan 3 2005, 07:11 PM
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 you wish... Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 273 |
the question is.. do you think its too soon?
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Jan 3 2005, 08:31 PM
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It might be too early, but if she really means it then don't think so
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Jan 3 2005, 08:33 PM
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the thing is i really do think she loves me......she's amazing but like i said i haven't even decided if i want anything more than dating yet.....
the practical part of me says she rushed into saying it but another part of me is amazed she can open up her heart to me either way i'm a little scared and excited at the same time at the way things are going |
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Jan 3 2005, 09:10 PM
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i'd wait another month or two
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Jan 3 2005, 09:15 PM
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Saying I love you
Is not the words I want to hear from you It's not that I want you Not to say, but if you only knew How easy it would be to show me how you feel More than words is all you have to do to make it real Then you wouldn't have to say that you love me Cos I'd already know mmmmm I like that song. - Solipsist |
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Jan 3 2005, 09:33 PM
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well...
i guess loving someone doesn't base on time... but 3 weeks is pretty quick... good luck. |
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Jan 3 2005, 09:35 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(Solipsist @ Jan 3 2005, 9:15 PM) Saying I love you Is not the words I want to hear from you It's not that I want you Not to say, but if you only knew How easy it would be to show me how you feel More than words is all you have to do to make it real Then you wouldn't have to say that you love me Cos I'd already know mmmmm I like that song. - Solipsist  What song is that? anyways, like what mireh said, you should wait a couple more months ` |
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Jan 3 2005, 09:44 PM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
Well.. It depends on the people.. But if she really does love you then its never too early. Though.. some people just overuse the phrase. Or think they're in love but aren't...
If you really think she loves you, then she probably does. All you have to do is decide wether or not you love her too. |
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Jan 3 2005, 09:48 PM
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yes.
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Jan 3 2005, 10:34 PM
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QUOTE(pikimoo @ Jan 4 2005, 10:44 AM) Well.. It depends on the people.. But if she really does love you then its never too early. Though.. some people just overuse the phrase. Or think they're in love but aren't... If you really think she loves you, then she probably does. All you have to do is decide wether or not you love her too. agree with you. If u love her too, this is ur chance. |
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Jan 3 2005, 10:39 PM
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I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 3 2005, 7:35 PM) What song is that? anyways, like what mireh said, you should wait a couple more months ` its called 'more than words'. nice song. |
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