advice??, i really need some >.< |
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 Dec 27 2004, 04:31 AM
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you and i should have sex  Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,956  |
**i posted this in the girl's locker too because i REALLY need some help. so sorry if u saw this already
 **my friend just realized she's a bisexual. she's really scared and dunno how to deal with it and she asked me and my girlfriend for some advice. since i'm a bisexual, i'm supposed to be able to help her, right? well i can't when i realized i was a bisexual i just told everybody and made a joke out of it and people were mostly like "haha i knew it!! " and they treated me the same. but half of the people in my friend's school (we go to different schools) already dislikes her alot because they suspect she's a lesbian. isn't that HORRIBLE?!? anyways, she's afraid of what's gonna happen if people finds out. she's proud that she's bisexual and doesn't really wanna hide it from everyone (trust me, it's freaking HARD to keep this kinda stuff in). so what do you think she should do?? and how should she tell her parents? i haven't told mine yet and i don't think i EVER will, but my friend hates lieing to her parents(such a goody-goody ). please help oh and we're 16, by-the-way |
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Dec 27 2004, 05:12 AM
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oh man thats hard...im wondering that she has turned bi becuase she doesnt want to be left out because you are too... but maybe im wrong
what i think you should do i not make ppl at your school hate her so much... i think that she should come out because its her and she should be something else but its whether she can survive the consequences of the reaction of others around her worries me.... i hope that help... or its just utter crap |
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Dec 27 2004, 06:01 AM
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well...im only 13 but here's wut i think...i think that she should tell her friends at school..because they MIGHT understand. but still i understand if she doesnt want to because it is a really tough thing...i dont even understand y ppl r constantly makin a big deal if sum1 is bi or gay/lesbian. but gettin bak to the subject...she should do wut she wants to...and she should tell her parents..i mean (i'm straight btw) but the subject came up in my family that if i were gay/bi, then my parents would be disappointed, but they would understand and support me 100% because they love me and dont care, and they want to see me happy. i'm sure the same is w/ her parents, if she tells her parents, they might be shocked, and disappointed, but i'm sure that they will still support her. so that's what i think...hope it helps
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