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 Jan 1 2005, 02:49 PM
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 Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time  Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705  |
Mkay..I was at this party last night at my ex boyfriends house and his friend was there. (i have been talking to him for a while) Well....we were flirting a lot and we layed down on a bed and watching a movie..and he was holding me telling me how beautiful i was and you know, whispering little nothings in my ear. Then he broke one of my bracelets and said you owe me a kiss....And I think you can figure out what happened from there.
But then before I left...he came up to me and said, "Remember, just friends with privilages." Do you think he likes me or he just wanted a make out buddy? And what should I do? I really realy like him..but I don't know what to do. 
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Jan 1 2005, 02:58 PM
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ummmm...
i guess you should talk to him, and ask him about it. like when he was saying "remember, just friends with privilages" what was his uhhh...what do you call it? ummm...expression, like was he really serious?? or what. i dunno...communication is the best thing. i've never really been in a situation like this before. sorry if that didnt help 
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Jan 1 2005, 03:00 PM
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 dude he wanted some ass nd he got some it seemz
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Jan 1 2005, 03:07 PM
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Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
QUOTE(abebedreamer @ Jan 1 2005, 3:00 PM) dude he wanted some ass nd he got some it seemz Hey now, I gave him no ass. Just making out on a bed. No more. 
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Jan 1 2005, 03:11 PM
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 Bohemian Rhapody adict Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,305 |
I really think that this gy just wanted a make-out buddy. As awful as is seems, maybe if he did just want you to makeout with, he wasn't worth loving anyways.
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Jan 1 2005, 03:12 PM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
just ask if he likes u and then just talk about some stuff about yall
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Jan 1 2005, 03:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Just ask him if he likes you or tell him your feelings.
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| *Kathleen* |
Jan 1 2005, 03:59 PM
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Well...do you just want to be friends with privileges? If not, then tell him so...I mean, if he said that, I don't think he likes you. Blah. Trust me on that. Guys just...are...meh. You should move on - there's plenty of guys out there for you.
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Jan 2 2005, 12:00 PM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
i cant really tell either cuz i dont know what type of person he is and you didnt really give a background of him. but im guessing hes one of those make out buddies
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Jan 2 2005, 12:41 PM
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this is just like One Tree Hill, "Friends with Benifits"but then they broke that benifits and just sttarted a relationship
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Jan 2 2005, 12:52 PM
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 you are hott Group: Member Posts: 164 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,339 |
no no no no no no. thats bad. he's just using you to get some. friends with benefits always inclues one person who actually has feelings for the other person. they are the ones who end up getting hurt because they see their guy with another girl or whatever and get jelous and hurt. those things never work out i promise! if he likes you back he'll want you. and want you for more than just kissing and making out and gettin anything else.
well.. thats what i would do anyway. |
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Jan 4 2005, 04:20 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
He probably IS just flirting with you. Or like he's showing you that he got some interest in you.
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 4 2005, 04:39 AM
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i think he wants you for what he told you --- a friend with privilages/benefits.
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Jan 4 2005, 08:42 AM
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