Not enough, Not content, have you ever felt this way? |
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 Dec 23 2004, 09:46 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything  Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205  |
Have you ever wanted something in a guy so much? And by the time you do get what you've longed for, it's just not as excitement of need/want etc as before? Like, I've had this b/f. We've been going on and off for 3 years almost. I've always wanted him to be the guy who'll kick the other guy's ass if the other guy messes w/ me.. Always wanted him to be the one writing me these romantic poetry...(still do ^__^) But when I wanted it sooo bad, that j/ wasn't what he was.. and after a break-up for 2 months.. we get back together.. and it's like he read my mind.. but my past mind.. And he's everything I wanted--but not everything I want. You know what I mean?.. it's j/ a really weird feeling.. feels like.. such selfish-ness and all this.. and you just wish that you could be soo content w/ what you have.. but you're not feeling that way. You wish you could rewind to your old wantings, but you can't. You want him to be more perfect, but when he is.. you'll j/ expect more and more.. it's like.. he's never good enough.. and you feel like maybe it's yourself who isn't good enough.. That he doesn't deserve you.. and you j/ feel like.. shit..
yeah..sorry if it's too long.. but ever feel like that?? |
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Dec 23 2004, 09:55 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
i kno what u mean
i get like this all the time... but again pplz also say when u r dating.. if this happens.. it's jjust a phase of doubting... just get thru it nd u wil b fine. something like that. dont worry about it. stop doubting... :) -btty. |
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Dec 23 2004, 10:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
I'm like that now, I've always wanted a boyfriend, now that I have one its like... I don't know if I want one
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Dec 23 2004, 10:31 PM
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what's love anyways.? Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,198 |
that's the excuse my exes gave me...
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Dec 29 2004, 03:32 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Nope, it's ok to want to perfect your relationship. =)
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Dec 29 2004, 09:13 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(runforfun529 @ Dec 23 2004, 10:29 PM) I'm like that now, I've always wanted a boyfriend, now that I have one its like... I don't know if I want one  this is kinda how i feel right now |
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Dec 29 2004, 03:37 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
I know what you mean, people are always trying to perfect their relationships to a point where sometimes it becomes to much for the other person. If you really love and cherish your significant other focus on the good things about that person and love them for who they are...quit trying to change them into people they are not because you could eventually end up losing them.
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Dec 29 2004, 11:15 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(cmgchica717 @ Dec 29 2004, 3:37 PM) I know what you mean, people are always trying to perfect their relationships to a point where sometimes it becomes to much for the other person. If you really love and cherish your significant other focus on the good things about that person and love them for who they are...quit trying to change them into people they are not because you could eventually end up losing them. yes i agree, but i also think that you may be making your expectations too high, i want my boyfriend to write me letters and do whatever out of the blue, you just have to tell him what you want or you're not going to get it, sadly men aren't mind readers |
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Dec 29 2004, 11:21 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
i always have such high expectations for my bf... and when i don't get it i'm longing for it... when it happens... theres somethings else i wants... its liek there no limit i just get higher with my expectations i don't think thats good LOL
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