best friend problem, sigh Options

[_sarcastic_]

I used to have this best friend, but we're not talking anymore.
Here's why:
He told me he likes me, but i said i don't like him that way but as a best friend only

He got disappointed and asked my why

I told him it was cause i liked another guy and he likes me back (my bf), we were
about to go together

Then he started screaming at me, asking me why i kept leading him to think htat i liked him as a crush -.-

Then we started argueing with each other and he was the one that said we should continue to be friends and i agreed

Now he doesn't want to talk to me

I don't know what i or we should do.

[cmgchica717]

well sounds like he is childish and just because he did not get his way he is acting immature. I would say try talking to him again but if he is still acting like a baby just ignore him. If he truley does not want to lose you as a friend he will mature and give in and come to you as a friend only and respect that.

Good luck

[christiee_nax]

i agree. he sounds like such a kid. did you do anything to lead him on tho? did you like flirt with him in some occasion?

when you see him, say hi and stuff. even if he doesnt say hi back, he'll still know that you care about him. and when you get the chance, try and talk to him about this whole mess. ask him hows it going and stuff and try talking about normal stuff you talk about first to calm him down and all....

hope it goes well.

[_sarcastic_]

i never did anything to lead him on, we just did what bestfriends would do. He hates me now, he says i'm a waste of his time

[*krnxswat*]

Haha, that's the exact situation I was in last summer; I was in your best friend's position. Anyways, just don't do anything. Give him some time and to think it over himself. Because that's what my friends, and made me realize how selfish I was being, and if I truly liked her then I wanted to things that would make her happy. So, yah. Give him some time.

[Chii]

i guess he probably thought you liked him since you were best friends and best friends who are opposite sexes do plenty of things together that seem like they're going out but aren't, i think you should give him some time to get over it...then try talking to him again, tell him that he was the one who said you should stay friends, if he wants space tell him you'll give it to him, if you really want to stay friends with him, then tell him

[lilJdawg]

He sounds so immature. I think you should slap some sense into him. Talk to him about it. If he still doesn't talk to you, dont' ever talk to him again, you have OTHER friends right?

[_sarcastic_]

yeah i do have other friends

and it has been 3 months now since he last spoke to me

[bad_girl]

well sounds like he is childish and just because he did not get his way he is acting immature.

he really sounds immature. sorta like a brat or something.. (always getting what he wants). but i think u should also stop to think if u've did anything to him particularly that made him think that u were leading him on. not that im saying u were or anything.. but yeah. if it's really his problem, there is really nothing u can do.

[tooeffingcrazy]

Its not surprising. People say they should be friends, but they end up to grow farther and farther apart. I doubt your friendship can go back to were it was, unless you make the move and talk to him. He is probably really heart broken and stuff, and don't want to talk to you at this moment, so just wait and if he doesn't talk then, YOU have to talk to him. Good Luck. ;]

[_sarcastic_]

i'm pretty tired of making the first move to talk to him, i always did for the past three months and he doesn't seem to want to continue the convo. so i just stopped talking to him completely.
was what i did wrong

[christiee_nax]

oh well. time to move on. its been 3 months already. life goes on.

[Shattered_Hope]

he seems childish...and takes everything too seriously...i dont think you did anything wrong..he should've thought twice and remember you two were best friends and best friends are close..I think he was wrong to say that to you. Move on, who needs a best friend whose gonna be like that????

[remini]

Wow. I am in like your exact same position, (a little more complicated, but the same nonetheless) it's almost scary... o_O

It's already been three months, so he was obviously serious about the whole not being friends thing. You can't really do anything about it, so I would just forget it. Or, if it's really bugging you, tell him you meant it when you said you still wanted to be friends, and if he doesn't want to, say you'll respect that, and hope he'll respect you too, and stop acting so immature. (haha... what a run-on.)

[_sarcastic_]

he was the one that told me we should still be friends. and i don't want to lose him as a best friend/or friend, caz we've been really close for quite a long time, and my family loves him.

[Mireh]

go up to him. take him by the shoulders and shake him, and start screaming at him.

or you can just ask him why he's acting like that