one of my guy friends...., oh im so confused |
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 Jan 2 2005, 11:35 AM
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 shake it  Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171  |
Ok so i have this guy friend that is really nice, i laugh at most of his jokes, etc...and i used to like him..i used to like him for a really long time too..(i dont anymore)
My best friend likes him now, and i have no problem with that..its just she obsesses, and that drives me crazy.. Well me and him were talking the other day about me having to babysit on New Years eve, and how the lady that i was babysitting for asked me if I had a boyfriend.. And then he told me that she probably said that just so she would know if the boyfriend would come "babysitting" with me.. so hes like "I love little kids, there awesome" and stuff like that and im like "your gonna come babysitting with me next time (like not as bf/gf...but as friends) so hes like "awesome" and (we always do this) i started flirting, i told him that the little kids would love him, etc.. so we kept on talking and hes like "I think im gonna go to the mall" and im like "ok cool bye" and hes like "Wait...do you wanna come with me?" Now i know he wasnt asking me out..but if i told me best friend any of that she would be mad at me forever... Oh and what should I do to get the point across to her that he doesnt like her (she thinks he does..but hes already told me he hates her...ha)...ive told her before but she doesnt listen.. ahhh please help |
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Jan 2 2005, 11:36 AM
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shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
QUOTE(xo_rock @ Jan 2 2005, 9:35 AM) so hes like "I love little kids, there awesome" and stuff like that and im like "your gonna come babysitting with me next time (like not as bf/gf...but as friends) so hes like "awesome" and (we always do this) i started flirting, i told him that the little kids would love him, etc.. [/size][/font][/b]  when i said we always do this..i mean we always flirt without knowing it |
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Jan 2 2005, 11:59 AM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
yeah again..this should be in relationships unless youre looking for girl advices.
my motto is to be just honest. i think honest solves everything. i mean bad things come from it but later on it'll be better. so basically what im trying to say is just tell your friend. ok so you've told her already. be serious and be really..i dont know just be obvious. have a long talk or something. |
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Jan 2 2005, 12:00 PM
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shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
yeah im looking for girl advice
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Jan 2 2005, 12:03 PM
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 I HEART NICHOLAS TSE Group: Official Member Posts: 2,726 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,116 |
If she doesn't want to believe you.. then i think he should tell her himself
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Jan 2 2005, 01:48 PM
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i think he should go up to her & tell her how HE feels obviously, she doesn't listen to you.
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Jan 2 2005, 03:22 PM
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 Life without danger is a waste of oxygen. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,077 |
It doesn't really sound like she is a very good friend if she won't even trust you to tell her the truth... I think he's gonna have to tell her that he doesn't like her. And then you're just going to have to be there for her when she starts bitching and crying etc...
Sounds to me like he likes you and that you're lying to yourself about not liking him... But that's just what I get from this one little story... |
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Jan 2 2005, 04:46 PM
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QUOTE(lookitskim @ Jan 2 2005, 12:03 PM) If she doesn't want to believe you.. then i think he should tell her himself ^^agreed Just tell her, if you don't and she finds something out, then you can lose her as a friend forever, rather than just until she stops liking the guy |
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Jan 4 2005, 04:24 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
If she doesn't believe in you. Tell the guy to tell it to her instead then. I hope he's not afraid of doing that. Anyways what you have said there sounds so familiar. But I didn't like him for a very long time. I just liked him for like 2 months and moved on. My friend is obsessed with him too. I get very mad and jealous about it. But yeah I got over it. And he started to ask me if I can hangout with me. And yes, I hung out with him soo much times. It's not like I have interest in him cause I love my crush, Steven. But I was thinking if he had a crush on me cause he always ask me more than his other school friends. I guess cause I told him I used to like him???
Did you tell this guy that you used to like him? I guess that's why he is being nice to you and wants to be with you a lot so he can get to know you more I guess? |
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Jan 4 2005, 06:27 AM
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like what everyone else says, he should go up and tell her himself it's ususally better
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Jan 4 2005, 06:55 AM
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Show him your own conversations to get her jealous!
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