Pregnant Girls Options

[BEBEx_iNFAM0USS]

i think it is wrong to care more about the schools reputation that the health of the girl and the baby. would you feel the same way if that happened to someone you care about?

[runforfun529]

Saying that you don't want her at your school is just... stupid on your part.

I agree that she shouldn't be on drill team anymore, but she shouldn't be kicked out of the school. People will get used to her, and I don't think it matters whether you are pregnant or not. She is already suffering enough because she is pregnant in high school.

[sammi rules you]

OMGZ NEVER AN ABORTION!!!!!111

she can have an abortion if she wants. how does it affect you in any way? maybe then you won't be so embarrassed of her when she has no baby in her stomach.

she can stay on the team, just not perform. she could probably perform without endangering the baby for a little while at least anyway.

i don't see what the big deal is..

[*tweeak*]

well then how does it effect us when people weve never met get murdered?

but if her parents are supportive, and at this point people already know shes pregnant, so what would aborting accomplish? its too late to save her reputation, and drill team isnt everything.

[starfaerie06]

I don't think she should be allowed to stay on the drill team but she should be allowed to stay at your school.

At my school when a girl gets pregnant she's allowed to stay at the school until she reaches her 8th month. After that she's sent to an alternative school because it's better equiped for delivering a baby if she should go into labor while at school and there isn't time to get her to a hospital. And then after the baby is born the girl is allowed back to my school. I think it's a good system (one of the few at my school).

[Heathasm]

its not that difficult
dancing is healthy for pregnat women....she should be able to dance and perform until her belly is too big be doing what she used to do
and there is no reason to kick her out of the school and send her to an alt...just no reason at all

[heyyfrankie]

i have been thinking. and i think that it will be alright for her to stay at the same school. but i just don't know what kids at school are going to think when they see the second lieutenant pregnant!

[picaso_smile]

Well... I dopnt' really think she should be kicked off the team. But she should consault her doctor and if it could endanger her baby, she shouldn't do it. But on the other hand... if she continues to practice in the same spot wouldn't that create a problem come preformance time when her spot is open?

[callie828]

Wow. If the hot topic of gossip around your school is that the 2nd lieutenant of your drill team is pregnant, I feel really sorry for you.

I think you should stop worrying so much about what other people will think *coughconceitedcough* and support your drill teammate instead of suggesting that she leave the school. Oh the shame she's brought to you and your dance team! Don't you think that's a little selfish? Maybe it's not about you and what people will think of you and how they'll react to you and your dance team. I think she's in a little bit of a worse position than you are, so excuse me for not sympathizing with you.

If she's capable of dancing then she should be allowed to until which time she can no longer safely complete the routines. Her spot should then be held for her until she can return to the team.

You might want to hope that if anything should happen to you, your teammates would be a little nicer and more understanding.


Callie

[burnoveride]

i think she should stay and do what she loves to do because it seems that you and the school only care about winning and winning isnt everything isnt that being selfish? if so thats wrong only thinking about you and the school and winning maybe she made a mistake but only thinking whats best for the school is wrong talk to her help her out because maybe one day it could happen to u and god knows she's prolly stressed out and she could use some help :)

[toodlepops.]

she should perform while she can. when she starts showing, sum1 should substitute her. iono.