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 Dec 24 2004, 01:56 PM
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 define our lives for us.  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293  |
Has anyone ever broken up or been broken up by on Christmas or christmas eve?
 Today my bf is coming over my house to give me a gift with maria and kyle AND I DONT WANT HIM TO COME BECAUSE my mother doesn't allow me to date boys so she doesnt know. And i cant call him because my mom listens to me talk while I am on the phone. ANDDDDDDDDDDDDD IF SHE FINDS A BOY GOING OVER MY HOUSE TO GIVE ME A PRESENT I AM GOING TO BE DEAD!! I'm spazzing out and I dont know what to do! can somebody help meee... |
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Dec 24 2004, 02:05 PM
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 You're a blue eyed lightning bolt. Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,896 |
ouch..sorry i can't help ya out there
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Dec 24 2004, 02:37 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Eek.
I know this isn't great advice, but continue to sneak around.. I was in the same situation. It all worked out. It's not the best thing to do, and it's good to have good morals.. but hey. It worked.. |
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Dec 24 2004, 05:45 PM
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 november 25th,, <3 Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226 |
woah all you can do is hope and pray your mumme doesnt find out
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Dec 24 2004, 06:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,172 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,045 |
call him.. tell him to meet you somewhere and get tha gift there.
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Dec 24 2004, 06:20 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
talk to him online. how would your mom know he was your boyfriend? just say he's a friend.
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Dec 24 2004, 06:38 PM
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 Somethin' bout the way you shine... Group: Member Posts: 577 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,223 |
^^ also on the phone. tell her hes a friend. I talk to guy friends on the phone.
Meet him somewhere to get the gift. when you come home with it, tell your mom your friend gave it to you BTW in some states its illegal to listen to your childs conversations over the phone. |
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Dec 24 2004, 06:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
tell your mother that he is going away for christmas so, he was giving you a present to drop off one of his friends for him
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Dec 24 2004, 06:42 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
I broke up with my boyfriend once right before Christmas, about 2 years ago. He wrote me the sweetest "I'm Sorry" card for Christmas and we wound up getting back together Christmas day.
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Dec 24 2004, 07:11 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Just say his you're friend :)
That's what I would do... |
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Dec 24 2004, 08:35 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Easy.
Tell your girlfriend (a girl that is your friend) to tell your boyfriend to give your present to her so she can give it to you from him. |
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Dec 24 2004, 09:34 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Dec 24 2004, 1:56 PM) my mother doesn't allow me to date boys so she doesnt know ask her to get to know him, maybe she'll let you go out with him afterwards. |
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Dec 25 2004, 09:10 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
QUOTE(jnukes @ Dec 24 2004, 6:19 PM) call him.. tell him to meet you somewhere and get tha gift there. yea hes rite b like to ur mom im going to da libary!! and wen u come bac wit da gift put it in ur backpack or something ORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR jus say u saw u girl frd there and she gav u a present cuz she was stoppin byu ur house ne ways =) gl |
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Dec 25 2004, 10:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
I would tell the truth.
Sneak around for a while, but give your mother hints and stuff about how you're old enough to date... and explain that your mom doesn't like the idea of guys, and how you guys should be somewhere else to exchange gifts. |
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Dec 26 2004, 04:41 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
y would u break up....
cmon!!!!! is that suppose to be an excuse?? -btty. |
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Dec 26 2004, 05:14 PM
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 Call me Emily <33. Group: Member Posts: 713 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,579 |
How long have you been dating?
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Dec 26 2004, 06:16 PM
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Dec 27 2004, 12:18 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you could just tell your mom that you want to take a walk outside and umm wait for him there..I doubt she'll look at you every second.
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Dec 27 2004, 01:12 AM
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d O r k Group: Member Posts: 154 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,505 |
yeah.. but if she;s overprotective as you say she is, then toby, kill him. XD or i mean, you could break up with him somewhere this week so aaron and I can get off your back.
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Dec 27 2004, 05:54 PM
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 chopstix-ninja Group: Member Posts: 325 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 206 |
heh, what ever you do, don't let ur mom know ur going out with him. My ex and i got caught, we never got back together, it's sad. I still love her after 3 years
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Dec 27 2004, 06:00 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
You are too young for a bf if you're 11.
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Dec 27 2004, 06:00 PM
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 old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
 what de eff...you're 11?!
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Dec 27 2004, 06:02 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
I would have to agree with everyone else to just lie and say that his is your friend.
My ex broke up with me on St Patricks Day 2003 haha |
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Dec 27 2004, 06:03 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
 im sorry i cant help u out... but i can tell u that last year my boyfriend and i broke up around christmas also. u'll be okay, if you do break up. i've been single for a year and im lovin it!
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Dec 31 2004, 04:58 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,483 |
I was just dumped this Christmas Eve, and Trust Me It's Devestating,
Sneaking around is a great answer, just tell her that he's your friend, and then be friends for a long time and when he earns your moms trust then have him reask you out in public *Even though you will have been dating for sometime now* |
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