love triangle[sorta], I love my best friend |
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 Dec 30 2004, 10:38 PM
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Alright... I've loved my best friend for 3 years... I know it isn't wise to do so, but my mom even told me we'll be together someday. I used to believe that... until he fell in love with my other best friend, and I mean real love. The kind of love that I have for him, but he and she have not been doing good at ALL, but he will NOT give her up, and I would never hurt him OR her, and I don't want to get in the middle... but he and I are inseperable. If I'm upset, who always holds me until I'm done crying? He does. We went to a big Christian convention, and we held onto each other and prayed and cried. It's just... we've been through so much, and I want to have the most wonderful relationship with him under God. I could see myself growing old with him, and my friend that's dating him, doesn't love him at ALL. If she broke up with him, it'd kill him...I don't care if you guys are Christian or not... please help...?
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Dec 30 2004, 10:45 PM
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um i dont really get the genders...can you like chart it out?
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Dec 30 2004, 10:51 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Ah.. good old wholesome Midwestern values...
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Dec 30 2004, 11:30 PM
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Since you're a Christian....
I would try to keep being friends, pray about it, and trust God to answer and/or work it out. It may be hard, but hang in there.  (yeah, I'm a Christian)
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Dec 31 2004, 01:04 AM
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if ur friend breaks up with him, the u'll be there to comfort him. in the end he'll realize who's best.
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Dec 31 2004, 03:52 PM
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QUOTE(D4rkf4m3 @ Dec 30 2004, 10:45 PM) um i dont really get the genders...can you like chart it out?  I'm female, he's male, and his girlfriend is female |
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Dec 31 2004, 04:38 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
hrm..i dunn dink you should jusz jump in righ now. Comfort him if one day need be..thaa your friend dumpsz him..'n yea..see how thingsz go.
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Dec 31 2004, 04:43 PM
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wait and see what happens i guess..
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Dec 31 2004, 05:12 PM
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I just... I've been praying for it for a long time, and who knows. I went to a huge Christian Convention with him in Rochester, Dec 27-30, and I felt better when I got back, and he andI had an awesome experience there. He was all excited, and you know what for? For the fact that he prayed for his girlfriend a lot and that's all that's on his brain. I don't know, should I be happy? Yes.
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Dec 31 2004, 05:33 PM
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All you can do is pray and wait, and wish him a happy relationship. If you guys were meant to be, you guys will eventually get together someday.
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Dec 31 2004, 06:50 PM
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I should keep praying. I think. I guess.
Yes. |
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Dec 31 2004, 08:09 PM
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you should comfort him when your friend breaks up with him. until then, keep on waiting & praying.
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Dec 31 2004, 08:45 PM
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Mm. Thank you for the help, everyone. I will always be there for him. I'm not sure if this is allowed or not, but I have another problem. My 2 friends were in South Asia during the tsunami, and I don't know if they are alive or not. I cannot get ahold of either of them. What should I do?
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Jan 1 2005, 10:25 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
you want him to be happy right now? just leave him be with his current girlfriend. im sure it really hurts to see this but its whats best right now. if its in gods plan for him to start liking you, then, yays! right now, what he needs is his best friend
. just make sure you're always there for him no matter what and yah, maybe he'll see that you really are who he's supposed to be with.
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Jan 2 2005, 08:22 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
QUOTE(bad_girl @ Dec 31 2004, 1:04 AM) if ur friend breaks up with him, the u'll be there to comfort him. in the end he'll realize who's best. i totally agree. have you tried dropping hints to him? iono |
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Jan 2 2005, 01:31 PM
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i've tried before, but he's so stupid. i swear. i love him, but my GOD he's stupid.
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Jan 2 2005, 04:16 PM
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Time will tell. If their relationship wasn't meant to be then in the end, you know that you two will end up together and he'll realize what he was missing. I think you should wait until you know..the two are broken up so that you don't lose a friendship even if you gain a relationship.
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Jan 2 2005, 04:34 PM
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 WANTED..for sexyness Group: Member Posts: 1,050 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,290 |
QUOTE if ur friend breaks up with him, the u'll be there to comfort him. in the end he'll realize who's best. lol i agree. |
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Jan 2 2005, 11:57 PM
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::nods:: thank you.
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