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 Dec 30 2004, 09:49 PM
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well my gf is very anxious about our relationship and im sorta not...i mean shes constantly calling me.. and i think shes obessesed..do you guys think i should break up with her?
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Dec 30 2004, 09:59 PM
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You're sorta not... as in you don't love her?
That's mean. Why'd u want to go out with her in the first place then? If you REALLY don't like her, break up. |
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Dec 30 2004, 10:02 PM
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i mean yea..im in a really difficult position right now...im think yea..should i let her grow on me for a few weeks and see how it goes or should i just break it off right now
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Dec 30 2004, 10:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
If you let her grow on you, don't you think she'll like you even more?
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Dec 30 2004, 10:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,752 |
QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Dec 30 2004, 10:08 PM) If you let her grow on you, don't you think she'll like you even more?  yea but if i waited awhile i might have a liking for her and yea...love is not a factor in this relationship because i dont think she really knows what LOVE means |
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Dec 30 2004, 10:10 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well you sound like you don't like her, and is not interested in the relationship, so i think you should break up
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Dec 30 2004, 10:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,752 |
yea i think you're right..i dont want this to go any further i guess..
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Dec 31 2004, 12:06 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
might as well do it now...don't lead her on (like my bastard good for nothing ex did who by the way should die
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Dec 31 2004, 12:16 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Don't lead her on. She is obiviously more interested in you then you are in her. Right ? Tell her how you feel and break it off, nicely..
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Dec 31 2004, 08:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Sounds like you don't love her as much as she does to you. Tell her your feelings & break up with her. Don't lead her on.
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Dec 31 2004, 10:17 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, i agree with everyone- if you don't like her, then you should just break up with her and not lead her on
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Jan 1 2005, 01:29 AM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
She's not obsessed, you just don't have feelings for her. My friend was in that posistion just today until she broke it off today. If you don't break it up now, you will feel like you hate her more and more and more.
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Jan 1 2005, 04:36 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
she should be obsessed with u. do u seriously want her obsessed with someone else?break up with her if u want to, nobody's stopping u. but i dont think she should be dumped just because she's insecure. talk to her about it, make sure she feels good around u and not at all nervous or like yeah..
but then again.. if u really want to 'cause u dont feel comfortable in a situation like that.. then just break it off. |
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Jan 1 2005, 05:57 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(say_what_you_mean @ Dec 31 2004, 9:16 AM) Don't lead her on. She is obiviously more interested in you then you are in her. Right ? Tell her how you feel and break it off, nicely.. i agree [: good luck! 
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Jan 1 2005, 11:07 AM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
you're still young. you're still 12 years old right now! and im guessing so is that girl. i think she's still in that age when you know.. obsessing with your boyfriend. i was like that too i think
or maybe you're pushing her away and maybe thats why she's obsessing because she feels like you're about to dump her. get what i mean? |
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Jan 1 2005, 11:43 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
do you not like her because she's to clingy, or do you not like her as the way she is?
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Jan 1 2005, 06:39 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
wait; why did you even get together with her if you don't like her? i say you shuld break up cus you're just leading her on or you should talk to her about it
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Jan 1 2005, 08:13 PM
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 easily amused. Group: Member Posts: 189 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,094 |
you sound like you don't have any real feelings for her, so i agree with the others that you should break things off now before you get too deep in the relationship.. cause it might get ugly and feelings will get hurt.
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Jan 1 2005, 08:48 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
um... I think you should be flattered that she really cares so much about you. But if you really need space, then tell her that you need space, that she shouldn't cling onto you so much. I think you should appreciate it because you never know what you've got until it's gone. Show her the affection she deserves. I mean, how long have you been dating her? Maybe she just really wants to be with you. If you're just in it for a "fling," than maybe you don't deserve her.
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Jan 2 2005, 11:37 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you know....if you placed more effort in your little relationship she wouldnt be the one calling you so much....who the hell do you think you are??? Asking some people if you should break up with her or not? That's just stupid and mean. Can't make up your own mind..asking her out and leaving it at that...you are too immature to probably know what a damn relationship even consists of. You're probably the one that doesnt know what 'love' is.
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Jan 7 2005, 03:52 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
well if you dont feel the same way she does about you, mabe you should break up
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Jan 7 2005, 04:01 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
That's me and my ex-bf.
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Jan 7 2005, 09:40 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Jan 1 2005, 8:48 PM) um... I think you should be flattered that she really cares so much about you. But if you really need space, then tell her that you need space, that she shouldn't cling onto you so much. I think you should appreciate it because you never know what you've got until it's gone. Show her the affection she deserves. I mean, how long have you been dating her? Maybe she just really wants to be with you. If you're just in it for a "fling," than maybe you don't deserve her. ooo, i like this answer, screw what i thought, give her a chance |
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Feb 2 2005, 08:17 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
well if you dont like her...then mabye you should break up
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