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Dec 29 2004, 04:39 PM
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![]() This bitch better work! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
My sister is on the Drill Team at our school. And the 2nd lieutenant, yes, the third best dancer on the team, got pregnant. And the girls mom just happens to be the director of of the drill team!!
so do you think that she should be able to stay on the team, keep her high rank, and go to the same school? I don't want her to. Because when my school goes to competition and she can't perform because she has a baby, it makes our school look bad! what do you think? |
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Dec 29 2004, 04:43 PM
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no one on our colorgurad has ever gotten pregnant (well, not during the season at least...) she should be able to perform while she can, and once she starts showing, she probably wouldnt be able to keep performing anyway. they cant kick her out of school though. that would be wrong.
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Dec 29 2004, 04:46 PM
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![]() This bitch better work! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(tweeak @ Dec 29 2004, 4:43 PM) no one on our colorgurad has ever gotten pregnant (well, not during the season at least...) she should be able to perform while she can, and once she starts showing, she probably wouldnt be able to keep performing anyway. they cant kick her out of school though. that would be wrong. well, they wouldn't exactly kick her out of school, they would just send her to an alternative school. She would still get an education, just not at my school. |
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Dec 29 2004, 04:46 PM
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![]() Quand j'étais jeune... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
How can she even perform? Wouldn't it endanger the fetus?
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Dec 29 2004, 04:46 PM
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Can't someone substitute her?
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Dec 29 2004, 04:53 PM
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QUOTE(Frankie_08 @ Dec 29 2004, 4:46 PM) well, they wouldn't exactly kick her out of school, they would just send her to an alternative school. She would still get an education, just not at my school. i know that, but still, no. we definitely have plenty of pregnant girls walking the halls. you get used to it. |
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Dec 29 2004, 05:03 PM
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![]() Quand j'étais jeune... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Wait a minute...
What's wrong with going to the same school as your pregnant sister? You can watch out for her, take care of her, and be there for her. You ARE her family aren't you? |
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Dec 29 2004, 05:06 PM
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Dec 29 2004, 05:33 PM
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QUOTE Can't someone substitute her? Ditto |
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Dec 29 2004, 05:57 PM
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QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Dec 29 2004, 5:03 PM) Wait a minute... What's wrong with going to the same school as your pregnant sister? You can watch out for her, take care of her, and be there for her. You ARE her family aren't you? the pregnant girl is not my sister. if she was, than the director would be my mom. and someone could substitute her but she wants to still be on the team and perform! and everyone is like, you have a baby! and she is like, i don't care, i want to dance! |
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Dec 29 2004, 06:00 PM
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^ lmao i dont know why but that made me laugh.
i dont think she should stay on the team, but maybe the school. wth.. she got pregnant. umm.. she shouldnt stay on the team defintly because it could be bad to her health. i mean, cant she get abortion or something? |
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Dec 29 2004, 06:16 PM
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QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Dec 29 2004, 6:00 PM) ^ lmao i dont know why but that made me laugh. i dont think she should stay on the team, but maybe the school. wth.. she got pregnant. umm.. she shouldnt stay on the team defintly because it could be bad to her health. i mean, cant she get abortion or something? i hope she would never get an abortion! that is not the answer! |
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Dec 29 2004, 07:18 PM
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yeah, I think it would be really unhealthy for the baby, so I don't think she should continue with the drill team, in my opinion.
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Dec 29 2004, 07:27 PM
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they shouldnt kick her out of the school or dance team or anything. she's having a baby so she needs extra care, maybe she should take abreak away from teh dance team for a while until her baby is born.
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Dec 29 2004, 11:12 PM
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![]() Quand j'étais jeune... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
QUOTE(Frankie_08 @ Dec 29 2004, 5:57 PM) the pregnant girl is not my sister. if she was, than the director would be my mom. and someone could substitute her but she wants to still be on the team and perform! and everyone is like, you have a baby! and she is like, i don't care, i want to dance! OMG, I'm a nutcase. Ignore me. |
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Dec 29 2004, 11:16 PM
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she'll find out soon enough that she CAN'T dance when she's 8 or 9 months pregnant lol.
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Dec 29 2004, 11:20 PM
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Why would she have to go to another school??
I mean, yeah she should stop dancing after a few months.. but then after she has her baby she should be fine. |
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Dec 29 2004, 11:20 PM
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Dec 29 2004, 11:33 PM
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QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Dec 29 2004, 6:00 PM) ^ lmao i dont know why but that made me laugh. i dont think she should stay on the team, but maybe the school. wth.. she got pregnant. umm.. she shouldnt stay on the team defintly because it could be bad to her health. i mean, cant she get abortion or something? abortion is wrong! yes yes, wrong thread or maybe she wants to stay on the team so she can inadvertantly lose the baby, and have it be an accident... |
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Dec 30 2004, 12:07 AM
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Well if she wants to keep dancing... she should get an abortion.. if she doesn't want an abortion... I don't see how she could keep dancing until after the birth... and even then...
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Dec 30 2004, 12:41 AM
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![]() Delightfully Eccentric Band Nerd ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,272 |
She shouldn't dance...if she's pregnant, and she wants the baby, she shouldn't dance. It might or might not hurt the baby, but why take the risk?
If she doesn't want the baby, then she should get an abortion. I don't think abortion is wrong if it's saving the mother's life (unless her parents are totally okay with it, and she's ready to take a lot of time out her teenage/school life for her baby). Whether or not she wants to stay on the team and keep her rank depends on whether she wants her baby. I mean, she won't be able to practice or perform while pregnant, and after birth, she'll be busy taking care of her baby! Either she will have to do it, or her mom--the drill team can lose a dance or the director. I dunno...just what I think. |
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Dec 30 2004, 02:31 AM
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QUOTE I don't want her to. Because when my school goes to competition and she can't perform because she has a baby, it makes our school look bad! what do you think? Not trying to be a d**k or anything but that comment really irked me. Why would you be embarrased about there being a pregnant girl on your team? To me thats almost the same thing as racism/discrimination. Her being on the team when shes not pregnant should not affect you or the team in anyway unless you believe that strongly in teenage pregnancy. It will not sway the judges and the opinions the other schools get are worthless. If all people in your school think like you I wouldnt be surprised if this girl has an abortion or commits suicide from the torment she would recieve. Edit: Hmm I just noticed I could have misunderstood the comment, if you mean she shouldnt be out there dancing than I agree with you completely, but if you meant she shouldnt be able to travel and remain on the team than my thoughts are as expressed. |
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Dec 30 2004, 09:34 AM
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![]() Dark Lord of McCandless ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Geez it's like you people ahve never heard of abortion before...
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Dec 30 2004, 11:01 AM
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wait...drill team? dancing? don't u guys do ...*drill* on drill team? i dun understand...maybe it's cuz i'm from canada
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Dec 30 2004, 11:17 AM
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QUOTE(abstracted @ Dec 30 2004, 12:41 AM) If she doesn't want the baby, then she should get an abortion. I don't think abortion is wrong if it's saving the mother's life (unless her parents are totally okay with it, and she's ready to take a lot of time out her teenage/school life for her baby). well, if her mother the drill team instructor would let her stay on, then her parents must be ok with it |
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