virginity, im scared to loose it..., help |
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 Dec 25 2004, 10:47 PM
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QUOTE(angel_roh @ Dec 21 2004, 5:08 PM) im scared if i will lose my virginity too  im only 16...good thing i survived so far... T_T;; it's hard...me too..  hehe..and i ish 16 too =)
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Dec 25 2004, 10:53 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
QUOTE(weirdness @ Dec 22 2004, 5:40 PM) like what ze other people said if you dont want to, dont. yeah.. you don't gotta if you don't wanna. hey that rhymed. |
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Dec 25 2004, 11:14 PM
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QUOTE(anqie @ Dec 25 2004, 10:53 PM) yeah.. you don't gotta if you don't wanna. hey that rhymed. no, it didn't. Don't do it until you're ready. And you can always tell your friends that you're non-virgin anymore  They're not gonna know.. unless your boyfriend tells them otherwise. |
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Dec 25 2004, 11:47 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE okay me and my bf have talked about having sex whenever were ready, alot of my friends aren't virgins and they tell me to just get it over with ... i want too but im scared,plus i dont want to bleed on my bf when my hymen breaks... isnt that embarassing although its proly broken already cuz i ride horses every day if ur scared, then dont do it. besides, u dont want to be known as a whore at school sooo...if ur scared, then stop questioning urself cause ur damned not ready |
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Dec 25 2004, 11:59 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
If you are scared then you are not ready. Don't be peer pressured!
All guys want in middle school & highschool is to have sex. Half of them can't even toast their own bread or do their own laundry. I don't think they should take on trying to have sex if they can't even fold their own socks. The end. You guys should be skipping in the park. |
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Dec 26 2004, 12:06 AM
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i'm only 12...in 7th grade and there are girls losing their virginity. it's scary. i don't plan to until i'm like....18.
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Dec 26 2004, 12:06 AM
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well... if you're having ANY doubt at all, you're definitely not ready. when you are, you should know you can trust your boyfriend and you know you have no doubt about it. and you're second guessing it, so i would say to wait. at this age, most of the time it's just the 'in the moment' hormones that lead to it, not the actual wanting and loving/trusting your partner. just save it until you know you're ready.
god, i sound like a nurse or something... 
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Dec 26 2004, 12:23 AM
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 Turn your lights down low... Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,472 |
Many of my friends are not virgins and they tell me to wait becuz they wish they had becuz they were pressured into it or it just wasnt the right guy or time. Youd should feel better about urself knowing u are one. Oh and about the bleeding thing you shouldnt have to worry about being embarrased...if it was the right guy becuz u should feel comfertable with them.
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Dec 26 2004, 01:19 AM
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QUOTE(katybrown09 @ Dec 21 2004, 2:59 PM) see we have talked about it and my bf says that he will wait he doesnt wanna rush me into anything i dont wanna do, i want to but then again i dont... its weird  If there is a doubt (which you are having) then here's the answer: don't. That simple. God your friends aren't virgins? And so young . . . what a shame. My advice, don't lose your innocence so young. If you grow up too fast, then what will you have to look forward to in the future? //EDIT: What the hell? You're 14?!? You're too young to have sex and 90% of the time you'll regret it. Ready to have a baby so young? Condoms and birth control fail sometimes, did you know that? Ready to have sex, ready to have a baby and responsibilities. God, kids these days. Wait until you're at least 18, you won't have legal problems that way. Don't give it up to a horned up 14 year old. Kids these days are getting more degenerated as we speak. |
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Dec 26 2004, 09:02 AM
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hes your bf?? have sex when your married lol coz remeber he CAN dump you
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Dec 26 2004, 11:22 AM
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if ur scared,dont do it
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Dec 26 2004, 11:22 AM
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Uh, then tighten it?
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Dec 26 2004, 11:26 AM
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QUOTE(gponce10104 @ Dec 26 2004, 9:02 AM) hes your bf?? have sex when your married lol coz remeber he CAN dump you i'm assuming divorce doesn't apply to you. |
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Dec 26 2004, 04:02 PM
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Wtf? You're what, 14? And you want to lose your f**king virginity? What the hell has this world become. Sorry, but don't. Seriously, if you don't feel good about having sex in the first place, things like pregnancy and crap will come later, and that's even worse.
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Dec 26 2004, 04:50 PM
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you know alot of people are born without hymen, just so you know
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Dec 26 2004, 05:26 PM
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none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
QUOTE(X_xhidden_tearsx_X @ Dec 26 2004, 4:50 PM) you know alot of people are born without hymen, just so you know That doesn't make it right. Even if she didn't have a hymen , she is still young and is undediced about it which is a clear sign that shouldn't be having sex. The end. 
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Dec 27 2004, 04:09 AM
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dont do it under pressure and do it when ur ready.
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Dec 27 2004, 04:24 AM
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Erm... here's some advice... not written by me though...
How does one stay virgin? KNOW your attitudes and standards and why you choose them and good and practical. VALUE your virginity for your own good and your future great mate. ACT - choose friends with high standards - stay away from dangers and temptations - show others you are proud of your values - be kind but firm just learn how to say no |
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Dec 27 2004, 04:12 PM
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if you're scared to do it then dont do it. just take your time and do what you're comfortable with.
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Dec 27 2004, 04:20 PM
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if your not ready to lose your virginity yet, don't lose it. don't let your friends pressure you into doing it. when you feel the time is ready, you can tell your boyfriend that your ready. if your boyfriend really loves & cares for you, he will wait for you till your ready.
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Dec 27 2004, 06:03 PM
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if you're scared to lose it, you're not ready for it, don't do it. k.
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Dec 27 2004, 07:17 PM
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QUOTE(katybrown09 @ Dec 21 2004, 4:18 PM) okay me and my bf have talked about having sex whenever were ready, alot of my friends aren't virgins and they tell me to just get it over with ... i want too but im scared,plus i dont want to bleed on my bf when my hymen breaks... isnt that embarassing although its proly broken already cuz i ride horses every daya lot of your friends aren't virgins???  that's not cool. plus you're only 14, definetely wait till you're older!
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Dec 27 2004, 10:22 PM
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 I am me. Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,165 |
you should not if you feel pressured. you should not if you feel scared. you should not if you feel embarassed. you will know when the right time is and perhaps it is not now.
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Dec 28 2004, 10:51 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
QUOTE(__xxfrappachino<3 @ Dec 25 2004, 7:47 PM) me too.. hehe..and i ish 16 too =)you're 16  wow... i didnt know that... well you look bit older looking in your picture. i thought you would be 19 or 20 lol
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Dec 28 2004, 11:33 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i don't see what the big deal is, you people shouldn't just outright say "no don't lose it" just give a suggestion, it's not like you know her personally or that you're her, it's her body she can do whatever she wants as long as it's not going to kill or severely damage her.
what's the big deal about losing your virginity when you're 16? i lost mine in august and i'm 16, (soon to be 17 in february), also to be honest, i had sex with my boyfriend  yesterdayblah blah blah we (my boyfriend and i) know that condoms are only 90 something percent effective but whatever, we love each other and it just feels right
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